Matthew Henry's Complete Commentary · Colossians 第3章

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Colossians 第 3 章

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一、使徒劝勉我们要将心系于天上,并把心从这世界挪开(西 3:1-4)。二、他劝勉人在各样的实例上治死罪(西 3:5-11)。三、他恳切地勉励彼此相爱与怜悯(西 3:12-17)。四、最后以对各等相对本分——妻子与丈夫、父母与儿女、主人与仆人——的劝勉作结(西 3:18-25)。

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I. The apostle exhorts us to set our hearts upon heaven and take them off from this world, Col 3:1-4. II. He exhorts to the mortification of sin, in the various instances of it, Col 3:5-11. III. He earnestly presses to mutual love and compassion, Col 3:12-17. And concludes with exhortations to relative duties, of wives and husbands, parents and children, masters and servants, Col 3:18-25.

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The Spiritual Life (62 AD)

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属灵的生命(主后62年)

¹ 所以,你们若真与基督一同复活,就当求在上面的事;那里有基督坐在神的右边。
² 你们要思念上面的事,不要思念地上的事。
³ 因为你们已经死了,你们的生命与基督一同藏在神里面。
⁴ 基督是我们的生命,他显现的时候,你们也要与他一同显现在荣耀里。

使徒在本书信的前半部既已描述了我们在基督里的特权,又说明我们从仪文律法的轭下得了释放,如今便据此督促我们当尽的本分。我们虽已脱离仪文律法的义务,却不可因此便随心所欲地生活。我们倒当在福音顺服的各样实例上更加紧紧地与神同行。他先劝勉他们要将心系于天上,并把心从这世界挪开:「所以,你们若真与基督一同复活。」我们既已与基督一同复活,这就是我们的特权;意即我们因基督的复活而得益处,并且因着与他联合、与他相交而得以称义、成圣,又必得荣耀。他由此推论,我们必须「求在上面的事」。我们当看重另一个世界的事胜于这个世界的事。我们当以天堂为我们的目标和方向,求上面神的喜悦,藉着信心、盼望和圣洁的爱保持与上面世界的相通,并以确保我们对天上福乐的资格和权柄为常常的挂虑和本分。其理由是「基督坐在神的右边」。我们最好的朋友、我们的元首已被升高到天上最高的尊荣,并已先去为我们确保那属天的福乐;所以我们应当追求并确保他用如此重价所赎、又如此挂虑的事。我们当照着自己的力量,过一种与基督昔日地上、如今天上所过相称的生活。

一、他解释这本分(西 3:2):「你们要思念上面的事,不要思念地上的事。」请注意,求上面的事就是将我们的情爱系于其上——爱慕它们,使我们的渴慕倾向它们。情爱如翅,使心向上飞腾,趋向属灵属神的事物。我们当认识它们,看它们比一切更宝贵,并勉力预备享受它们。大卫如此证明他「爱慕神的殿」——他殷勤寻求它,并为它预备(诗 27:4)。这就是体贴圣灵(罗 8:6),就是「寻求并羡慕一个更美的家乡,就是在天上的」(来 11:14、16)。「地上的事」在此与「上面的事」相对。我们不可迷恋其上,也不可对它期望过高,好将我们的情爱系于天上;因为天与地彼此相背,对两者的至高爱慕不能并存;对一方的情爱越强,对另一方的情爱便相应越弱。

二、他为此提出三个理由(西 3:3、4)。

  1. 我们已经死了;即对现今的事死了,以这些事为我们的份。我们在认信和本分上已是如此;因为我们「已经埋葬归入他死的形状」。每一个基督徒都已「钉在十字架上……就世界而论」(加 6:14)。我们既向地死了,又已弃绝它作我们的福乐,却仍将情爱系于其上、追求它,这是荒唐的。我们当像死了的人对待它一样,无动于衷、不为所动。

  2. 我们真正的生命在于另一个世界:「你们已经死了,你们的生命与基督一同藏在神里面」(西 3:3)。新人是从那里得着供养的。它是从上头生的,也是从上头得滋养的;其生命的完全也存留在那状态之中。它是「与基督一同藏」;并非仅向我们藏——指隐秘之意——更是为我们藏,指安全之意。基督徒的生命「与基督一同藏」。「因为我活着,你们也要活着」(约 14:19)。基督如今是一位隐藏的基督,是一位「我们未曾看见」的;但我们的安慰是:我们的「生命与他一同藏」,并稳妥地存留于他那里。我们既有理由「爱他——我们未曾看见的」(彼前 1:8),就也能因一份看不见的、「为我们保留在天上」的福乐而得安慰。

  3. 因为基督再来之时我们指望福乐的完全。我们若如今过敬虔纯洁、专心事奉的生活,「基督——我们的生命——显现的时候,我们也要与他一同显现在荣耀里」(西 3:4)。请注意:(1) 基督是信徒的生命。「现在活着的不再是我,乃是基督在我里面活着」(加 2:20)。他是基督徒生命的源头和目的。他藉着他的灵在我们「里面」活着,我们也在一切所行的事上为他而活。「我活着就是基督」(腓 1:21)。(2) 基督必再来。他如今是「隐藏」的,「天必留他」;但他必在诸世界的盛威中,带着他的「圣天使」,在「自己的荣耀和父的荣耀里」显现(可 8:38;路 9:26)。(3) 那时我们要与他一同显现在荣耀里。他的荣耀在于他的赎民与他同在;他来「要在圣徒的身上得荣耀」(帖后 1:10);而他们的荣耀在于与他同来、与他永远同在。基督再来之时,众圣徒必有普遍的相聚;如今「生命与基督一同藏」的人,那时必与基督一同显现在他自己所享受的荣耀里(约 17:24)。我们既指望如此福乐,岂不当将情爱系于那世界,活在这世界之上吗?这里有什么使我们恋恋不舍的呢?那里有什么不吸引我们的心呢?我们的元首在那里,我们的家在那里,我们的财宝在那里,我们也盼望永远在那里。

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The Spiritual Life (62 AD)

¹ If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God.
² Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth.
³ For ye are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God.
⁴ When Christ, who is our life, shall appear, then shall ye also appear with him in glory.

The apostle, having described our privileges by Christ in the former part of the epistle, and our discharge from the yoke of the ceremonial law, comes here to press upon us our duty as inferred thence. Though we are made free from the obligation of the ceremonial law, it does not therefore follow that we may live as we list. We must walk the more closely with God in all the instances of evangelical obedience. He begins with exhorting them to set their hearts on heaven, and take them off from this world: If you then have risen with Christ. It is our privilege that we have risen with Christ; that is, have benefit by the resurrection of Christ, and by virtue of our union and communion with him are justified and sanctified, and shall be glorified. Hence he infers that we must seek those things which are above. We must mind the concerns of another world more than the concerns of this. We must make heaven our scope and aim, seek the favour of God above, keep up our communion with the upper world by faith, and hope, and holy love, and make it our constant care and business to secure our title to and qualifications for the heavenly bliss. And the reason is because Christ sits at the right hand of God. He who is our best friend and our head is advanced to the highest dignity and honour in heaven, and has gone before to secure to us the heavenly happiness; and therefore we should seek and secure what he has purchased at so vast an expense, and is taking so much care about. We must live such a life as Christ lived here on earth and lives now in heaven, according to our capacities.

I. He explains this duty (Col 3:2): Set your affections on things above, not on things on the earth. Observe, To seek heavenly things is to set our affections upon them, to love them and let our desires be towards them. Upon the wings of affection the heart soars upwards, and is carried forth towards spiritual and divine objects. We must acquaint ourselves with them, esteem them above all other things, and lay out ourselves in preparation for the enjoyment of them. David gave this proof of his loving the house of God, that he diligently sought after it, and prepared for it, Ps 27:4. This is to be spiritually minded (Ro 8:6), and to seek and desire a better country, that is, a heavenly, Heb 11:14,16. Things on earth are here set in opposition to things above. We must not dote upon them, nor expect too much from them, that we may set our affections on heaven; for heaven and earth are contrary one to the other, and a supreme regard to both is inconsistent; and the prevalence of our affection to one will proportionably weaken and abate our affection to the other.

II. He assigns three reasons for this, Col 3:3,4.

1. That we are dead; that is, to present things, and as our portion. We are so in profession and obligation; for we are buried with Christ, and planted into the likeness of his death. Every Christian is crucified unto the world, and the world is crucified unto him, Ga 6:14. And if we are dead to the earth, and have renounced it as our happiness, it is absurd for us to set our affections upon it, and seek it. We should be like a dead thing to it, unmoved and unaffected towards it.

2. Our true life lies in the other world: You are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God, Col 3:3. The new man has its livelihood thence. It is born and nourished from above; and the perfection of its life is reserved for that state. It is hid with Christ; not hid from us only, in point of secrecy, but hid for us, denoting security. The life of a Christian is hid with Christ. Because I live you shall live also, Joh 14:19. Christ is at present a hidden Christ, or one whom we have not seen; but this is our comfort, that our life is hid with him, and laid up safely with him. As we have reason to love him whom we have not seen (1Pe 1:8), so we may take the comfort of a happiness out of sight, and reserved in heaven for us.

3. Because at the second coming of Christ we hope for the perfection of our happiness. If we live a life of Christian purity and devotion now, when Christ, who is our life, shall appear, we shall also appear with him in glory, Col 3:4. Observe, (1.) Christ is a believer's life. I live, yet not I, but Christ lives in me, Ga 2:20. He is the principle and end of the Christian's life. He lives in us by his Spirit, and we live to him in all we do. To me to live is Christ, Php 1:21. (2.) Christ will appear again. He is now hid; and the heavens must contain him; but he will appear in all the pomp of the upper world, with his holy angels, and in his own glory and his Father's glory, Mk 8:38, Lu 9:26. (3.) We shall then appear with him in glory. It will be his glory to have his redeemed with him; he will come to be glorified in his saints (2Th 1:10); and it will be their glory to come with him, and be with him for ever. At the second coming of Christ there will be a general meeting of all the saints; and those whose life is now hid with Christ shall then appear with Christ in that glory which he himself enjoys, Joh 17:24. Do we look for such a happiness, and should we not set our affections upon that world, and live above this? What is there here to make us fond of it? What is there not there to draw our hearts to it? Our head is there, our home is there, our treasure is there, and we hope to be there for ever.

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Necessity of Mortifying Sin (62 AD)

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治死罪的必要(主后62年)

⁵ 所以,要治死你们在地上的肢体,就如淫乱、污秽、邪情、恶欲,和贪婪(贪婪就与拜偶像一样)。
⁶ 因这些事,神的忿怒必临到那悖逆之子。
⁷ 当你们在这些事中活着的时候,也曾这样行过。

使徒劝勉歌罗西人治死罪——罪是求上面之事的大阻碍。我们既当将情爱系于天上的事,也就当治死我们「在地上的肢体」——这些肢体天然引我们倾向世界的事:「要治死它们」,即压制你们在外邦状态中所盛行的恶习。杀死它们、镇压它们,正如你们对待那蔓延毁坏一切的杂草和害虫,又如你们杀死那攻击你们、伤害你们的仇敌。——「你们在地上的肢体」;或指身体的肢体——我们属土的那部分,「在地的深处被联络」而成的(诗 139:15);或指心思中败坏的情爱——这些情爱引我们倾向属地的事,即「罪身」的肢体(罗 7:24)。他特别指出——

一、肉体的私欲,他们从前在这些事上极其显明:「淫乱、污秽、邪情、恶欲」——就是肉体情欲和肉体污秽的各种发动,是他们从前的生活中所放纵的,是与基督徒的身份和天上的盼望全然相背的。

二、爱世界:「和贪婪(贪婪就与拜偶像一样)」;即对今世美物和外面享受的过度贪爱——这贪爱源于心中过高的估价,催促过于热切的追求,妨碍正当的使用和享受,又因失去它们而生出焦虑的惧怕和过度的忧愁。请注意,贪婪是属灵的拜偶像:就是把当归于神的爱和敬奉归于属世的财富,其恶性比通常所想的更甚,更惹神愤怒。并且很可注意的是,圣经所记敬虔人陷入罪中的各样实例(几乎每一项都有这个或那个人在某段时日陷入),全本圣经中没有一处记载有敬虔人被指控贪婪。他进而指出治死罪是何等必要(西 3:6、7)。1. 因为我们若不杀死它们,它们便要杀死我们:「因这些事,神的忿怒必临到那悖逆之子」(西 3:6)。请看我们众人按本性或多或少是什么:我们是「悖逆之子」;不仅是悖逆的儿女,更是服在罪的权势之下、天性倾向于悖逆。「恶人一出母胎就与神疏远,说谎话的,一离母腹便走错路」(诗 58:3)。我们既作悖逆之子,便是「可怒之子」(弗 2:3)。神的忿怒临到一切悖逆之子。不遵守律法诫命的人,必招惹律法的刑罚。他所提的这些罪是他们在异教拜偶像的状态中所犯的,那时他们特别作悖逆之子;然而这些罪仍将审判带到他们身上,使他们暴露在神的怒气之下。2. 我们当治死这些罪,因为它们曾活在我们里面:「当你们在这些事中活着的时候,也曾这样行过」(西 3:7)。请注意,想到我们从前曾活在罪中,这正是我们如今当弃绝它的好理由。我们既走了偏路,便不可再走。「我所看不明的,求你指教我」(伯 34:32)。我们在肉身放纵私欲、邪淫之中所过的日子,已经够了(彼前 4:3)。——或有人如此理解:「当你们住在行这些事的人中间」时,你们便行这些恶事。住在行黑暗之工的人中间,却不与他们相交,是难事,正如行在泥中而不染污。让我们远离作恶之人的道。

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Necessity of Mortifying Sin (62 AD)

⁵ Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry:
⁶ For which things' sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience:
⁷ In the which ye also walked some time, when ye lived in them.

The apostle exhorts the Colossians to the mortification of sin, the great hindrance to seeking the things which are above. Since it is our duty to set our affections upon heavenly things, it is our duty to mortify our members which are upon the earth, and which naturally incline us to the things of the world: "Mortify them, that is, subdue the vicious habits of mind which prevailed in your Gentile state. Kill them, suppress them, as you do weeds or vermin which spread and destroy all about them, or as you kill an enemy who fights against you and wounds you."—Your members which are upon the earth; either the members of the body, which are the earthly part of us, and were curiously wrought in the lower parts of the earth (Ps 139:15), or the corrupt affections of the mind, which lead us to earthly things, the members of the body of death, Ro 7:24. He specifies,

I. The lusts of the flesh, for which they were before so very remarkable: Fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence—the various workings of the carnal appetites and fleshly impurities, which they indulged in their former course of life, and which were so contrary to the Christian state and the heavenly hope.

II. The love of the world: And covetousness, which is idolatry; that is, an inordinate love of present good and outward enjoyments, which proceeds from too high a value in the mind, puts upon too eager a pursuit, hinders the proper use and enjoyment of them, and creates anxious fear and immoderate sorrow for the loss of them. Observe, Covetousness is spiritual idolatry: it is the giving of that love and regard to worldly wealth which are due to God only, and carries a greater degree of malignity in it, and is more highly provoking to God, than is commonly thought. And it is very observable that among all the instances of sin which good men are recorded in the scripture to have fallen into (and there is scarcely any but some or other, in one or other part of their life, have fallen into) there is no instance in all the scripture of any good man charged with covetousness. He proceeds to show how necessary it is to mortify sins, Col 3:6,7. 1. Because, if we do not kill them, they will kill us: For which things' sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience, Col 3:6. See what we are all by nature more or less: we are children of disobedience: not only disobedient children, but under the power of sin and naturally prone to disobey. The wicked are estranged from the womb; they go astray as soon as they are born, speaking lies, Ps 58:3. And, being children of disobedience, we are children of wrath, Eph 2:3. The wrath of God comes upon all the children of disobedience. Those who do not obey the precepts of the law incur the penalties of it. The sins he mentions were their sins in their heathen and idolatrous state, and they were then especially the children of disobedience; and yet these sins brought judgments upon them, and exposed them to the wrath of God. 2. We should mortify these sins because they have lived in us: In which you also walked some time, when you lived in them, Col 3:7. Observe, The consideration that we have formerly lived in sin is a good argument why we should now forsake it. We have walked in by-paths, therefore let us walk in them no more. If I have done iniquity, I will do no more, Job 34:32. The time past our lives may suffice us to have wrought the will of the Gentiles, when we walked in lasciviousness, 1Pe 4:3.—When you lived among those who did such things (so some understand it), then you walked in those evil practices. It is a hard thing to live among those who do the works of darkness and not have fellowship with them, as it is to walk in the mire and contract no soil. Let us keep out of the way of evil-doers.

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Necessity of Mortifying Sin (62 AD)

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治死罪的必要(主后62年)

⁸ 但现在你们要弃绝这一切的事,以及恼恨、忿怒、恶毒、毁谤,并口中污秽的言语。
⁹ 不要彼此说谎;因你们已经脱去旧人和旧人的行为,
¹⁰ 穿上了新人。这新人在知识上渐渐更新,正如造他主的形像。
¹¹ 在此并不分希腊人、犹太人,受割礼的、未受割礼的,化外人、西古提人,为奴的、自主的,惟有基督是包括一切,又住在各人之内。

我们既要治死不正常的食欲,也要治死不正常的情感(西 3:8):「但现在你们也要弃绝这一切的事,以及恼恨、忿怒、恶毒」;因为这些与福音的宗旨相背,正如那更污秽的污秽一样;并且虽然它们是更为属灵的恶,其中的恶性却不少。福音的信仰引进人心灵更高贵能力和更低贱能力的改变,扶持正理和良心对食欲和情欲的管辖。恼恨和忿怒是坏的,恶毒更坏,因为它更根深蒂固、更深思熟虑;它是被加重并凝固的怒气。心中败坏的原则当被割除,它们在舌头上的产物也当如此;如「毁谤」——此处似乎不是指亵渎神,而是指说人的坏话,对人出言不逊,或散布恶言,并以任何恶术损害他们的好名声——又如「口中污秽的言语」,即一切淫猥放荡的话,这种话从说话人污秽的心发出,又把同样的污秽传给听者——还有说谎:「不要彼此说谎」(西 3:9),因为这既违反真理的律法,也违反爱心的律法,既不义又不仁,自然趋于毁坏人类中间一切的信实和友谊。说谎使我们像魔鬼(他是「说谎之人的父」),是我们灵魂上魔鬼形像的主要部分;所以我们当以这一普遍理由提防这罪:既然「你们已经脱去旧人和旧人的行为,穿上了新人」(西 3:10)。想到我们在认信上既已弃绝罪、归附基督的缘故和利益,既已弃绝一切罪、并受约束归于基督,便当坚固我们抵挡说谎之罪。凡已脱去旧人的人,是连同旧人的行为一同脱去的;凡已穿上新人的人,必须穿上新人一切的行为——不但接受善原则,更要在好的为人中行出来。新人被称为「在知识上渐渐更新」,因为无知的心不能是良善的心。「心无知识的,乃为不善」(箴 19:2)。神的恩典是藉着更新悟性而在意志和情爱上做工。光是新生中的第一件事,正如在第一次创造中也是如此:「正如造他主的形像。」人在无罪状态中的尊荣,就是他照着神的形像被造;但这形像因罪被玷污失丧,又因成圣的恩典得以更新:所以一个更新的灵魂,有些像亚当受造之日的样子。在成圣的特权和本分上,「并不分希腊人、犹太人,受割礼的、未受割礼的,化外人、西古提人,为奴的、自主的」(西 3:11)。如今因不同的国家、不同的身分和生活境遇而有的分别都已消失:这一位当圣洁,那一位也照样当圣洁;这一位当从神领受圣洁的恩典为特权,那一位也照样如此。基督来是要拆毁一切隔断的墙,使众人在本分和特权上都在神面前站在同一水平上。其理由是因为「基督是包括一切,又住在各人之内」。基督是基督徒的一切,是他惟一的主和救主,也是他一切的盼望和福乐。对那些成圣的人——无论这一位或那一位、无论他们在别的方面如何——他都是「包括一切,又住在各人之内」,是「阿拉法」、是「俄梅戛」,是「首先的」、是「末后的」:他在凡事上为他们是「一切」。

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Necessity of Mortifying Sin (62 AD)

⁸ But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth.
⁹ Lie not one to another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deeds;
¹⁰ And have put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of him that created him:
¹¹ Where there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcision nor uncircumcision, Barbarian, Scythian, bond nor free: but Christ is all, and in all.

As we are to mortify inordinate appetites, so we are to mortify inordinate passions (Col 3:8): But now you also put off all these, anger wrath, malice; for these are contrary to the design of the gospel, as well as grosser impurities; and, though they are more spiritual wickedness, have not less malignity in them. The gospel religion introduces a change of the higher as well as the lower powers of the soul, and supports the dominion of right reason and conscience over appetite and passion. Anger and wrath are bad, but malice is worse, because it is more rooted and deliberate; it is anger heightened and settled. And, as the corrupt principles in the heart must be cut off, so the product of them in the tongue; as blasphemy, which seems there to mean, not so much speaking ill of God as speaking ill of men, giving ill language to them, or raising ill reports of them, and injuring their good name by any evil arts,—filthy communication, that is, all lewd and wanton discourse, which comes from a polluted mind in the speaker and propagates the same defilements in the hearers,—and lying: Lie not one to another (Col 3:9), for it is contrary both to the law of truth and the law of love, it is both unjust and unkind, and naturally tends to destroy all faith and friendship among mankind. Lying makes us like the devil (who is the father of lies), and is a prime part of the devil's image upon our souls; and therefore we are cautioned against this sin by this general reason: Seeing you have put off the old man with his deeds, and have put on the new man, Col 3:10. The consideration that we have by profession put away sin and espoused the cause and interest of Christ, that we have renounced all sin and stand engaged to Christ, should fortify us against this sin of lying. Those who have put off the old man have put it off with its deeds; and those who have put on the new man must put on all its deeds—not only espouse good principles but act them in a good conversation. The new man is said to be renewed in knowledge, because an ignorant soul cannot be a good soul. Without knowledge the heart cannot be good, Pr 19:2. The grace of God works upon the will and affections by renewing the understanding. Light is the first thing in the new creation, as it was in the first: after the image of him who created him. It was the honour of man in innocence that he was made after the image of God; but that image was defaced and lost by sin, and is renewed by sanctifying grace: so that a renewed soul is something like what Adam was in the day he was created. In the privilege and duty of sanctification there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcision nor uncircumcision, Barbarian, Scythian, bond nor free, Col 3:11. There is now no difference arising from different country or different condition and circumstance of life: it is as much the duty of the one as of the other to be holy, and as much the privilege of the one as of the other to receive from God the grace to be so. Christ came to take down all partition-walls, that all might stand on the same level before God, both in duty and privilege. And for this reason, because Christ is all in all. Christ is a Christian's all, his only Lord and Saviour, and all his hope and happiness. And to those who are sanctified, one as well as another and whatever they are in other respects, he is all in all, the Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end: he is all in all things to them.

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Love Recommended (62 AD)

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爱心的劝勉(主后62年)

¹² 所以,你们既是神的选民,圣洁蒙爱的人,就要存怜悯、恩慈、谦虚、温柔、忍耐的心。
¹³ 倘若这人与那人有嫌隙,总要彼此包容,彼此饶恕;主怎样饶恕了你们,你们也要怎样饶恕人。
¹⁴ 在这一切之外,要存着爱心,爱心就是联络全德的。
¹⁵ 又要叫基督的平安在你们心里作主;你们也为此蒙召,归为一体;且要存感谢的心。
¹⁶ 当用各样的智慧,把基督的道理丰丰富富地存在心里,用诗章、颂词、灵歌,彼此教导,互相劝戒,心被恩感,歌颂神。
¹⁷ 无论做什么,或说话或行事,都要奉主耶稣的名,藉着他感谢父神。

使徒进而劝勉彼此相爱怜悯:「所以……就要存怜悯」(西 3:12)。我们不但要脱去恼恨和忿怒(西 3:8),更要穿上怜悯和恩慈;不但要止息作恶,更要学习行善;不但不害人,更要尽所能向众人行善。

一、此处用以加强劝勉的论据极其感人:「你们既是神的选民,圣洁蒙爱的人,就要……」请注意:1. 圣洁的人就是神的选民;神的选民、圣洁的人,就是蒙爱的人——蒙神所爱,也当为众人所爱。2. 神的选民、圣洁、蒙爱的人,凡事都当行得与身份相称,不可失去圣洁的声誉,也不可失去蒙选、蒙爱的安慰。对神圣洁的人,对众人就当谦卑而相爱。请注意,我们当特别穿上什么。(1) 对可怜之人的怜悯:「存怜悯」,即最柔细的怜悯。凡欠怜悯这么多债的人,当对一切恰当的怜悯对象心存怜悯。「你们要慈悲,像你们的父慈悲一样」(路 6:36)。(2) 对朋友和爱我们之人的「恩慈」。谦恭的性情与神的选民相称;因为福音的宗旨不但要柔化人心,更要使人心甘甜,并在人与人之间促进友爱,正如在人与神之间成就和好。(3) 「谦虚」——顺服在上者,俯就下者。不但要有谦卑的态度,更要有谦卑的心。「我心里柔和谦卑,你们当……学我的样式」(太 11:29)。(4) 对惹动我们或亏负我们之人的「温柔」。我们不可因对侮辱和轻慢的怀恨而陷入任何失当;却当谨慎地约束自己的怒气,并耐心忍受别人的怒气。(5) 对那些继续惹动我们之人的「忍耐」。「爱是恒久忍耐」,又有「恩慈」(林前 13:4)。许多人能忍短暂的惹动,等到它延长便觉不耐。但我们当长久忍受人的伤害和神圣眷顾的责打。神既在我们一切惹动他的事上长久忍耐我们,我们在类似情形中也当向人如此。(6) 因我们众人都有软弱和缺欠,所以当彼此宽容:「彼此包容。」我们各人都有需要别人容忍之处,这也是我们当在别人所不愉快的事上容忍他们的好理由。我们需要别人向我们行同样的善事,正如我们有责任向他们行的一样。(7) 乐意饶恕伤害:「彼此饶恕;倘若……有嫌隙。」我们既处在心中腐败如此多、相争相斗的机会如此多的世界上,嫌隙有时会发作,甚至在神的选民、圣洁、蒙爱的人中间——如保罗和巴拿巴曾「起了争论,甚至彼此分开」(徒 15:39),又如保罗和彼得(加 2:14)。但我们的本分就是在这样的事上彼此饶恕;不存芥蒂,忍受冒犯并加以放过。其理由是:「主怎样饶恕了你们,你们也要怎样饶恕人。」想到我们蒙基督饶恕了如此多的过犯,这便是我们当饶恕别人的好理由。基督「在地上有赦罪的权柄」,这是他神性的证据;他的榜样是我们当效法的,我们自己若要蒙赦免,便有此义务。「免我们的债,如同我们免了人的债」(太 6:12)。

二、为这一切,我们在此受劝勉要作几件事:1. 以爱为衣(西 3:14):「在这一切之外,要存着爱心」——原文 epi pasi de toutois——「在一切之上」。当以此作为外衣、长袍、制服、我们尊严和分别的记号。或作:当以此为主要、为首要,正如第二块法版的总纲和摘要。「有了信心,又要加上德行……有了爱弟兄的心,又要加上爱众人的心」(彼后 1:5-7)。他以信心立基,以爱心封顶,「爱心就是联络全德的」,是一切有福群体的黏合剂和中心。基督徒的合一在于同心合意和彼此相爱。2. 顺服「基督的平安」的治理(西 3:15):「又要叫基督的平安在你们心里作主」;意即神与你和好,并他悦纳施恩的安慰感觉;或作你们中间彼此和睦的性情、保持和睦、制造和睦的心。这称为「基督的平安」,因为是他在一切属他之人心中运行而成的。「神的国……只在乎……平安」(罗 14:17)。「要叫这平安在你们心里作主——在那里得胜并治理,或如裁判官一样,判定你们中间一切争论。」——「你们也为此蒙召,归为一体。」我们蒙召得这平安——与神和好是我们的特权,与弟兄和睦是我们的本分。我们既联合为一个身体,便蒙召彼此和睦,正如天然身体的肢体一样;因为我们「就是基督的身子,并且各自作肢体」(林前 12:27)。要保持我们心中这和睦的性情,我们必须感恩。向神感恩的工作如此甘甜、如此令人愉快,能帮助我们向众人都甘甜、愉快。「与其因任何特别的恩惠和卓越而彼此嫉妒,不如为他所赐众人共有的怜悯而感谢。」3. 让「基督的道理丰丰富富地存在心里」(西 3:16)。福音就是基督的道理,已经临到我们;但这还不够,它必须在我们里面「存在」,或「当家」——原文 enoikeito——不像家中的仆人受别人管,而是像主人,有权管理并指引他家中一切。我们必须从中接受教导和指引,并按时候从中得着属灵的粮食和力量、恩典和安慰,如同从「家主」而得。它必须在我们里面「存在」;即凡事上都随时备便,并发挥其当有的影响和功用。我们必须熟悉地认识它,「自己察看」(伯 5:27)。它必须「丰丰富富地」存在我们里面:不但要在我们心中当家,还要当家得好。许多人有基督的道理存在心里,却存得极贫穷;这道理对他们无大能力和影响。当神的道「丰丰富富地存在我们里面」——当我们里面充满这道、充满圣经和基督的恩典之时,灵魂便兴盛。「当用各样的智慧。」智慧的正当功用,就是将我们所知的应用到自己身上,作自己的引导。基督的道理当在我们里面,不是在一切概念和揣测上,为要使我们作博士,而是在一切智慧上,为要使我们作好基督徒,并使我们在凡事上行得如智慧之子相称。4. 「彼此教导,互相劝戒。」这大有助于我们在一切恩典上长进;因为我们激励别人时也激励自己,并以传授知识造就人而增进自己的知识。我们必须「用诗章……彼此教导」。请注意,唱诗是福音的条例——原文 psalmois kai hymnois kai odais——大卫的诗篇,以及选自圣经、合于特别场合的属灵颂词和歌颂,以代替他们拜偶像时那些淫猥亵渎的歌。宗教诗似乎为这些话所认可,并能大大造就人。但我们唱诗之时,若不以心中的恩惠歌唱,便不是「心被恩感,歌颂神」——若不因所唱的受相当的感动,不以真实的敬虔和悟性相伴,便不是如此。唱诗既是赞美的条例,也是教导的条例;我们不但要激励鼓励自己,更要「彼此教导,互相劝戒」,彼此激发情爱,传达教导。5. 凡事都要奉基督的名(西 3:17):「无论做什么,或说话或行事,都要奉主耶稣的名」——照他的命令、顺他的权柄、靠从他得的力量、以他的荣耀为目标,并仰赖他的功劳以悦纳善行、赦免过犯,「藉着他感谢父神」。请注意:(1) 我们当凡事感恩;无论做什么,仍当感谢(弗 5:20):「凡事……常常感谢。」(2) 主耶稣既是我们赞美的中保,也是我们祷告的中保。「凡事奉我们主耶稣基督的名常常感谢父神」(弗 5:20)。凡奉基督的名行事的人,必不缺乏向神——父——感恩的内容。

英文原文

Love Recommended (62 AD)

¹² Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;
¹³ Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.
¹⁴ And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness.
¹⁵ And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankful.
¹⁶ Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord.
¹⁷ And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.

The apostle proceeds to exhort to mutual love and compassion: Put on therefore bowels of mercy, Col 3:12. We must not only put off anger and wrath (as Col 3:8), but we must put on compassion and kindness; not only cease to do evil, but learn to do well; not only not do hurt to any, but do what good we can to all.

I. The argument here used to enforce the exhortation is very affecting: Put on, as the elect of God, holy and beloved. Observe, 1. Those who are holy are the elect of God; and those who are the elect of God, and holy, are beloved—beloved of God, and ought to be so of all men. 2. Those who are the elect of God, holy and beloved, ought to conduct themselves in every thing as becomes them, and so as not to lose the credit of their holiness, nor the comfort of their being chosen and beloved. It becomes those who are holy towards God to be lowly and loving towards all men. Observe, What we must put on in particular. (1.) Compassion towards the miserable: Bowels of mercy, the tenderest mercies. Those who owe so much to mercy ought to be merciful to all who are proper objects of mercy. Be you merciful, as your Father is merciful, Lu 6:36. (2.) Kindness towards our friends, and those who love us. A courteous disposition becomes the elect of God; for the design of the gospel is not only to soften the minds of men, but to sweeten them, and to promote friendship among men as well as reconciliation with God. (3.) Humbleness of mind, in submission to those above us, and condescension to those below us. There must not only be a humble demeanour, but a humble mind. Learn of me, for I am meek and lowly in heart, Mt 11:29. (4.) Meekness towards those who have provoked us, or been any way injurious to us. We must not be transported into any indecency by our resentment of indignities and neglects: but must prudently bridle our own anger, and patiently bear the anger of others. (5.) Long-suffering towards those who continue to provoke us. Charity suffereth long, as well as is kind, 1Co 13:4. Many can bear a short provocation who are weary of bearing when it grows long. But we must suffer long both the injuries of men and the rebukes of divine Providence. If God is long-suffering to us, under all our provocations of him, we should exercise long-suffering to others in like cases. (6.) Mutual forbearance, in consideration of the infirmities and deficiencies under which we all labour: Forbearing one another. We have all of us something which needs to be borne with, and this is a good reason why we should bear with others in what is disagreeable to us. We need the same good turn from others which we are bound to show them. (7.) A readiness to forgive injuries: Forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any. While we are in this world, where there is so much corruption in our hearts, and so much occasion of difference and contention, quarrels will sometimes happen, even among the elect of God, who are holy and beloved, as Paul and Barnabas had a sharp contention, which parted them asunder one from the other (Ac 15:39), and Paul and Peter, Ga 2:14. But it is our duty to forgive one another in such cases; not to bear any grudge, but put up with the affront and pass it by. And the reason is: Even as Christ forgave you, so also do you. The consideration that we are forgiven by Christ so many offences is a good reason why we should forgive others. It is an argument of the divinity of Christ that he had power on earth to forgive sins; and it is a branch of his example which we are obliged to follow, if we ourselves would be forgiven. Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us, Mt 6:12.

II. In order to all this, we are exhorted here to several things:—1. To clothe ourselves with love (Col 3:14): Above all things put on charity: epi pasi de toutois—over all things. Let this be the upper garment, the robe, the livery, the mark of our dignity and distinction. Or, Let this be principal and chief, as the whole sum and abstract of the second table. Add to faith virtue, and to brotherly-kindness charity, 2Pe 1:5-7. He lays the foundation in faith, and the top-stone in charity, which is the bond of perfectness, the cement and centre of all happy society. Christian unity consists of unanimity and mutual love. 2. To submit ourselves to the government of the peace of God (Col 3:15): Let the peace of God rule in your hearts, that is, God's being at peace with you, and the comfortable sense of his acceptance and favour: or, a disposition to peace among yourselves, a peaceable spirit, that keeps the peace, and makes peace. This is called the peace of God, because it is of his working in all who are his. The kingdom of God is righteousness and peace, Ro 14:17. "Let this peace rule in your heart—prevail and govern there, or as an umpire decide all matters of difference among you."—To which you are called in one body. We are called to this peace, to peace with God as our privilege and peace with our brethren as our duty. Being united in one body, we are called to be at peace one with another, as the members of the natural body; for we are the body of Christ, and members in particular, 1Co 12:27. To preserve in us this peaceable disposition, we must be thankful. The work of thanksgiving to God is such a sweet and pleasant work that it will help to make us sweet and pleasant towards all men. "Instead of envying one another upon account of any particular favours and excellence, be thankful for his mercies, which are common to all of you." 3. To let the word of Christ dwell in us richly, Col 3:16. The gospel is the word of Christ, which has come to us; but that is not enough, it must dwell in us, or keep house—enoikeito, not as a servant in a family, who is under another's control, but as a master, who has a right to prescribe to and direct all under his roof. We must take our instructions and directions from it, and our portion of meat and strength, of grace and comfort, in due season, as from the master of the household. It must dwell in us; that is, be always ready and at hand to us in every thing, and have its due influence and use. We must be familiarly acquainted with it, and know it for our good, Job 5:27. It must dwell in us richly: not only keep house in our hearts, but keep a good house. Many have the word of Christ dwelling in them, but it dwells in them but poorly; it has no mighty force and influence upon them. Then the soul prospers when the word of God dwells in us richly, when we have abundance of it in us, and are full of the scriptures and of the grace of Christ. And this in all wisdom. The proper office of wisdom is to apply what we know to ourselves, for our own direction. The word of Christ must dwell in us, not in all notion and speculation, to make us doctors, but in all wisdom, to make us good Christians, and enable us to conduct ourselves in every thing as becomes Wisdom's children. 4. To teach and admonish one another. This would contribute very much to our furtherance in all grace; for we sharpen ourselves by quickening others, and improve our knowledge by communicating it for their edification. We must admonish one another in psalms and hymns. Observe, Singing of psalms is a gospel ordinance: psalmois kai hymnois kai odais—the Psalms of David, and spiritual hymns and odes, collected out of the scripture, and suited to special occasions, instead of their lewd and profane songs in their idolatrous worship. Religious poesy seems countenanced by these expressions and is capable of great edification. But, when we sing psalms, we make no melody unless we sing with grace in our hearts, unless we are suitably affected with what we sing and go along in it with true devotion and understanding. Singing of psalms is a teaching ordinance as well as a praising ordinance; and we are not only to quicken and encourage ourselves, but to teach and admonish one another, mutually excite our affections, and convey instructions. 5. All must be done in the name of Christ (Col 3:17): And whatsoever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, according to his command and in compliance with his authority, by strength derived from him, with an eye to his glory, and depending upon his merit for the acceptance of what is good and the pardon of what is amiss, Giving thanks to God and the Father by him. Observe, (1.) We must give thanks in all things; whatsoever we do, we must still give thanks, Eph 5:20, Giving thanks always for all things. (2.) The Lord Jesus must be the Mediator of our praises as well as of our prayers. We give thanks to God and the Father in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, Eph 5:20. Those who do all things in Christ's name will never want matter of thanksgiving to God, even the Father.

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Relative Duties (62 AD)

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各等相对的本分(主后62年)

¹⁸ 你们作妻子的,当顺服自己的丈夫,这在主里面是相宜的。
¹⁹ 你们作丈夫的,要爱你们的妻,不可待她们刻薄。
²⁰ 你们作儿女的,要凡事听从父母,因为这是主所喜悦的。
²¹ 你们作父亲的,不要惹儿女的气,恐怕他们失了志气。
²² 你们作仆人的,要凡事听从你们肉身的主人,不要只在眼前事奉,像是讨人喜欢的,总要存心诚实敬畏主。
²³ 无论做什么,都要从心里做,像是给主做的,不是给人做的;
²⁴ 因你们知道从主那里必得着基业为赏赐。你们所事奉的乃是主基督。
²⁵ 那行不义的必受不义的报应;主并不偏待人。

使徒在本章末了以对各等相对本分的劝勉作结,正如前在以弗所书信中所作的一样。最专注于展示神圣恩典的荣耀、最高举主耶稣的书信,也最具体、最明确地督促各等关系中的本分。我们绝不可将福音信仰的特权和本分分开。

一、他从妻子与丈夫的本分开始(西 3:18):「你们作妻子的,当顺服自己的丈夫,这在主里面是相宜的。」顺服是妻子的本分,原文 hypotassesthe。这词与论我们当顺服官长的本分所用的是同一词(罗 13:1:「人人当顺服在上有权柄的」),并以顺服和敬重表达(弗 5:24、33)。其理由是「先造的是亚当,后造的是夏娃;且不是亚当被引诱,乃是女人被引诱,陷在罪里」(提前 2:13、14)。他在创造中居先,在过犯中居后。「男人是女人的头」;「男人不是由女人而出,女人乃是由男人而出;并且男人不是为女人造的,女人乃是为男人造的」(林前 11:3、8、9)。这是合乎自然秩序和事物之理的,也是合乎神的任命和旨意的。但这不过是顺服——不是顺服一位严苛的主或绝对的暴君,可以任意而行、无所约束;而是顺服丈夫,顺服自己的丈夫——他站在最亲密的关系中,也受严格约束尽自己的本分。并且「这在主里面是相宜的」,即与这关系相称,是他们按本分当行的,作为顺服基督权柄和律法的一个实例。另一方面,「丈夫当爱他们的妻,不可待她们刻薄」(西 3:19)。他们当以温柔忠贞的爱爱她们,正如基督爱教会,又如爱自己的身体,甚至如爱自己一样(弗 5:25、28、33),用那专属于最亲密关系、作为人生最大安慰和福分之爱去爱。他们「不可待她们刻薄」——不可待她们不善,用粗暴的言语或严酷的对待,倒要凡事恩慈厚待她们;因为「女人乃是为男人造的,然而男人也是由女人而出」(林前 11:9、11、12)。

二、儿女与父母的本分:「你们作儿女的,要凡事听从父母,因为这是主所喜悦的」(西 3:20)。他们当甘心遵行父母一切合法的命令,受他们的指引和安排;正如那些有天然的权利、又比自己更适合引导他们的人。使徒(弗 6:2)要求他们「孝敬」父母,也要「听从」父母;他们当敬重父母,对父母存尊荣之想,因为生活上的顺服当出于心思上的敬重和判断。这「是主所喜悦的」,为他所悦纳;因为这是「第一条带应许的诫命」(弗 6:2),其上附带明确的应许,即「使你得福,在世长寿」。孝敬的儿女最可能在世亨通、享长寿。父母也当温柔,正如儿女当顺服(西 3:21):「你们作父亲的,不要惹儿女的气,恐怕他们失了志气。你们对他们的权柄不可严酷严厉地运用,当以恩慈和温柔运用,免得激发他们的情欲、使他们在本分上灰心,又因勒得太紧而使他们更加凶猛地发作。」不谨慎的父母的坏脾气和坏榜样,常成为儿女的大阻碍,成为他们路上的绊脚石(弗 6:4)。并且神通常藉着父母的温柔和儿女的孝敬,为他的教会预备事奉他的后裔,并将信仰一代代传下去。

三、仆人与主人:「你们作仆人的,要凡事听从你们肉身的主人」(西 3:22)。仆人当尽他们所处关系中的本分,并在一切与他们向天上的主——神——的本分相符的事上,顺服主人的命令。「不要只在眼前事奉,像是讨人喜欢的」——不是只在主人眼前事奉,而是主人不在眼前时也同样事奉。他们当又公义、又殷勤。「总要存心诚实敬畏主」——不存私心,也不虚伪掩饰,如那敬畏神、在他面前战兢的人。请注意,敬畏神的心管辖人心,便使人在一切关系中为善。敬畏神的仆人在主人不在眼前时也公义忠心,因为他们知道自己在神的眼中。参创 20:11:「我以为……这地方的人总不惧怕神。」尼 5:15:「但我因敬畏神,不这样行。」「无论做什么,都要从心里做(西 3:23),当殷勤而作,不闲懒懈怠」;或作「当甘心而作,不因神将你置于那关系的眷顾而不满」。——「像是给主做的,不是给人做的。」当仆人的工作以向着神而作——以他的荣耀为目标、以顺服他的命令为念——而不单是向着人、不单顾及人,这工作便被分别为圣。请注意,我们忠心尽对人的本分之时,实在是尽对神的本分。为勉励仆人,当让他们知道,又良善又忠心的仆人,绝不会因作仆人而离天堂更远:「因你们知道从主那里必得着基业为赏赐。你们所事奉的乃是主基督(西 3:24)。照基督的命令服事你们的主人,就是事奉基督,他要作你们的赏赐者:至终你们必得着荣耀的赏赐。你们如今虽是仆人,却要领受儿子的基业。但另一方面,那行不义的必受不义的报应」(西 3:25)。义人是公义的神,仆人若亏负主人,他必向他算账,即便仆人能瞒过主人的眼目。他也必惩罚不义的人,正如赏赐忠心的仆人;照样,主人若亏负仆人,也必如此。——「主并不偏待人。」地上公义的审判者必不偏待人,对主人仆人一视同仁;不因人外面的境遇和生活状况而有所偏颇。二者都要在他的审判台前站在同一水平上。

使徒在这一切本分的实例中,可能特别顾及林前 7:1-40 所提的情形——不同信仰之关系的情形,如基督徒与外邦人、犹太归信者与未受割礼的外邦人;那里可能疑惑他们是否当对这样的人尽各等关系中所当尽的本分。若在这些情形中尚且如此,则基督徒彼此之间、双方同属一信仰之时,就更有力了。福音的信仰若到处盛行,必使世界成为何等有福!又必对万事的状况和人生的每一关系有何等的影响!

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Relative Duties (62 AD)

¹⁸ Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.
¹⁹ Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
²⁰ Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.
²¹ Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.
²² Servants, obey in all things your masters according to the flesh; not with eyeservice, as menpleasers; but in singleness of heart, fearing God:
²³ And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men;
²⁴ Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ.
²⁵ But he that doeth wrong shall receive for the wrong which he hath done: and there is no respect of persons.

The apostle concludes the chapter with exhortations to relative duties, as before in the epistle to the Ephesians. The epistles which are most taken up in displaying the glory of divine grace, and magnifying the Lord Jesus, are the most particular and distinct in pressing the duties of the several relations. We must never separate the privileges and duties of the gospel religion.

I. He begins with the duties of wives and husbands (Col 3:18): Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Submission is the duty of wives, hypotassesthe. It is the same word which is used to express our duty to magistrates (Ro 13:1, Let every soul be subject to the higher powers), and is expressed by subjection and reverence, Eph 5:24,33. The reason is that Adam was first formed, then Eve: and Adam was not deceived, but the woman, being deceived, was in the transgression, 1Ti 2:13,14. He was first in the creation and last in the transgression. The head of the woman is the man; and the man is not of the woman, but the woman of the man; neither was the man created for the woman, but the woman for the man, 1Co 11:3,8,9. It is agreeable to the order of nature and the reason of things, as well as the appointment and will of God. But then it is submission, not to a rigorous lord or absolute tyrant, who may do his will and is without restraints, but to a husband, and to her own husband, who stands in the nearest relation, and is under strict engagements to proper duty too. And this is fit in the Lord, it is becoming the relation, and what they are bound in duty to do, as an instance of obedience to the authority and law of Christ. On the other hand, husbands must love their wives, and not be bitter against them, Col 3:19. They must love them with tender and faithful affection, as Christ loved the church, and as their own bodies, and even as themselves (Eph 5:25,28,33), with a love peculiar to the nearest relation and the greatest comfort and blessing of life. And they must not be bitter against them, not use them unkindly, with harsh language or severe treatment, but be kind and obliging to them in all things; for the woman was made for the man, neither is the man without the woman, and the man also is by the woman, 1Co 11:9,11,12.

II. The duties of children and parents: Children, obey your parents in all things, for this is well-pleasing unto the Lord, Col 3:20. They must be willing to do all their lawful commands, and be at their direction and disposal; as those who have a natural right and are fitter to direct them than themselves. The apostle (Eph 6:2) requires them to honour as well as obey their parents; they must esteem them and think honourably of them, as the obedience of their lives must proceed from the esteem and opinion of their minds. And this is well-pleasing to God, or acceptable to him; for it is the first commandment with promise (Eph 6:2), with an explicit promise annexed to it, namely, That it shall be well with them, and they shall live long on the earth. Dutiful children are the most likely to prosper in the world and enjoy long life. And parents must be tender, as well as children obedient (Col 3:21): "Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged. Let not your authority over them be exercised with rigour and severity, but with kindness and gentleness, lest you raise their passions and discourage them in their duty, and by holding the reins too tight make them fly out with greater fierceness." The bad temper and example of imprudent parents often prove a great hindrance to their children and a stumbling-block in their way; see Eph 6:4. And it is by the tenderness of parents, and dutifulness of children, that God ordinarily furnishes his church with a seed to serve him, and propagates religion from age to age.

III. Servants and masters: Servants, obey your masters in all things according to the flesh, Col 3:22. Servants must do the duty of the relation in which they stand, and obey their master's commands in all things which are consistent with their duty to God their heavenly Master. Not with eye-service, as men-pleasers—not only when their master's eye is upon them, but when they are from under their master's eye. They must be both just and diligent. In singleness of heart, fearing God—without selfish designs, or hypocrisy and disguise, as those who fear God and stand in awe of him. Observe, The fear of God ruling in the heart will make people good in every relation. Servants who fear God will be just and faithful when they are from under their master's eye, because they know they are under the eye of God. See Ge 20:11, Because I thought, Surely the fear of God is not in this place. Ne 5:15, But so did not I, because of the fear of God. "And whatsoever you do, do it heartily (Col 3:23), with diligence, not idly and slothfully:" or, "Do it cheerfully, not discontented at the providence of God which put you in that relation."—As to the Lord, and not as to men. It sanctifies a servant's work when it is done as unto God—with an eye to his glory and in obedience to his command, and not merely as unto men, or with regard to them only. Observe, We are really doing our duty to God when we are faithful in our duty to men. And, for servants' encouragement, let them know that a good and faithful servant is never the further from heaven for his being a servant: "Knowing that of the Lord you shall receive the reward of the inheritance, for you serve the Lord Christ, Col 3:24. Serving your masters according to the command of Christ, you serve Christ, and he will be your paymaster: you will have a glorious reward at last. Though you are now servants, you will receive the inheritance of sons. But, on the other hand, He who does wrong will receive for the wrong which he has done," Col 3:25. There is a righteous God, who, if servants wrong their masters, will reckon with them for it, though they may conceal it from their master's notice. And he will be sure to punish the unjust as well as reward the faithful servant: and so if masters wrong their servants.—And there is no respect of persons with him. The righteous Judge of the earth will be impartial, and carry it with an equal hand towards the master and servant; not swayed by any regard to men's outward circumstances and condition of life. The one and the other will stand upon a level at his tribunal.

It is probable that the apostle has a particular respect, in all these instances of duty, to the case mentioned 1Co 7:1-40 of relations of a different religion, as a Christian and heathen, a Jewish convert and an uncircumcised Gentile, where there was room to doubt whether they were bound to fulfil the proper duties of their several relations to such persons. And, if it hold in such cases, it is much stronger upon Christians one towards another, and where both are of the same religion. And how happy would the gospel religion make the world, if it every where prevailed; and how much would it influence every state of things and every relation of life!