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The Disadvantages of Poverty

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贫穷的不利

¹ 行为纯正的穷乏人,胜过乖谬愚妄的富足人。

此处请看:第一,什么是穷人的体面与安慰,能使他比邻舍更尊贵,纵然他的贫穷或使他遭人轻看、令他灰心丧气。让他诚实、行在纯正之中,让他持守美好的良心、并显明他确是如此而行,让他在最受试探去欺骗、去背约失信之时,仍始终诚实地言说、行事,然后让他以此自重,因为一切智慧良善的人必都看重他。他有更佳的品格、处在更佳的境况、更得人爱戴、活得更有价值,胜过许多外表光鲜、装腔作势的人。第二,什么是富人的羞辱,纵有一切的排场也是枉然。他若头脑浅薄、口舌邪恶,若是乖谬愚妄的,若是邪恶之人、又藉欺诈与欺压得其所有,他便是愚人,一个诚实敬虔的穷人远胜于他。

² 心无知识的,乃为不善;脚步急快的,难免犯罪。

此处宣告两样事有恶果:第一,无知。没有灵魂的知识乃为不善(有人如此译)。我们岂不当认识自己、认识自己的心吗?无知识的灵魂乃为不善;我们有灵魂原是极大的恩典,但这灵魂若无知识,我们又得着什么益处呢?人若无聪明,就如灭亡的畜类一样(诗 49:20)。无知的灵魂不能是良善的灵魂。灵魂无知识既不安稳、也不甘美;无知识的灵魂能行什么善、又有何益处呢?第二,急躁。脚步急快的人(即行事不加思量、又不肯花时间细察脚下道路的人)难免犯罪;他不能不屡屡偏离标的、踏错许多步,而那些慎思己道的人却得以防免。不思量竟与无知一样有害。

³ 人的愚昧倾败他的道;他的心也抱怨耶和华。

此处我们看见人愚昧的两个例证:第一,他们使自己陷入困境患难、使自己搁浅、自陷窘迫:人的愚昧倾败他的道。人在事务上遭遇挫折与失意、事情不如所期所愿,这原是出于他们自己的愚昧;惩治他们的正是他们自己的罪孽。第二,他们既如此行了,便将咎责推到神身上,他们的心向祂抱怨,仿佛是祂亏待了他们,其实他们是亏待了自己。在抱怨中,我们与自己的平安为敌、成了自我折磨的人;而在抱怨耶和华的事上,我们冒犯了祂、冒犯了祂的公义、良善与主权;将我们因自己的任性、或疏忽、或玩忽所自招到头上的患难,反拿来与祂争闹,原是极其荒谬的,本当归咎于自己,因为这原是我们自取的。参 赛 50:1。

⁴ 财物使朋友增多;但穷人朋友远离。

此处,第一,我们可看出人贪爱钱财之心何等强烈,以致他们肯爱任何人,无论其为人何等不堪,只要他有大量的钱财、又肯慷慨用之,叫他们指望从中得益。财富使人能多送礼物、多设筵席、多行善举,从而为他广结朋友,这些人佯装爱他,因他们奉承他、向他献媚,实则爱的是他所有的,或更是爱他们自己,指望藉他得益。第二,我们可看出人彼此相爱何等软弱。那在亨通时被人爱戴敬重的人,一旦陷于贫穷,便被与邻舍隔绝,无人理睬、无人垂顾、无人探望、无人眷念,反被吩咐离远些、被告知他实在惹人嫌烦。连曾作他邻舍相识的人,也要转脸不顾他、从另一边走过。因人的良心告诉他们当救济扶助这等人,他们便乐意找这样的托词,说他们没有看见。

⁵ 作假见证的,必不免受罚;吐出谎言的,终不能逃脱。

此处我们看见:第一,所警戒的罪——在审判中作假见证、在日常言谈中吐出谎言。人若不曾藉容让自己在玩笑戏谑中、或托词为善而说假话以至此地步,便不至于达到作假见证(这罪上加了伪誓与害人之罪)这般大的不敬之境。人就是如此教练舌头说谎(耶 9:5)。那些容让自己在言谈中放纵说谎的人,无论看似何等深恶假见证,一遇试探,便正走在干犯作假见证那更大邪恶的路上。那些能咽下一句假话的人,已使自己的良心败坏,以致一个假誓也噎不住他们。第二,所警戒的本身:他们必不免受罚;他们不能逃脱。这暗示使他们在此罪上有恃无恐的,乃是逃罚的指望,因为这罪在人手下通常逃脱了刑罚,律法虽严(申 19:18,19)。但它逃不过神公义的审判,神乃是忌邪的,必不容祂的名被亵渎;我们都知道一切说谎的人将在何处得其永远的分。

⁶ 好施散的,有多人求他的恩情;爱送礼的,人都为他的朋友。 ⁷ 贫穷人,弟兄都恨他;何况他的朋友,更远离他。他用言语追随,他们却走了。

这两节是 箴 18:4 的注脚,并表明:第一,那些富足尊贵的人何等被人趋奉巴结、有无数求告者与趋附者。那手握权柄、又能任意授官封职的君王,门前与外厅都挤满了求告之人,他们但凡能从他得着什么,便要崇奉他。许多人求他的恩情,并以得着为荣幸。连大人物也在君王面前作谦卑的恳求者。那么我们更当何等切切渴求神的恩宠,因它远胜于任何属世君王的恩宠。然而看来,慷慨比威严本身更能博取尊敬,因为求告君王的虽多,但爱送礼的,人都为他的朋友;不但那些曾从他受惠、或指望从他受惠的人,要如朋友般乐意服事他,连别人也要如朋友般为他说好话。那些愚妄地慷慨挥霍其所有之人,必有许多趋炎附势者,在其财物未尽之时把他们捧上天,财尽便弃之而去。那些慎重而慷慨的人,藉此结交人脉,或可于他们有益;那些被称为施惠者的人,便享有一种权柄,或给他们行善的机会(路 22:25)。第二,那些贫穷卑微的人何等被人轻看藐视。人若愿意,尽可趋奉君王与权贵,却不可践踏穷人、以轻蔑相待。然而事实却往往如此:贫穷人,弟兄都恨他;连他自己的亲属也躲避他,因他穷乏、有求于人、又指望从他们得些什么,又因他们看他为家族的污点;那么也就无怪乎他别的朋友、连与他毫无亲属关系的人,也要远离他、躲他出去。他用言语追随他们,指望藉恳切的哀求劝动他们善待他,却全然徒劳;他们什么也不给他。他们用言语追随他(有人如此理解),以推托不给他什么;他们对他说他懒惰冒昧,说他是自招贫穷、因此不配救济;正如拿八对大卫的使者所说:“*近来悖逆主人奔逃的仆人甚多;*我怎知大卫不是其中之一呢?”因此让穷人以神为友,用祷告追随祂,祂便必不亏待他们。

英語原文

The Disadvantages of Poverty

¹ Better is the poor that walketh in his integrity, than he that is perverse in his lips, and is a fool.

Here see, 1. What will be the credit and comfort of a poor man, and make him more excellent than his neighbour, though his poverty may expose him to contempt and may dispirit him. Let him be honest and walk in integrity, let him keep a good conscience and make it appear that he does so, let him always speak and act with sincerity when he is under the greatest temptations to dissemble and break his word, and then let him value himself upon that, for all wise and good men will value him. He is better, has a better character, is in a better condition, is better beloved, and lives to better purpose, than many a one that looks great and makes a figure. 2. What will be the shame of a rich man, notwithstanding all his pomp. If he have a shallow head and an evil tongue, if he is perverse in his lips and is a fool, if he is a wicked man and gets what he has by fraud and oppression, he is a fool, and an honest poor man is to be preferred far before him.

² Also, that the soul be without knowledge, it is not good; and he that hasteth with his feet sinneth.

Two things are here declared to be of bad consequence:—1. Ignorance: To be without the knowledge of the soul is not good, so some read it. Know we not our own selves, our own hearts? A soul without knowledge is not good; it is a great privilege that we have souls, but, if these souls have not knowledge, what the better are we? If man has not understanding, he is as the beasts, Ps 49:20. An ignorant soul cannot be a good soul. That the soul be without knowledge is not safe, nor pleasant; what good can the soul do, of what is it good for, if it be without knowledge? 2. Rashness. He that hastes with his feet (that does things inconsiderately and with precipitation, and will not take time to ponder the path of his feet) sins; he cannot but often miss the mark and take many a false step, which those prevent that consider their ways. As good not know as not consider.

³ The foolishness of man perverteth his way: and his heart fretteth against the LORD.

We have here two instances of men's folly:—1. That they bring themselves into straits and troubles, and run themselves a-ground, and embarrass themselves: The foolishness of man perverts his way. Men meet with crosses and disappointments in their affairs, and things do not succeed as they expected and wished, and it is owing to themselves and their own folly; it is their own iniquity that corrects them. 2. That when they have done so they lay the blame upon God, and their hearts fret against him, as if he had done them wrong, whereas really they wrong themselves. In fretting, we are enemies to our own peace, and become self-tormentors; in fretting against the Lord we affront him, his justice, goodness, and sovereignty; and it is very absurd to take occasion from the trouble which we pull upon our own heads by our wilfulness, or neglect, to quarrel with him, when we ought to blame ourselves, for it is our own doing. See Isa 50:1.

⁴ Wealth maketh many friends; but the poor is separated from his neighbour.

Here, 1. We may see how strong men's love of money is, that they will love any man, how undeserving soever he be otherwise, if he has but a deal of money and is free with it, so that they may hope to be the better for it. Wealth enables a man to send many presents, make many entertainments, and do many good offices, and so gains him many friends, who pretend to love him, for they flatter him and make their court to him, but really love what he has, or rather love themselves, hoping to get by him. 2. We may see how weak men's love of one another is. He who, while he prospered, was beloved and respected, if he fall into poverty is separated from his neighbour, is not owned nor looked upon, not visited nor regarded, is bidden to keep his distance and told he is troublesome. Even one that has been his neighbour and acquaintance will turn his face from him and pass by on the other side. Because men's consciences tell them they ought to relieve and succour such, they are willing to have this excuse, that they did not see them.

⁵ A false witness shall not be unpunished, and he that speaketh lies shall not escape.

Here we have, 1. The sins threatened—bearing false witness in judgment and speaking lies in common conversation. Men could not arrive at such a pitch of impiety as to bear false witness (where to the guilt of a lie is added that of perjury and injury) if they had not advanced to it by allowing themselves to speak untruths in jest and banter, or under pretence of doing good. Thus men teach their tongues to speak lies, Jer 9:5. Those that will take a liberty to tell lies in discourse are in a fair way to be guilty of the greater wickedness of false-witness-bearing, whenever they are tempted to it, though they seemed to detest it. Those that can swallow a false word debauch their consciences, so that a false oath will not choke them. 2. The threatening itself: They shall not go unpunished; they shall not escape. This intimates that that which emboldens them in the sin is the hope of impunity, it being a sin which commonly escapes punishment from men, though the law is strict, De 19:18,19. But it shall not escape the righteous judgment of God, who is jealous, and will not suffer his name to be profaned; we know where all liars will have their everlasting portion.

⁶ Many will intreat the favour of the prince: and every man is a friend to him that giveth gifts.
⁷ All the brethren of the poor do hate him: how much more do his friends go far from him? he pursueth them with words, yet they are wanting to him.

These two verses are a comment upon Pr 18:4, and show, 1. How those that are rich and great are courted and caressed, and have suitors and servants in abundance. The prince that has power in his hand, and preferments at his disposal, has his gate and his ante-chamber thronged with petitioners, that are ready to adore him for what they can get. Many will entreat his favour, and think themselves happy in it. Even great men are humble suppliants to the prince. How earnest then should we be for the favour of God, which is far beyond that of any earthly prince. But, it should seem, liberality will go further than majesty itself to gain respect, for there are many that court the prince, but every man is a friend to him that gives gifts; not only those that have received, or do expect, gifts from him, will, as friends, be ready to serve him, but others also will, as friends, give him their good word. Prodigals, who are foolishly free of what they have, will have many hangers-on who will cry them up as long as it lasts, but will leave them when it is done. Those that are prudently generous make an interest by it which may stand them in good stead; those that are accounted benefactors exercise an authority which may give them an opportunity of doing good, Lu 22:25. 2. How those that are poor and low are slighted and despised. Men may, if they please, court the prince, and the princely, but they may not trample upon the poor and look at them with disdain. Yet so it often is: All the brethren of the poor do hate him; even his own relations are shy of him, because he is needy and craving, and expects something from them, and because they look upon him as a blemish to their family; and then no marvel if others of his friends, that were nothing akin to him, go far from him, to get out of his way. He pursues them with words, hoping to prevail with them by his importunity to be kind to him, but all in vain; they have nothing for him. They pursue him with words (so some understand it), to excuse themselves from giving him any thing; they tell him that he is idle and impertinent, that he has brought himself into poverty, and therefore ought not to be relieved; as Nabal said to David's messengers: "There are many servants now a days that run away from their masters; and how do I know but that David may be one of them?" Let poor people therefore make God their friend, pursue him with their prayers, and he will not be wanting to them.

8-14

Domestic Grievances

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家中的祸患

⁸ 得着智慧的,爱惜生命;保守聪明的,必得好处。
⁹ 作假见证的,不免受罚;吐出谎言的,终必灭亡。

此处所鼓励的是:1. 那些下苦功“得着智慧”、得着知识、恩典,并对神有所认识的人;这样行的,便显明他们“爱惜自己的灵魂”,也必显出他们为自己作了一件极大的善事。从来没有人“恨恶自己的身子”,乃是爱护自己的身子;然而许多人对自己的灵魂却缺乏爱——唯有那些“得着智慧”,得着真智慧的人,才正确地爱惜自己的灵魂,从而正确地爱惜自己。2. 那些既得着智慧、又留心保守它的人;智慧于灵魂乃是健康、是财富、是尊荣、是一切,所以“保守聪明的”,既显明他“爱惜自己的灵魂”,也必“得好处”,得着一切的好处。凡持守所学的良善教训、并照之安排自己言行的,必在自己灵魂里寻得其中的益处与安慰,今生来世皆得有福。

⁹ 作假见证的,不免受罚;吐出谎言的,终必灭亡。

此处有:1. 前面所说之话的重申(箴十九5),因我们有必要一再地受警戒,提防说谎与作假见证之罪的危险,因为没有什么比这更招致毁灭的后果。2. 在那话上加添了一语;前面说“吐出谎言的,必不能逃脱”,并暗示他必受罚;此处则说,他所受的罚必是毁灭他自己的:他“终必灭亡”;他为陷害别人所编造的谎言,必成为他自己的败亡。这是叫人沉沦、致人灭亡的罪。

¹⁰ 愚昧人宴乐度日,是不合宜的;何况仆人管辖王子呢?

要注意:1. 安逸快乐与愚昧人极不相称:“宴乐度日”于这等人“是不合宜的”。人若无智慧、无恩典,便无权利、无资格享受真正的喜乐,所以那于他乃是不合宜的。那些不以神为乐的人,理当不以任何事为乐,也不知如何管束自己,所以他们只是自取暴露其丑。叫这等不蒙恩的愚昧人受苦、悲哀、哀哭,倒比叫他们欢笑作乐更为合宜;责备比宴乐更适合他们。宴乐于劳碌之人是合宜的,可在他疲乏时使他舒畅;却不合于“愚昧人”,就是那过着懒惰生活、滥用消遣之人。“愚昧人的兴盛”显出他们的愚妄,并“毁灭他们”。2. 权柄与尊荣与心性卑贱之人极不相称。没有什么比“仆人管辖王子”更不合宜的了;这事本身既荒谬,又极乖戾,因为没有人比一个骤得权位的乞丐更骄横、更难容忍的了,这就是“仆人作王”(箴三十22)。一个作罪与私欲之仆的人,竟去管辖、欺压那些蒙神释放、立为君王祭司归于祂的人,这是极不合宜的。

¹¹ 人有见识就不轻易发怒;宽恕人的过失,便是自己的荣耀。

智慧人在怒气上必遵守这两条规则:1. 不在他的恼恨上过于急躁:“见识”教导我们要“慢慢动怒”——先迟延,不轻易容怒气进来,直到我们彻底思量了那激怒之事的种种是非曲直,在真光中看清,又在公平的天平上称过;然后再迟延,不轻易动手追讨,直到不致陷入任何失态之举的危险。柏拉图曾对他的仆人说:“我本要打你,只是我正动怒。”给怒气一点时间,它便会冷却。2. 不在他的恼恨上过于苛察。世人通常以为,能敏捷地察觉一桩冒犯乃是一种机敏;此处却以“宽恕人的过失”为人的“荣耀”——仿佛他并未看见(诗三十八13),或即便他看为合宜要加以理会,也宁可饶恕,并不图谋报复。

¹² 王的忿怒好像狮子吼叫;他的恩典却如草上的甘露。

这与我们在箴十六14、15所读的意思相同;其用意是:1. 要使君王在施其忿怒与恩泽时存谨慎、深思之心。君王的忿怒与恩泽不像寻常人的;他们的忿怒极可畏,恩泽极可慰;所以君王理当格外谨慎,决不可用他们的忿怒吓阻善人行善,也决不可用他们的恩泽助长恶人行恶,否则便是滥用其影响力了(罗十三3)。2. 要使臣民对君王存忠诚顺服之心。当叫他们因思想与政权为敌的可怕后果,而远离一切的不忠;又当叫他们因盼望君王的恩泽,而受激励去尽心为公众效力。基督是一位君王,祂向仇敌的忿怒必“像狮子吼叫”(启十3),祂向自己子民的恩泽却如使人苏醒的甘露(诗七十二6)。

¹³ 愚昧的儿子是父亲的祸患;妻子的争吵如雨连连滴漏。

世界的虚空有一明证:我们往往正在那些指望得着最大安慰之事上,最易遭遇最大的忧伤。事情往往就是如此。论到属世的安慰,人还有什么比得上贤妻孝子呢?然而:1. “愚昧的儿子是”极大的祸患,能叫人千万次但愿自己“无儿无女”。一个不肯专心于任何学业或事务,不肯听人劝告,过着淫荡、放浪、浪荡生活,将所有的肆意挥霍、赌博耗尽、在荒宴中浪费殆尽,或是骄傲、轻浮、自负的儿子,这等人乃是“他父亲”的忧愁,因为他是家族的羞辱,也极可能成为家族的败亡。这父亲一想到要将自己劳碌的果子留给何等人,便厌恶自己一切的劳碌。2. 一个乖戾暴躁的妻子也是极大的祸患:她的“争吵接连不断”;每一天、每一时,她都能寻出由头,叫自己与周围的人不得安宁。那些惯于争吵的,从不缺可争吵之事;这乃是“雨连连滴漏”,就是无休止的烦扰,正如房屋年久失修,以致雨水漏入,人在其中不得干处安卧。人若有这样一个糊涂儿子作儿子、一个泼妇作妻子,他的人生便毫无安慰可言,需要极大的智慧与恩典,才能担当他的苦楚、尽他的本分。

¹⁴ 房屋钱财是祖宗所遗留的;惟有贤慧的妻子是耶和华所赐的。

要注意:1. 一个明智而贤德的妻子,乃是神护理所赐给人的上好恩赐——是“贤慧”的妻子,与那争吵的妻子相反(箴十八13)。因为那时常找碴的妻子虽自以为如此行乃是聪明智慧,其实却是她的愚妄;“贤慧的妻子”温柔安静,凡事都往好处看。人若有这样一位妻子,不可将此归功于自己拣选的聪明或自己经营的本事(因为最有智慧的人也曾在女人身上、被女人欺骗),乃当归功于神的良善,是祂为他造了一个“配偶帮助他”,或许还借着某些看似偶然的护理转折,将她带到他面前。每一个受造之物,都是祂所成就的。幸福的婚姻,我们确知,乃是天上所配合的;亚伯拉罕的仆人正是凭着对此的信念而祷告的(创二四12)。2. 这恩赐比“房屋钱财”更宝贵,对一个人一生的安慰与体面、对一家的福祉贡献更大,是神恩眷更大的凭据,也是神圣护理格外眷顾之事。美好的家业可作“祖宗所遗留的”,照护理通常的安排,依次临到一个人身上;但没有人能凭世袭或承继得着一个贤妻。父母若是属世的,在为儿女婚配之事上,往往只看“房屋钱财”而已;但愿他们若兼得着“贤慧的妻子”,便将荣耀归与神。

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Domestic Grievances

⁸ He that getteth wisdom loveth his own soul: he that keepeth understanding shall find good.

Those are here encouraged, 1. That take pains to get wisdom, to get knowledge, and grace, and acquaintance with God; those that do so show that they love their own souls, and will be found to have done themselves the greatest kindness imaginable. No man ever hated his own flesh, but loves that, yet many are wanting in love to their own souls, for only those love their souls, and consequently love themselves, aright, that get wisdom, true wisdom. 2. That take care to keep it when they have got it; it is health, and wealth, and honour, and all, to the soul, and therefore he that keeps understanding, as he shows that he loves his own soul, so he shall certainly find good, all good. He that retains the good lessons he has learnt, and orders his conversation according to them, shall find the benefit and comfort of it in his own soul and shall be happy here and for ever.

⁹ A false witness shall not be unpunished, and he that speaketh lies shall perish.

Here is, 1. A repetition of what was said before (Pr 18:5), for we have need to be again and again warned of the danger of the sin of lying and false-witness-bearing, since nothing is of more fatal consequence. 2. An addition to it in one word; there it was said, He that speaks lies shall not escape, and intimated that he shall be punished. Here it is said, His punishment shall be such as will be his destruction: he shall perish; the lies he forged against others will be his own ruin. It is a damning destroying sin.

¹⁰ Delight is not seemly for a fool; much less for a servant to have rule over princes.

Note, 1. Pleasure and liberty ill become a fool: Delight is not seemly for such a one. A man that has not wisdom and grace has no right nor title to true joy, and therefore it is unseemly. It ill becomes those that do not delight in God to delight in any thing, nor how to manage themselves, and therefore they do but expose themselves. It becomes ungracious fools to be afflicted, and mourn, and weep, not to laugh and be merry; rebukes are more proper for them than delights. Delight is seemly for a man of business, to refresh him when he is fatigued, but not for a fool, that lives an idle life and abuses his recreations. The prosperity of fools discovers their folly and destroys them. 2. Power and honour ill become a man of a servile spirit. Nothing is more unseemly than for a servant to have rule over princes; it is absurd in itself, and very preposterous, for none are so insolent and intolerable as a beggar on horseback, a servant when he reigns, Pr 30:22. It is very unseemly for one that is a servant to sin and his lusts to rule over and oppress those that are God's freemen and made kings and priests to him.

¹¹ The discretion of a man deferreth his anger; and it is his glory to pass over a transgression.

A wise man will observe these two rules about his anger: 1. Not to be over-hasty in his resentments: Discretion teaches us to defer our anger, to defer the admission of it till we have thoroughly considered all the merits of the provocation, seen them in a true light and weighed them in a just balance; and then to defer the prosecution of it till there be no danger of running into any indecencies. Plato said to his servant, "I would beat thee, but that I am angry." Give it time, and it will cool. 2. Not to be over-critical in his resentments. Whereas it is commonly looked upon as a piece of ingenuity to apprehend an affront quickly, it is here made a man's glory to pass over a transgression, to appear as if he did not see it (Ps 38:13), or, if he sees fit to take notice of it, yet to forgive it and meditate no revenge.

¹² The king's wrath is as the roaring of a lion; but his favour is as dew upon the grass.

This is to the same purport with what we had Pr 16:14,15, and the design of it is, 1. To make kings wise and considerate in dispensing their frowns and smiles. They are not like those of common persons; their frowns are very terrible and their smiles very comfortable, and therefore it concerns them to be very careful that they never frighten a good man from doing well with their frowns, nor ever give countenance to a wicked man in doing ill with their smiles, for then they abuse their influence, Ro 13:3. 2. To make subjects faithful and dutiful to their princes. Let them be restrained from all disloyalty by the consideration of the dreadful consequence of having the government against them; and let them be encouraged in all good services to the public by the hopes of the favour of their prince. Christ is a King whose wrath against his enemies will be as the roaring of a lion (Re 10:3) and his favour to his own people as the refreshing dew, Ps 72:6.

¹³ A foolish son is the calamity of his father: and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping.

It is an instance of the vanity of the world that we are liable to the greatest grief in those things wherein we promise ourselves the greatest comfort. It is as it proves. What greater temporal comfort can a man have than a good wife and good children? Yet, 1. A foolish son is a great affliction, and may make a man wish a thousand times he had been written childless. A son that will apply himself to no study or business, that will take no advice, that lives a lewd, loose, rakish life, and spends what he has extravagantly, games it away and wastes it in the excess of riot, or that is proud, foppish, and conceited, such a one is the grief of his father, because he is the disgrace, and is likely to be the ruin, of his family. He hates all his labour, when he sees to whom he must leave the fruit of it. 2. A cross peevish wife is as great an affliction: Her contentions are continual; every day, and every hour in the day, she finds some occasion to make herself and those about her uneasy. Those that are accustomed to chide never want something or other to chide at; but it is a continual dropping, that is, a continual vexation, as it is to have a house so much out of repair that it rains in and a man cannot lie dry in it. That man has an uncomfortable life, and has need of a great deal of wisdom and grace to enable him to bear his affliction and do his duty, who has a sot for his son and a scold for his wife.

¹⁴ House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the LORD.

Note, 1. A discreet and virtuous wife is a choice gift of God's providence to a man—a wife that is prudent, in opposition to one that is contentious, Pr 18:13. For, though a wife that is continually finding fault may think it is her wit and wisdom to be so, it is really her folly; a prudent wife is meek and quiet, and makes the best of every thing. If a man has such a wife, let him not ascribe it to the wisdom of his own choice or his own management (for the wisest have been deceived both in and by a woman), but let him ascribe it to the goodness of God, who made him a help meet for him, and perhaps by some hits and turns of providence that seemed casual brought her to him. Every creature is what he makes it. Happy marriages, we are sure, are made in heaven; Abraham's servant prayed in the belief of this, Ge 24:12. 2. It is a more valuable gift than house and riches, contributes more to the comfort and credit of a man's life and the welfare of his family, is a greater token of God's favour, and about which the divine providence is in a more especial manner conversant. A good estate may be the inheritance of fathers, which, by the common direction of Providence, comes in course to a man; but no man has a good wife by descent or entail. Parents that are worldly, in disposing of their children, look no further than to match them to house and riches, but, if withal it be to a prudent wife, let God have the glory.

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Circumspection and Charity

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谨慎与施怜

¹⁵ 懒惰使人沉睡,懈怠的人必受饥饿。

请看懒惰怠惰之性的祸害。1. 它使人麻木,叫人失去知觉、不顾自己的事务,如同被丢入沉睡之中,多有梦想,却一无所成。懒惰的人昏睡度日,埋藏才干,过着无用的一生,作地上无益的累赘;因为论到他们醒着时所作的任何事,倒不如长睡不起。连他们的灵魂也是懒惰、沉睡的,他们理性的功能都僵冷冻结了。2. 它使人贫穷,叫人陷入缺乏。不肯劳力的,不能指望有得吃,必*受饥饿:懈怠的人,*就是在灵魂之事上懈怠、不肯费心劳力作成自己得救之工的人,必因缺乏那灵魂之生命与福乐所必需之物而灭亡。

¹⁶ 谨守诫命的,保全生命;轻忽己道的,必致死亡。

这里有:1. 那谨慎而行之人的福气。那些凡事在乎谨守诫命,照规矩而活,正如仆人和病人当有的样式,他们便保全自己的灵魂;他们使自己今生的平安与将来的福乐得以稳固,又凡事为自己妥善预备。我们若谨守神的道,神的道也必保守我们脱离一切真正有害的事。2. 那放纵任意、从不留心所行之人的悲惨:那些轻忽己道的,必致死亡,必永远沉沦;他们正走在通往灭亡的大道上。那些不在乎自己道路之结局、从不思想自己往何处去的人,那些不顾自己道路之准则、随心所欲、随波逐流的人(传11:9),那些从不思想自己作过什么、当作什么,乃冒险妄行(利26:21)、不论是非、于他们都一样的人——这除了招致极大的祸患之外,还能有什么结果呢?

¹⁷ 怜悯贫穷的,就是借给耶和华;他的善行,耶和华必偿还。

这里有:一、所描述的施舍之本分。它包含两样:——1. 怜恤,这是心中施舍的内在原则;就是要怜悯贫穷的人。 那些没有一文钱可周济穷人的,仍可以怜恤他们,存施舍的关怀与同情;人若*将所有的赒济穷人,*心中却没有这爱,*仍然与他无益,林前13:3。我们当将心中所存的分给饥饿的人,*赛58:10。2. 慷慨与施予。我们不单要怜悯穷人,更要照他们的需用和我们的能力施予,雅2:15,16。他所施予的。 边注作:他的善行。 为穷人有所作为,正如施予一样,都是施舍;这样,他们若四肢健全、感官无碍,也可以彼此施舍。

二、施舍的鼓励。1. 必有极慈悲的看待加于其上。施予穷人、或为穷人所作的,神必算作借给他,带利息地借给(原文有此意);他乐意悦纳,如同行在他自己身上一般,并要我们领受其中的安慰,欢喜满足,胜过任何放债人将一笔银钱借到稳妥之手时的欢喜。2. 必有极丰厚的报偿赐下:*他必偿还,*在今生、属灵、并永恒的福分上偿还。施舍乃是兴旺最稳妥、最安全的途径。

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Circumspection and Charity

¹⁵ Slothfulness casteth into a deep sleep; and an idle soul shall suffer hunger.

See here the evil of a sluggish slothful disposition. 1. It stupefies men, and makes them senseless, and mindless of their own affairs, as they were cast into a deep sleep, dreaming much, but doing nothing. Slothful people doze away their time, bury their talents, live a useless life, and are the unprofitable burdens of the earth; for any service they do when they are awake they might as well be always asleep. Even their souls are idle and lulled asleep, their rational powers chilled and frozen. 2. It impoverishes men and brings them to want. Those that will not labour cannot expect to eat, but must suffer hunger: An idle soul, one that is idle in the affairs of his soul, that takes no care or pains to work out his salvation, shall perish for want of that which is necessary to the life and happiness of the soul.

¹⁶ He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul; but he that despiseth his ways shall die.

Here is, 1. The happiness of those that walk circumspectly. Those that make conscience of keeping the commandment in every thing, that live by rule, as becomes servants and patients, keep their own souls; they secure their present peace and future bliss, and provide every way well for themselves. If we keep God's word, God's word will keep us from every thing really hurtful. 2. The misery of those that live at large and never mind what they do: Those that despair their ways shall die, shall perish eternally; they are in the high road to ruin. With respect to those that are careless about the end of their ways, and never consider whither they are going, and about the rule of their ways, that will walk in the way of their hearts and after the course of the world (Ec 11:9), that never consider what they have done nor what they are concerned to do, but walk at all adventures (Le 26:21), right or wrong, it is all one to them—what can come of this but the greatest mischief?

¹⁷ He that hath pity upon the poor lendeth unto the LORD; and that which he hath given will he pay him again.

Here is, I. The duty of charity described. It includes two things:—1. Compassion, which is the inward principle of charity in the heart; it is to have pity on the poor. Those that have not a penny for the poor, yet may have pity for them, a charitable concern and sympathy; and, if a man give all his goods to feed the poor and have not this charity in his heart, it is nothing, 1Co 13:3. We must draw out our souls to the hungry, Isa 58:10. 2. Bounty and liberality. We must not only pity the poor, but give, according to their necessity and our ability, Jam 2:15,16. That which he has given. Margin, His deed. It is charity to do for the poor, as well as to give; and thus, if they have their limbs and senses, they may be charitable to one another.

II. The encouragement of charity. 1. A very kind construction shall be put upon it. What is given to the poor, or done for them, God will place it to account as lent to him, lent upon interest (so the word signifies); he takes it kindly, as if it were done to himself, and he would have us take the comfort of it and to be as well pleased as ever any usurer was when he had let out a sum of money into good hands. 2. A very rich recompence shall be made for it: He will pay him again, in temporal, spiritual, and eternal blessings. Almsgiving is the surest and safest way of thriving.

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Miscellaneous Maxims

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¹⁸ 趁有指望,管教你的儿子;你的心不可任他死亡。

这里警告父母,不要对那些执拗不驯、心向邪僻、心性乖戾非用严厉不能纠正的儿女作愚蠢的溺爱。1. 不要说"还早,迟些纠正不迟";不,一旦看见他们心中有败坏的倾向,便当立即制止,趁它尚未得势、尚未扎根、尚未硬化成习惯之先:趁有指望管教你的儿子,因为若任他一时,他也许便再无指望,那时再加重责罚,也成就不了如今轻责所能成的。杂草最好在刚发芽时拔除;定为负轭之牛犊,当及早使之习于轭下。2. 不要说"管教他们太可怜了",也不要因为他们哭喊恳求赦免,就不忍下手。若能不经管教而达到目的,自然好;但你若发现(这是常有的事)你因他们假装悔改、应许改过而一次宽恕他们,反倒使他们胆子更大、再犯过错,尤其所犯的本身是罪(如撒谎、起誓、秽语、偷窃等类),在这样的情形下,便当下定决心,不可因他的哭喊而顾惜。他宁可受你的杖责而哭,胜过受官长的刀剑——更可怕的——受神报仇之剑而哭。

¹⁹ 暴怒的人必受刑罚;你若救他,必须再救。

1. 照我们所读的,这话简而言之,就是说:易怒之人不缺祸患。那些性情刚烈——更确切地说是执拗——的人,常因好兴讼、好争竞以及他们对人的冒犯,使自己和家人陷入麻烦;他们因不受控制的怒气,常在某处或某事上自食其果;他们的朋友若把他们从一次麻烦中救出来,他们很快又使自己卷入另一次,朋友必须再救;这一切祸患——无论对自己或他人——只要他们肯治死情欲、辖制己心,便都可避免。2. 这话也可读作:那大怒的人(指那当受管教却不能忍责、又哭又闹的孩子,甚至是他对管教之杖的怒气)当受刑罚;因为你若因此放过他,下次便不得不更加严厉地责罚他。任性刚烈的孩子必须趁早制服,否则后患无穷。

²⁰ 你要听劝诲,受管教,使你终久有智慧。

当注意,1. 终久有智慧——为终局有智慧、为来世有智慧、为另一个世界有智慧、当终局来到时显为有智慧的人,是有福的:聪明的童女、聪明的工头、聪明的管家,至终聪明,并在这些关乎平安的事尚隐藏之时就明白。属肉体的世人到末后必显为愚昧(耶 17:11),但敬虔至终必证明是智慧。2. 那要终久有智慧的人,必须在起头时听劝诲、受管教,在年轻时肯受教、受治,肯受劝戒与责备。要在冬天有储备,必须在夏天收藏。

²¹ 人心多有计谋;惟有耶和华的筹算,才能立定。

这里我们看到,1. 人的图谋。他们将所图谋的藏于心内,却不能向神隐藏;他知道人心中的许多计谋——那些违背他旨意的计谋(如诗 2:1-3,弥 4:11 所记),那些不顾他旨意的计谋(毫不顾念他的护理,如雅 4:13 所说,他们要作这作那,却不把神带在身边),那些不像神旨意的计谋;人的计谋反复无常,常常荒谬不义,但神的旨意却智慧圣洁、坚定不变。2. 神的统管。不同的人按自己的倾向或利益有不同的图谋,但耶和华的筹算才能立定,无论人的计谋如何。他的旨意常挫败人的计谋、使人的图谋落空;但人的图谋丝毫不能更改他的旨意,不能扰乱其进程,也不能使他另立新谋(赛 14:24,46:11)。这对那些自以为能智胜全人类的善谋之士,是何等的约束——天上有一位神向他们发笑!(诗 2:4)。这对神一切的百姓,又是何等的安慰——神一切旨意(我们确知都是正直到善的)必在所定之时成就!

²² 施恩与人的人,人所愿求;贫穷人强如说谎言的人。

当注意,1. 行善的尊荣是我们可合理追求的。人若还有一点美德,施恩与人必是他的心愿;人之所以羡慕产业,莫过于借此得着周济穷人、厚待朋友的地位。2. 有行善之心却无行善之力,远胜过有行善之力却无行善之心:人所愿求的施恩之心,便是他的恩,也必如此被看待;神与人都必悦纳他的善意,照他所有的,并不苛求更多。贫穷人虽愿你安好,却无法应承你什么,因为他无物可以施恩,却强过说谎言的人——强过那使你以为他将行大事、到了关头却一无所行的富人。卑微的人"本是虚空"——人对他无所指望——这品格,强过尊贵的人"本是谎言"——他们欺骗那些被他们挑起期望的人。

²³ 敬畏耶和华的,得着生命;他必恒久知足,必不遭祸患。

看那些在神面前存敬畏之心、始终尽他对神之本分的人,因此得着什么。1. 平安:他们必不遭祸患;他们也许遭遇疾病或其他患难,但其中必无恶——无什么能伤害他们,因为没有什么能使他们与神的爱隔绝,或伤害其灵魂。2. 满足:他们必恒久知足;他们必得着那令人满足的安慰,并常在其中得着恒久的知足与喜悦。这种满足是恒久的,而一切感官上的满足都是暂时的,转瞬即逝。Satur pernoctabit, non cubabit incoenatus——他必不空肚就寝;他必得着那使他安然、并在他静默孤寂之时作他慰藉的恩典(诗 16:6-7)。3. 真正完全的福乐。严肃的敬虔直接引人得生命——引入一切美善,引入永生;这是稳妥便捷之路;敬虔之本质中,含有使人合乎天国、并引其前往的因素。

²⁴ 懒惰人把手藏在怀里,甚至不肯把手拿到嘴边。

懒惰人在此被揭露为愚昧人,因为,1. 他全部的关心就是使自己免于劳作与寒冷。看他的姿态:他把手藏在怀里,装作瘸了不能作工;他的手冷了,必须在怀里暖和;既暖和了,又必须保持暖和。他沉湎于自己的安逸,决意拒绝劳苦艰辛。爱作工的人尽管作工去吧;至于他,他以为再没有比坐着什么都不干更美的生活了。2. 他连喂养自己都嫌麻烦——一个绝妙的夸张说法;正如我们说,一个人懒到连身上的火都不肯抖掉,这里说他不忍心把手从怀里抽出来,哪怕是为了把食物送进自己的口中。若规矩是"不肯作工的人不可吃饭",他宁愿挨饿也不肯动弹。这样,他的罪便是他的刑罚,因此是极大的愚妄。

²⁵ 鞭打亵慢人,愚蒙人必长见识;责备聪明人,他就明白知识。

当注意,1. 对亵慢人的刑罚将成为他人的益处。当人在恶上如此刚硬,以致严厉的方法也不能挽回、改革他们自己,这些方法仍当使用——为着别人的缘故,使他们听见而惧怕(申 19:20)。亵慢人若因积习已深而不能从罪中挽回,愚蒙人却必因见罪之暴露人如此下场而谨慎。这若不能治愈感染者,却能防止传染的蔓延。2. 对智慧人的责备将成为他自己的益处。他们不必挨打;对智者一句话便够了。只要责备一个聪明人,他便能既知己又知己之益处,便因此而明白知识,一经告知便不再因无知疏忽而失误;他如此善意地接受责备,又如此明智地加以善用。

²⁶ 虐待父亲、撵出母亲的,是贻羞致辱的儿子。

这里说到,1. 浪子的罪。除了亏负自己之外,他还亏待他善良的父母,卑鄙地忘恩于那些作为他生命工具、为他费心费力的人;这大大加重了他的罪,使他的罪在神和人眼中极其可憎:他虐待父亲——挥霍本应用来奉养老人晚年的产业,消耗他的精神,伤他的心,使他的白头带着忧伤下到阴间。他撵出母亲——转移了她对他的感情(这不能不叫她大为痛心与不安);他的粗暴与傲慢使她对家生厌,巴不得退到别处寻求些许安宁;当他挥霍净尽,竟把她赶出门外。2. 浪子的羞辱。他自己如此蛮横不孝,是自己的羞辱;他使自己为万人所憎。这也是他父母与家族的羞辱;人虽也许没有正当理由地以此非难他们没有好好教导他,或在某方面亏待了他。

²⁷ 我儿,要停止听那使人偏离知识之言语的管教。

这是对那些受过良好教育之人的好告诫,谨防听从那些借口教导、实则引他们偏离他们所受良好原则影响的人。当注意,1. 有些教训表面上似乎是为教导,实则趋向于青年的毁灭。罪恶的掮客要教他们所谓自由的思想与时髦的交际、如何为他们所喜好的罪开脱、如何塞住自己良心的口、如何摆脱教育的约束、自立为才子与风流人物。这就是那使人偏离纯正话语之知识的管教——而那些话语本应在信心与爱心中持守。2. 青年人当塞耳不听这样的教训,如聋虺塞耳不听那为网罗它而发的咒语。"当畏惧听那倾向于将放纵原则灌输人心的言论;若你已与这样的人结交,便当断绝;你已听得够了,甚至太多了,因此不要再听那败坏善俗的恶言。"

²⁸ 匪徒作见证戏笑公平;恶人的口吞下罪孽。

这里描述的是最坏的罪人,他们的心已经决定了要行恶。1. 他们藐视那足以阻挡他们离罪的东西:匪徒就是作假见证陷害邻舍、且肯起假誓害人的人——其中不仅有大不义,也有大不敬虔;这是最坏的人之一。或者匪徒是亵渎、无神地作见证攻击信仰与敬虔的人,他的教训引人偏离知识的言语(箴 18:27);这样的人戏笑公平,嗤笑主的威吓,讥诮那敬畏(伯 15:26)。你告诉他律法与公正、圣经与誓言都是神圣之物、不可轻慢、将必有算账之日;他对这一切都发笑,不肯理会。2. 他们贪婪、乐于抓住一切犯罪的机会:恶人的口急切地吞下罪孽,如水般喝下(伯 15:16)。

²⁹ 刑罚是为亵慢人预备的;鞭打是为愚昧人的背预备的。

当注意,1. 亵慢人就是愚昧人。那些讥笑神圣与严肃之事的人,只是使自己成为可嗤笑的。他们的愚妄必向众人显明出来。2. 嗤笑刑罚的人不能逃脱刑罚(箴 18:28)。人的不信不能使神的威吓归于徒然;那些吞下罪孽的人,是连饵带钩一同吞下。官长有为亵慢人预备的刑罚,否则他便是空空地佩剑;但官长若疏忽、纵容罪恶,神的刑罚却并不打盹;它们已经预备(太 25:41)。

英語原文

Miscellaneous Maxims

¹⁸ Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying.

Parents are here cautioned against a foolish indulgence of their children that are untoward and viciously inclined, and that discover such an ill temper of mind as is not likely to be cured but by severity. 1. Do not say that it is all in good time to correct them; no, as soon as ever there appears a corrupt disposition in them check it immediately, before it gets head, and takes root, and is hardened into a habit: Chasten thy son while there is hope, for perhaps, if he be let alone awhile, he will be past hope, and a much greater chastening will not do that which now a less would effect. It is easiest plucking up weeds as soon as they spring up, and the bullock that is designed for the yoke should be betimes accustomed to it. 2. Do not say that it is a pity to correct them, and that, because they cry and beg to be forgiven, you cannot find in your heart to do it. If the point can be gained without correction, well and good; but if you find, as it often proves, that your forgiving them once, upon a dissembled repentance and promise of amendment, does but embolden them to offend again, especially if it be a thing that is in itself sinful (as lying, swearing, ribaldry, stealing, or the like), in such a case put on resolution, and let not thy soul spare for his crying. It is better that he should cry under thy rod than under the sword of the magistrate, or, which is more fearful, that of divine vengeance.

¹⁹ A man of great wrath shall suffer punishment: for if thou deliver him, yet thou must do it again.

1. As we read this, it intimates, in short, that angry men never want woe. Those that are of strong, or rather headstrong, passions, commonly bring themselves and their families into trouble by vexatious suits and quarrels and the provocations they give; they are still smarting, in one instance or other, for their ungoverned heats; and, if their friends deliver them out of one trouble, they will quickly involve themselves in another, and they must do it again, all which troubles to themselves and others would be prevented if they would mortify their passions and get the rule of their own spirits. 2. It may as well be read, He that is of great wrath (meaning the child that is to be corrected and is impatient of rebuke, cries and makes a noise, even that wrath of his against the rod of correction) deserves to be punished; for, if thou deliver him for the sake of that, thou wilt be forced to punish him so much the more next time. A stomachful high-spirited child must be subdued betimes, or it will be the worse for it.

²⁰ Hear counsel, and receive instruction, that thou mayest be wise in thy latter end.

Note, 1. It is well with those that are wise in their latter end, wise for their latter end, for their future state, wise for another world, that are found wise when their latter end comes, wise virgins, wise builders, wise stewards, that are wise at length, and understand the things that belong to their peace, before they be hidden from their eyes. A carnal worldling at his end shall be a fool (Jer 17:11), but godliness will prove wisdom at last. 2. Those that would be wise in their latter end must hear counsel and receive instruction, in their beginnings must be willing to be taught and ruled, willing to be advised and reproved, when they are young. Those that would be stored in winter must gather in summer.

²¹ There are many devices in a man's heart; nevertheless the counsel of the LORD, that shall stand.

Here we have, 1. Men projecting. They keep their designs to themselves, but they cannot hide them from God; he knows the many devices that are in men's hearts,—devices against his counsels (as those, Ps 2:1-3, Mic 4:11),— devices without his counsel (no regard had to his providence, as those Jam 4:13, this and the other they will do, and not take God along with them),—devices unlike God's counsels; men are wavering in their devices, and often absurd and unjust, but God's counsels are wise and holy, steady and uniform. 2. God overruling. Various men have various designs, according as their inclination or interest leads them, but the counsel of the Lord, that shall stand, whatever becomes of the devices of men. His counsel often breaks men's measures and baffles their devices; but their devices cannot in the least alter his counsel, not disturb the proceedings of it, nor put him upon new counsels, Isa 14:24,46:11. What a check does this give to politic designing men, who think they can outwit all mankind, that there is a God in heaven that laughs at them! Ps 2:4. What comfort does this speak to all God's people, that all God's purposes, which we are sure are right and good, shall be accomplished in due time!

²² The desire of a man is his kindness: and a poor man is better than a liar.

Note, 1. The honour of doing good is what we may laudably be ambitious of. It cannot but be the desire of man, if he have any spark of virtue in him, to be kind; one would not covet an estate for any thing so much as thereby to be put into a capacity of relieving the poor and obliging our friends. 2. It is far better to have a heart to do good and want ability for it than have ability for it and want a heart to it: The desire of a man to be kind, and charitable, and generous, is his kindness, and shall be so construed; both God and man will accept his good-will, according to what he has, and will not expect more. A poor man, who wishes you well, but can promise you nothing, because he has nothing to be kind with, is better than a liar, than a rich man who makes you believe he will do mighty things, but, when it comes to the setting to, will do nothing. The character of the men of low degree, that they are vanity, from whom nothing is expected, is better than that of men of high degree, that they are a lie, they deceive those whose expectations they raised.

²³ The fear of the LORD tendeth to life: and he that hath it shall abide satisfied; he shall not be visited with evil.

See what those that get by it that live in the fear of God, and always make conscience of their duty to him. 1. Safety: They shall not be visited with evil; they may be visited with sickness or other afflictions, but there shall be no evil in them, nothing to hurt them, because nothing to separate them from the love of God, or hurt to the soul. 2. Satisfaction: They shall abide satisfied; they shall have those comforts which are satisfying, and shall have a constant contentment and complacency in them. It is a satisfaction which will abide, whereas all the satisfactions of sense are transient and soon gone. Satur pernoctabit, non cubabit incoenatus—He shall not go supperless to bed; he shall have that which will make him easy and be an entertainment to him in his silent and solitary hours, Ps 16:6,7. 3. True and complete happiness. Serious godliness has a direct tendency to life; to all good, to eternal life; it is the sure and ready way to it; there is something in the nature of it fitting men for heaven and so leading them to it.

²⁴ A slothful man hideth his hand in his bosom, and will not so much as bring it to his mouth again.

A sluggard is here exposed as a fool, for, 1. All his care is to save himself from labour and cold. See his posture: He hides his hand in his bosom, pretends he is lame and cannot work; his hands are cold, and he must warm them in his bosom; and, when they are warm there, he must keep them so. He hugs himself in his own ease and is resolved against labour and hardship. Let those work that love it; for his part he thinks there is no such fine life as sitting still and doing nothing. 2. He will not be at the pains to feed himself, an elegant hyperbole; as we say, A man is so lazy that he would not shake fire off him, so here, He cannot find in his heart to take his hand out of his bosom, no, not to put meat into his own mouth. If the law be so that those that will not labour must not eat, he will rather starve than stir. Thus his sin is his punishment, and therefore is egregious folly.

²⁵ Smite a scorner, and the simple will beware: and reprove one that hath understanding, and he will understand knowledge.

Note, 1. The punishment of scorners will be a means of good to others. When men are so hardened in wickedness that they will not themselves be wrought upon by the severe methods that are used to reclaim and reform them, yet such methods must be used for the sake of others, that they may hear and fear, De 19:20. If the scorner will not be recovered from his sin, the disease being inveterate, yet the simple will beware of venturing upon the sin which exposes men thus. If it cure not the infected, it may prevent the spreading of the infection. 2. The reproof of wise men will be a means of good to themselves. They need not be smitten; a word to the wise is enough. Do but reprove one that has understanding and he will so far understand himself and his own interest that he will understand knowledge by it, and not miss it again through ignorance and inadvertency when once he has been told of it; so kindly does he take reproof and so wisely improve it.

²⁶ He that wasteth his father, and chaseth away his mother, is a son that causeth shame, and bringeth reproach.

Here is, 1. The sin of a prodigal son. Besides the wrong he does to himself, he is injurious to his good parents, and basely ungrateful to those that were instruments of his being and have taken so much care and pains about him, which is a great aggravation of his sin and renders it exceedingly sinful in the eyes of God and man: He wastes is father, wastes his estate which he should have to support him in his old age, wastes his spirits, and breaks his heart, and brings his gray head with sorrow to the grave. He chases away his mother, alienates her affections from him, which cannot be done without a great deal of regret and uneasiness to her; he makes her weary of the house, with his rudeness and insolence, and glad to retire for a little quietness; and, when he has spent all, he turns her out of doors. 2. The shame of a prodigal son. It is a shame to himself that he should be so brutish and unnatural. He makes himself odious to all mankind. It is a shame to his parents and family, who are reflected upon, though, perhaps, without just cause, for teaching him no better, or being in some way wanting to him.

²⁷ Cease, my son, to hear the instruction that causeth to err from the words of knowledge.

This is a good caution to those that have had a good education to take heed of hearkening to those who, under pretence of instructing them, draw them off from those good principles under the influence of which they were trained up. Observe, 1. There is that which seems designed for instruction, but really tends to the destruction of young men. The factors for vice will undertake to teach them free thoughts and a fashionable conversation, how to palliate the sins they have a mind to and stop the mouth of their own consciences, how to get clear of the restraints of their education and to set up for wits and beaux. This is the instruction which causes to err from the forms of sound words, which should be held fast in faith and love. 2. It is the wisdom of young men to turn a deaf ear to such instructions, as the adder does to the charms that are designed to ensnare her. "Dread hearing such talk as tends top instil loose principles into the mind; and, if thou art linked in with such, break off from them; thou hast heard enough, or too much, and therefore hear no more of the evil communication which corrupts good manners."

²⁸ An ungodly witness scorneth judgment: and the mouth of the wicked devoureth iniquity.

Here is a description of the worst of sinners, whose hearts are fully set in them to do evil. 1. They set that at defiance which would deter and detain them from sin: An ungodly witness is one that bears false witness against his neighbour, and will forswear himself to do another a mischief, in which there is not only great injustice, but great impiety; this is one of the worst of men. Or an ungodly witness is one that profanely and atheistically witnesses against religion and godliness, whose instructions seduce from the words of knowledge (Pr 18:27); such a one scorns judgment, laughs at the terrors of the Lord, mocks at that fear, Job 15:26. Tell him of law and equity, that the scriptures and an oath are sacred things, and not to be jested with, that there will come a reckoning day; he laughs at it all, and scorns to heed it. 2. They are greedy, and glad of that which gives them an opportunity to sin: The mouth of the wicked eagerly devours iniquity, drinks it in like water, Job 15:16.

²⁹ Judgments are prepared for scorners, and stripes for the back of fools.

Note, 1. Scorners are fools. Those that ridicule things sacred and serious do but make themselves ridiculous. Their folly shall be manifest unto all men. 2. Those that scorn judgments cannot escape them, Pr 18:28. The unbelief of man shall not make God's threatenings of no effect; those that devour iniquity swallow the hook with the bait. The civil magistrate has judgments prepared for scorners, for otherwise he would bear the sword in vain; but if he be remiss, and connive at sin, yet God's judgments slumber not; they are prepared, Mt 25:41.