Matthew Henry's Complete Commentary · Proverbs 第23章

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Proverbs 第 23 章

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Cautions against Luxury and Covetousness

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防范奢华与贪婪的告诫

¹ 你若与官长坐席,要留意在你面前的是谁。
² 你若是贪食的,就当拿刀放在喉咙上。
³ 不可贪恋他的美食,因为是哄人的食物。

此处所警戒的罪,乃是奢华与纵欲,以及在饮食上放纵食欲之罪——这是最容易缠累我们的罪。1. 此处告诉我们,何时进入试探,最有可能跌入此罪:“你与官长坐席之时,面前有极丰盛的筵席,珍馐美味,是你素来罕见的;你便容易像哈曼那样,心中只想着由此得着的尊荣(斯五12),以及满足口腹之欲的机会,却忘了已有网罗为你设下。”或许,对于不惯赴此等筵席之人,这试探比那素常享用美馔之人更强、更危险。2. 此处教导我们当在此时加倍儆醒。我们必须:(1.) 自知身处险境:“你要留意在你面前的是何等饮食,好拣选于你最稳妥、最不致饮食过度的。要留意在你面前的是何等同席之人,乃是官长本身;他若是又智又善的,必以宾客在他席上失态为对他的羞辱。”我们若与官长坐席尚且如此,更何况与万君之君在主的桌前坐席,岂不更当留意在我们面前的是什么,免得我们在任何方面以不配、不合宜的态度吃喝,以致那席成了网罗。(2.) 我们必须惊醒自己,归于节制与中庸:“当拿刀放在喉咙上,意即要约束自己,如同有一把剑悬于头上一般,远离一切的过度。让这些话成为放在喉咙上的刀:‘你们要谨慎,恐怕因贪食醉酒……累住你们的心,那日子就如同网罗忽然临到你们’;或是这话:‘因为这一切事,神必审问你’;或是这话:‘醉酒的……不能承受神的国度。’”拉丁人称奢华为 gula——意即“喉咙”。“当起来抵挡那罪。宁可如此自制,使你贪馋的食欲觉得仿佛喉咙被割断,也胜过纵情于声色口腹之乐。”我们决不可“无所惧怕地喂养自己”(犹12),乃当在试探临前之时格外存惧怕的心。(3.) 我们必须以理性引导自己,圣洁地轻看肉体的享乐:“你若是贪食的,就当即时省悟,将主可畏之事应用于己心,以约束自己。当你有跌入任何过度之险时,就当拿刀放在喉咙上;这或可应一时之急。但仅此还不够:要把斧子放在树根上;治死那在你身上有如此权势的食欲:不可贪恋美食。”要注意:我们当省察何为自己的罪孽;我们若发觉自己沉溺于纵情口腹,就不可单单防备外来的试探,更要制伏内里的败坏。本性原是要食物的,我们也奉教为此祈求;但贪恋美食的乃是私欲,对此我们不能凭信心祈求,因这等美食往往于心、于身、或于家业,皆非合宜的食物。它们是哄人的食物,所以大卫不为之祈求,反倒求免于此(诗一四一4)。它们悦人口味,却或许翻搅胃肠,在腹中变酸,叫人难受作呕。它们并不能将人所指望从中得着的满足赐给人;因为那些贪食的,纵有极珍美的,仍不得满足;不多时便厌倦了;非得另寻别样更精美的不可。奢华的食欲越被纵容娇养,就越发任性难缠,越发难以餍足;美食能叫人厌腻,却永不能叫人满足。然而尤其是在这一点上它们是哄人的食物:它们悦了身体,却害了灵魂;它们累住人的心,使之不宜事奉神;不但如此,它们更夺去人的心,使心思与属灵之乐疏远,败坏其对属灵之乐的体味。我们既知它必定欺哄我们,又何必贪恋它呢?

⁴ 不要劳碌求富,休仗自己的聪明。
⁵ 你岂要定睛在虚无的钱财上吗?因钱财必长翅膀,如鹰向天飞去。

有人贪食(箴二三2),也有人贪财,所罗门在此责备后者。人将心系于钱财(虽然钱财看似最实在),与系于美食一样,都是自欺。请看:

I. 他如何劝戒贪财之人不要劳苦自己、折磨自己(箴二三4)。“不要以求富为目标,不要一意积攒家业,将你那已经充足的,再求增添。”我们当尽力安舒度日,按自己的身分地位供养儿女家人,却不可贪图大事。不可作那些一心要发财的人——以发财为至善而追求,以发财为最高目的而图谋(提前六9)。贪财之人以此为智慧,妄想自己若富到某等地步便可全然有福。“当弃绝那种智慧”,因那是个错谬;“人的生命不在乎家道丰富”(路十二15)。1. 那些贪图大事的,使两手所揽的事务超过所能掌握的,以致他们的一生既是十足的苦役,又是无休止的奔忙;但你不要作这等愚人;不要劳碌求富。凡你所有的、所作的,当作它的主人,而不作它的奴隶,不像那些“清晨早起,深夜不眠,吃劳碌得来的饭”、为要发财之人。适度的劳碌,使我们“有可分给人的”,乃是我们的智慧与本分(弗四28);过度的劳碌,使我们有可囤积的,乃是我们的罪与愚妄。2. 他们以谋算填塞自己的心思,超过所能明白的,以致一生在忧虑惧怕中颠簸不安;但你不要如此苦待自己:“休仗自己的聪明”;只管安然行你本业之路,不去筹划新的门路、运尽心机去寻出新的发明。当安息于神的智慧,舍弃你自己的(箴三5、6)。

II. 他如何劝戒贪财之人不要因过度地爱慕、追求那捕风捉影、令心烦扰之物而自欺自害;因为:

1. 它既不实在,也不能使人满足:“你岂要这样愚拙,以致定睛——使你的眼目带着热切与急切——在那虚无之物上吗?”要注意:(1.) 这世上之物乃是虚无之物。它们在自然界中确有实存,也确是护理的恩赐;但在恩典的国度里,它们却是虚无之物;它们不是灵魂的福分与产业,不是它们所应许的,也不是我们所指望的;它们于倚靠之的灵魂,不过是一场虚景、一道幻影、一个骗局。它们是虚无的,因为不久它们就归于乌有,就不再属我们;它们在使用中朽坏,其样式终必过去。(2.) 因此,我们若定睛于它们,将它们当作至宝来羡慕,当作己有的好处来据为己有,当作目标来追逐——使我们一切行动皆以此为靶心,如鹰扑向猎物一般——这便是愚妄。“你岂要行这本身如此荒谬之事?你这有理性的受造之物,岂要痴迷于虚影?这眼目代表着理性与心智的能力;你岂要将这等能力虚掷于这等不配的对象之上?将手脚放在世界上倒还罢了,唯独不可放上眼目,就是心灵的眼目;它们原是为思想更美之事而造的。我儿,你既是信奉宗教的,岂要如此羞辱神(眼目本当时常仰望祂),如此糟蹋你自己的灵魂吗?”

2. 它既不持久,也不长存。钱财乃是极不可靠之物;实在是如此:它们“必长翅膀飞去”。我们越是使眼目飞向它们,它们就越容易从我们这里飞走。(1.) 钱财必离弃我们。那些将它握得再牢的,也不能长久持守;不是它被夺去,便是我们被夺去。家业被说成如河水流去(伯二十28),在此则如飞鸟飞去。(2.) 或许它会忽然离去,正当我们为它费尽辛劳、并开始以它为大大的夸耀与喜乐之时。贪财之人坐着孵抱他的财富,覆庇于其上,直到它羽翼丰满,如同母鸡翼下的雏鸡,随即便飞去了。又如有人喜爱一群落在他田间的野禽,因它们落在他的地上便称之为己有;岂知他若想走近它们,它们立时展翅,飞到别人田里去了。(3.) 它们飞去所凭的翅膀,乃是自身所生的。它们里面本有自我朽坏的根源,自有其蛀虫与锈蚀。它们的本质便是耗损,如同一把尘土,攥在手中,便从指缝间漏尽。雪若任它落在地上原处,可存留片时,看着也美;但若被聚拢揣在怀里,立时便消融不见了。(4.) 它们去得无可阻挡、无从追回,如鹰向天飞去——飞得强劲(无人能拦阻),飞得无影无踪、呼之不应(无从将它唤回);钱财离弃人正是如此;人若将心系于其上,钱财去时便撇下他们在忧愁烦恼之中。

⁶ 不要吃恶眼人的饭,也不要贪他的美味。
⁷ 因为他心怎样思量,他为人就是怎样。他虽对你说,请吃,请喝,他的心却与你相背。
⁸ 你所吃的那点食物必吐出来,你所说的甘美言语也必落空。

那些放纵口腹、贪图美食的(箴二三2),凡有美馔之处便乐意前往;那些贪婪吝啬、为要在家省吃俭用的,也乐得在别人席上蹭一顿饭;所以两等人在此都受劝戒:不要轻易领受各人的邀请,尤不可在未蒙邀请时硬挤进去。请看:1. 有些人假意请朋友赴席,其实心里并不诚恳真挚。他们有一张能言的嘴,知道该说什么:“他说,请吃,请喝”,因为照例席主当向宾客如此客套;但他们却长着一只恶眼,吝惜宾客所吃的每一口,尤其当客人吃得痛快之时。他们要显得慷慨好客,要博取此等美名,可他们对钱财的爱如此之深,对朋友的爱如此之浅,以致既不能从中得着喜乐,自己与朋友也无从尽兴。这吝啬人的筵席,于他乃是一场自苦。人若如此自私、卑鄙、刻薄,竟舍不得诚心邀朋友享用自己所有的,就不该再加上虚伪邀请之罪;倒不如承认自己的本相,免得“顽劣人被称为大方,吝啬人被称为慷慨”(赛三十二5)。2. 人领受那等心不甘情不愿所设的款待,断无喜乐可言:“你不要吃这等人的饭;让他自己留着吧。不可揩那些慷慨之人的油,也不要叫自己成为任何人的累赘;尤其要不屑于受那些吝啬而不诚之人的恩惠。宁可吃素菜而蒙真心款待,胜过吃美食而无真心。所以:”(1.) “要照人的存心来论断他。你以为自己是向他这朋友尽你的敬意,因他奉承你,你便以为他是朋友;岂知‘他心怎样思量,他为人就是怎样’,并非如他口舌所言。”我们无论对神对人,里面是什么,便真是什么;信仰也好、友情也罢,唯有出于真诚,才算得着什么。(2.) “要照消化的情形、照那食物是否合你的脾胃来论断这食物。他叫你尽情吃,但迟早他那卑鄙贪婪的脾性必要显露,‘他心怎样思量’,脸色便怎样,叫你看出你并非受欢迎的;那时‘你所吃的那点食物必吐出来’;单单想起此事,便要叫你连所吃的食物也呕出来,并要收回你为答他客套、为谢他殷勤所说的话。你必‘失去你的甘美言语’,就是他给你、你也给他的那些话。”

⁹ 你不要说话给愚昧人听,因他必藐视你智慧的言语。

此处教导我们不要“把珍珠丢在猪前”(太七6),也不要将神圣之事暴露于亵慢讥诮之人的轻蔑与嘲笑之下。逢着合宜的机会谈论神圣之事,原是我们的本分;只是:1. 有些人对任何事都要讥笑一番,无论说得何等慎重、何等中肯;他们不但藐视智慧人的言语,更藐视那言语中的智慧,就是其中最能造就他们自己的部分;他们偏要嘲讽那部分,仿佛它对他们怀有什么恶意,是他们必须防备的。2. 人若如此行,便丧失了良言善教的益处;智慧人不但可以,更被劝戒:不要说话给这等愚昧人听;任凭他们仍旧愚昧,不要将宝贵的言语白白虚掷于他们。智慧人凭智慧所说的若不蒙垂听,他就当缄默不语,且看那缄默的智慧是否会得人留意。

¹⁰ 不可挪移古时的地界,也不可侵入孤儿的田地。
¹¹ 因他们的救赎主大有能力,他必向你为他们辨屈。

要注意:1. 孤儿乃是在神特别的保护之下;在祂那里,他们不但蒙怜悯(何十四3),更得伸张公义。祂是他们的救赎主,是他们的 Goël,是他们至近的亲属,必为他们出头,以嫉邪般的热心为他们撑腰,以加于他们的伤害为加于祂自己的羞辱。祂既作他们的救赎主,必“向欺压他们的人为他们辨屈”;祂总要以这样或那样的方式,不但护卫他们的权利、为他们追讨回来,更要为加于他们的冤屈伸冤。并且祂“大有能力”,是全能的;祂的全能为他们的保护而效力运行;那些最骄横、最强势的欺压者,不但要发觉自己绝非祂的对手,更要发觉与祂相争乃是自取灭亡。2. 因此各人都当谨慎,不可在任何事上伤害孤儿,或侵夺他们的权利,无论是暗暗挪移古时的地界,还是强行侵入他们的田地。他们既是孤儿,无人为他们的冤屈伸张;又正在年幼,甚至连人加于他们的伤害也无从知觉。荣誉之心,更何况是敬畏神的心,理当拦阻人去伤害孩童,尤其是孤儿。

英文原文

Cautions against Luxury and Covetousness

¹ When thou sittest to eat with a ruler, consider diligently what is before thee:
² And put a knife to thy throat, if thou be a man given to appetite.
³ Be not desirous of his dainties: for they are deceitful meat.

The sin we are here warned against is luxury and sensuality, and the indulgence of the appetite in eating and drinking, a sin that most easily besets us. 1. We are here told when we enter into temptation, and are in most danger of falling into this sin: "When thou sittest to eat with a ruler thou has great plenty before thee, varieties and dainties, such a table spread as thou has seldom seen; thou are ready to think, as Haman did, of nothing but the honour hereby done thee (Es 5:12), and the opportunity thou hast of pleasing thy palate, and forgettest that there is a snare laid for thee." Perhaps the temptation may be stronger, and more dangerous, to one that is not used to such entertainments, than to one that always sits down to a good table. 2. We are here directed to double our guard at such a time. We must, (1.) Apprehend ourselves to be in danger: "Consider diligently what is before thee, what meat and drink are before thee, that thou mayest choose that which is safest for thee and which thou art least likely to eat and drink of to excess. Consider what company is before thee, the ruler himself, who, if he be wise and good, will take it as an affront for any of his guests to disorder themselves at his table." And, if when we sit to eat with a ruler, much more when we sit to eat with the ruler of rulers at the Lord's table, must we consider diligently what is before us, that we may not in any respect eat and drink unworthily, unbecomingly, lest that table become a snare. (2.) We must alarm ourselves into temperance and moderation: "Put a knife to thy throat, that is, restrain thyself, as it were with a sword hanging over thy head, from all excess. Let these words, Take heed lest at any time your hearts be overcharged with surfeiting and drunkenness, and so that day come upon you unawares—or those, For all these things, God shall bring thee into judgment—or those, Drunkards, shall not inherit the kingdom of God, be a knife to the throat." The Latins call luxury gula—the throat. "Take up arms against that sin. Rather be so abstemious that thy craving appetite will begin to think thy throat cut than indulge thyself in voluptuousness." We must never feed ourselves without fear (Jude 1:12), but we must in a special manner fear when temptation is before us. (3.) We must reason ourselves into a holy contempt of the gratifications of sense: "If thou be a man given to appetite, thou must, by a present solution, and an application of the terrors of the Lord, restrain thyself. When thou art in danger of falling into any excess put a knife to thy throat; that may serve for once. But that is not enough: lay the axe to the root; mortify that appetite which has such a power over thee: Be not desirous of dainties." Note, We ought to observe what is our own iniquity, and, if we find ourselves addicted to flesh-pleasing, we must not only stand upon our guard against temptations from without, but subdue the corruption within. Nature is desirous of food, and we are taught to pray for it, but it is lust that is desirous of dainties, and we cannot in faith pray for them, for frequently they are not food convenient for mind, body, or estate. They are deceitful meat, and therefore David, instead of praying for them, prays against them, Ps 141:4. They are pleasant to the palate, but perhaps rise in the stomach, turn sour there, upbraid a man, and make him sick. They do not yield men the satisfaction they promised themselves from them; for those that are given to appetite, when they have that which is very dainty, are not pleased; they are soon weary of it; they must have something else more dainty. The more a luxurious appetite is humoured and indulged the more humour some and troublesome it grows, and the more hard to please; dainties will surfeit, but never satisfy. But especially they are upon this account deceitful meat, that, while they please the body, they prejudice the soul, they overcharge the heart, and unfit it for the service of God, nay, they take away the heart, and alienate the mind from spiritual delights, and spoil its relish of them. Why then should we covet that which will certainly cheat us?

⁴ Labour not to be rich: cease from thine own wisdom.
⁵ Wilt thou set thine eyes upon that which is not? for riches certainly make themselves wings; they fly away as an eagle toward heaven.

As some are given to appetite (Pr 23:2) so others to covetousness, and those Solomon here takes to task. Men cheat themselves as much by setting their hearts on money (though it seems most substantial) as by setting them on dainties. Observe,

I. How he dissuades the covetous man from toiling and tormenting himself (Pr 23:4). "Do not aim to be rich, to raise an estate, and to make what thou hast in abundance more than it is." We must endeavor to live comfortably, and provide for our children and families, according as our rank and condition are, but we must not seek great things. Be not of those that will be rich, that desire it as their chief good and design it as their highest end, 1Ti 6:9. Covetous men think it is their wisdom, imagining that if they be rich to such a degree they shall be completely happy. Cease from that wisdom, for it is a mistake; a man's life consists not in the abundance of the things which he possesses, Lu 12:15. 1. Those that aim at great things fill their hands with business more than they can grasp, so that their life is both a perfect drudgery and a perpetual hurry; but be not thou such a fool; labour not to be rich. What thou hast, or doest, be master of it, and not a slave to it as those that rise up early, sit up late, and eat the bread of carefulness, and all to be rich. Moderate labour, that we may have to give, is our wisdom and duty, Eph 4:28. Immoderate labour, that we may have to hoard, is our sin and folly. 2. They fill their heads with projects more than they understand, so that their life is a constant toss of care and fear; but do not thou thus vex thyself: Cease from thy own wisdom; go on quietly in the way of thy business, not contriving new ways and setting thy wits to work to find out new inventions. Acquiesce in God's wisdom, and cease from thy own, Pr 3:5,6.

II. How he dissuades the covetous man from cheating and deceiving himself by an inordinate love and pursuit of that which is vanity and vexation of spirit; for,

1. It is not substantial and satisfying: "Wilt thou be such a fool as to set thy eyes, to cause thy eyes to fly with eagerness and violence, upon that which is not?" Note, (1.) The things of this world are things that are not. They have a real existence in nature and are the real gifts of Providence, but in the kingdom of grace they are things that are not; they are not a happiness and portion for a soul, are not what they promise to be nor what we expect them to be; they are a show, a shadow, a sham upon the soul that trusts to them. They are not, for in a little while they will not be, they will not be ours; they perish in the using; the fashion of them passes away. (2.) It is therefore folly for us to set our eyes upon them, to admire them as the best things, to appropriate them to ourselves as our good things, and to aim at them as our mark at which all our actions are levelled, to fly upon them as the eagle upon her prey. "Wilt thou do a thing so absurd in itself? What thou, a reasonable creature, wilt thou dote upon shadows? The eyes are put for rational and intellectual powers; wilt thou throw those away upon such undeserving objects? To set the hands and feet upon the world is well enough, but not the eyes, the eyes of the mind; those were made to contemplate better things. Wilt thou, my son, that professest religion, put such an affront upon God (towards whom the eyes should ever be) and such an abuse upon thy soul?"

2. It is not durable and abiding. Riches are very uncertain things; certainly they are so: They make themselves wings, and fly away. The more we cause our eyes to fly upon them the more likely they are to fly away from us. (1.) Riches will leave us. Those that hold them ever so fast cannot hold them long; either they must be taken from us or we must be taken from them. The goods are said to flow away as a stream (Job 20:28), here to flee as a bird. (2.) Perhaps they may leave us suddenly, when we have taken a great deal of pains for them and begin to take a great deal of pride and pleasure in them. The covetous man sits hatching upon his wealth, and brooding over it, till it is fledged, as the young ones under the hen, and then it is gone. Or, as if a man should be fond of a flight of wild-fowl that light in his field, and call them his own because they are upon his ground, whereas, if he offers to come near them, they take wing immediately and are gone to another man's field. (3.) The wings they fly away upon are of their own making. They have in themselves the principles of their own corruption, their own moth and rust. They are wasting in their own nature, and like a handful of dust, which, if it be grasped, slips through the fingers. Snow will last awhile, and look pretty, if it be left to lie on the ground where it fell, but, if gathered up and laid in the bosom, it is dissolved and gone immediately. (4.) They go irresistibly and irrecoverably, as an eagle toward heaven, that flies strongly (there is no stopping her), and flies out of sight and out of call (there is no bringing her back); thus do riches leave men, and leave them in grief and vexation if they set their hearts upon them.

⁶ Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats:
⁷ For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee.
⁸ The morsel which thou hast eaten shalt thou vomit up, and lose thy sweet words.

Those that are voluptuous and given to appetite (Pr 23:2) are glad to be where there is good cheer stirring, and those that are covetous and saving, that they may spare at home, will be glad to get a dinner at another man's table; and therefore both are here advised not to be forward to accept of every man's invitation, but especially not to thrust themselves in uninvited. Observe, 1. There are those that pretend to bid their friends welcome that are not hearty and sincere in it. They have a fair tongue, and know what they should say: Eat and drink, saith he, because it is expected that the master of the feast should so compliment his guests; but they have an evil eye, and grudge their guests every bit they eat, especially if the eat freely. They would seem to be liberal in making the entertainment, and would have the credit of it, but they have so great a love to their money, and so little to their friends, that they cannot have the comfort of it, nor any enjoyment of themselves or their friends. The miser's feast is his penance. If a man be so very selfish, and sordid, and mean that he cannot find in his heart to bid his friends welcome to what he has, he ought not to add to that the guilt of dissimulation by inviting them, but let him own himself to be what he is, that the vile person may not be called liberal nor the churl bountiful, Isa 32:5. 2. One can have no comfort in accepting the entertainments that are given grudgingly: "Eat not thou the bread of such a man; let him keep it to himself. Do not sponge upon those that are bountiful, nor make thyself burdensome to any; but especially scorn to be beholden to those that are paltry and not sincere. Better have a dinner of herbs, and true welcome, than dainty meats without it. Therefore," (1.) "Judge of the man as his mind is. Thou thinkest to pay thy respect to him as a friend, so thou takest him to be, because he compliments thee, but as he thinks in his heart so is he, not as he speaks with his tongue." We are that really, both to God and man, which we are inwardly; and neither religion nor friendship is worth any thing further than as it is sincere. (2.) "Judge of the meat as the digestion is and as it agrees with thee. He bids thee eat freely, but, first or last, he will discover his sordid covetous humour, and as he thinks in his heart so will he look, and give thee to understand that thou art not welcome, and then the morsel thou hast eaten thou shalt vomit up; the very thought of that will make thee even to vomit the meat thou hast eaten, and eat the words thou has spoken in returning his compliments and giving him thanks for his civilities. Thou shalt lose thy sweet words, which he has given thee and thou has given him."

⁹ Speak not in the ears of a fool: for he will despise the wisdom of thy words.

We are here directed not to cast pearls before swine (Mt 7:6) and not to expose things sacred to the contempt and ridicule of profane scoffers. It is our duty to take all fit occasions to speak of divine things; but, 1. There are some that will make a jest of every thing, though it be ever so prudently and pertinently spoken, that will not only despise a wise man's words, but despise even the wisdom of them, that in them which is most improvable for their own edification; they will particularly reproach that, as if it had an ill design upon them, which they must guard against. 2. Those that do so forfeit the benefit of good advice and instruction, and a wise man is not only allowed, but advised, not to speak in the ears of such fools; let them be foolish still, and let not precious breath be thrown away upon them. If what a wise man says in his wisdom will not be heard, let him hold his peace, and try whether the wisdom of that will be regarded.

¹⁰ Remove not the old landmark; and enter not into the fields of the fatherless:
¹¹ For their redeemer is mighty; he shall plead their cause with thee.

Note, 1. The fatherless are taken under God's special protection; with him they not only find mercy shown to them (Ho 14:3) but justice done for them. He is their Redeemer, their Goël, their near kinsman, that will take their part and stand up for them with jealousy, as taking himself affronted in the injuries done to them. As their Redeemer he will plead their cause against those that do them any injury, and, one way or other, will not only defend their right, and recover it for them, but avenge the wrongs done to them. And he is mighty, almighty; his omnipotence is engaged and employed for their protection, and their proudest and most powerful oppressors will not only find themselves an unequal match for this, but will find that it is at their peril to contend with it. 2. Every man therefore must be careful not to injure them in any thing, or to invade their rights, either by a clandestine removal of the old land-marks or by a forcible entry into their fields. Being fatherless, they have none to redress their wrongs, and, being in their childhood, they do not so much as apprehend the wrong that is done them. Sense of honour, and much more the fear of God, would restrain men from offering injury to children, especially fatherless children.

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Parental Duties

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为父母者的本分

¹² 你要留心领受训诲,侧耳听从知识的言语。
¹³ 不可不管教孩童,你用杖打他,他必不至于死。
¹⁴ 你要用杖打他,就可以救他的灵魂免下地狱。
¹⁵ 我儿,你心若存智慧,我的心也甚欢喜。
¹⁶ 你的嘴若说正直话,我的心肠也必快乐。

这里所论的是:一、为父者教导其子。父亲在此劝勉孩子专心读书,尤其是要专心于圣经与要理问答,留意「知识的言语」,好叫他借此明白自己的本分、危险、益处;他不可以为只须把这些听过一遍就够了,乃要把心放在其上,以此为乐,并使自己的意志降服于其中的权柄之下。惟有当训诲被应用到心里时,心才算是真正地领受了训诲。二、为父者管教其子。慈爱的父亲实在难以狠下心来这样做,这极违其本心。然而他既看出此事的必要,知道这是自己的本分,便不敢在当管教之时「不管教」(「不忍用杖必宠坏孩子」);他「用杖打他」,乃是温和的责打,是「世人的杖」(撒下 7:14),并非我们打牲畜所用的。「用杖打他,他必不至于死。」杖不会要他的命;不但如此,正是这杖拦阻他,免得他将来死在那些恶行之下,而那些恶行正是非用杖来约束不可的。当下「不觉得快乐,反觉得愁苦」(来 12:11),无论于父于子皆然;但若施行得有智慧,存着善意,又伴以祷告,并蒙神赐福,这管教便可成为蒙福的途径,拦阻他全然败亡,「救他的灵魂免下地狱」。我们最当顾念的,乃是儿女的灵魂;断不可眼见他们身陷地狱的危险,却不竭尽一切可能的方法,以最大的关切与用心,将他们如同从永火中抽出来的一根柴一般抢救出来(亚 3:2)。宁可叫肉身受些疼痛,好叫灵魂「在主耶稣的日子可以得救」(林前 5:5)。三、为父者勉励其子,对他说:(一)他所盼望于孩子的不过如此,无非是为孩子自己的益处——就是叫「他心存智慧」,叫「他的嘴说正直话」,叫他受美善原则的管治,并借这些原则尤其能善加约束自己的舌头。那些幼年学会「说正直话」、不敢出恶言的,可指望他们长大后必行「正直的事」。(二)孩子若果然不负父亲所望,这于父亲是何等的安慰:「你心若存智慧,我的心也甚欢喜」,必因你而欢喜,「也甚」,我这为你操了许多心、费了许多力的人,我这许多次为你心疼的心,正因此你当殷勤地以感恩来回报我。要注意:儿女的智慧,必成为父母与师长的喜乐,他们最大的喜乐莫过于见儿女「按真理而行」(约叁 1:4)。「孩子们哪,你们若有智慧、行善、敬虔、存良心,神必喜悦你们,这也必成为我们的喜乐:我们必觉得自己教导你们的辛劳没有白费;这必成为对我们多次为你们所献上的祷告一个使人安慰的应允;我们必得卸下许多挂虑,不必再这样严密谨慎地看顾你们,于是我们彼此都得轻省。我们必欢喜盼望你们成为我们的荣耀与安慰,叫我们若活到年老,你们必在这世代中高举基督的名,叫你们今生活得安舒,来世活得有福。」

英文原文

Parental Duties

¹² Apply thine heart unto instruction, and thine ears to the words of knowledge.
¹³ Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.
¹⁴ Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.
¹⁵ My son, if thine heart be wise, my heart shall rejoice, even mine.
¹⁶ Yea, my reins shall rejoice, when thy lips speak right things.

Here is, 1. A parent instructing his child. He is here brought in persuading him to give his mind to his book, and especially to the scriptures and his catechism, to attend to the words of knowledge, by which he might come to know his duty, and danger, and interest, and not to think it enough to give them the hearing, but to apply his heart to them, to delight in them, and bow his will to the authority of them. The heart is then applied to the instruction when the instruction is applied to the heart. 2. A parent correcting his child. A tender parent can scarcely find in his heart to do this; it goes much against the grain. But he finds it is necessary; it is his duty, and therefore he dares not withhold correction when there is occasion for it (spare the rod and spoil the child); he beats him with the rod, gives him a gentle correction, the stripes of the sons of men, not such as we give to beasts. Beat him with the rod and he shall not die. The rod will not kill him; nay, it will prevent his killing himself by those vicious courses which the rod will be necessary to restrain him from. For the present it is not joyous, but grievous, both to the parent and to the child; but when it is given with wisdom, designed for good, accompanied with prayer, and blessed of God, it may prove a happy means of preventing his utter destruction and delivering his soul from hell. Our great care must be about our children's souls; we must not see them in danger of hell without using all possible means, with the utmost care and concern, to snatch them as brands out of everlasting burnings. Let the body smart, so that the spirit be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus. 3. A parent encouraging his child, telling him, (1.) What was all he expected, nothing but what would be for his own good, that his heart be wise and that his lips speak right things, that he be under the government of good principles, and that by those principles he particularly maintain a good environment of his tongue. It is to be hoped that those will do right things when they grow up who learn to speak right things when they are young, and dare not speak any bad words. (2.) What a comfort it would be to him if herein he answered his expectation: "If thy heart be wise, my heart shall rejoice, shall rejoice in thee, even mine, who have taken so much care and pains about thee, my heart, that has many a time ached for thee, for which thou shouldst study thus to make a grateful requital." Note, The wisdom of children will be the joy of their parents and teachers, who have no greater joy than to see them walk in the truth, 3Jo 1:4. "Children, if you be wise and good, devout and conscientious, God will be pleased with you, and that will be our joy: we shall think our labour in instructing you well bestowed; it will be a comfortable answer for the many prayers we have put up for you; we shall be eased of a great deal of care, shall not need to be so strict and severe in watching over you, and shall consequently be the easier both to you and to ourselves. We shall rejoice in hope that you will be a credit and comfort to us, if we should live to be old, that you will bear up the name of Christ in your generation, that you will live comfortably in this world and happily in another."

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Parental Advice

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父母的劝勉

¹⁷ 你心中不要嫉妒罪人,只要终日敬畏耶和华。 ¹⁸ 因为至终必有善报,你的指望也不致断绝。

这里有:1. 一个必要的警戒,叫人不可对兴盛的不敬虔存任何羡慕之念:"*你心中不要嫉妒罪人;*不要嫉羡他们犯罪的放纵,也不要嫉羡他们暂时的得意,他们实在是可怜的,而非可羡的。他们的亨通是他们的分(诗12:14),不,乃是他们的毒药,"箴1:32。我们心里切不可对神的护理暗怀不满,纵然它看似向他们微笑,也不可巴望自己处在他们的光景中。"你心中不要效法罪人"(有人如此译);不要照他们所行的去行;不要与他们同道;不要采用他们致富的手段,纵然他们借此发达。2. 一个极好的指引,叫我们随时在心中存对神的崇高敬意:只要终日敬畏耶和华,天天如此,终日不断。 我们当以敬畏耶和华为本业,操练自己圣洁地敬慕神,顺服他的命令,顺从他的护理,并存常存之心讨他喜悦;我们当以敬畏耶和华为本分所在的境界,以默想神的荣耀、遵行他的旨意为乐。我们必须以敬畏神为本(诗119:38);并以此为我们在一切言行上发号施令的主导原则。我们一生的年日都当持守对神的敬畏存于心;当敬重他的权柄,惧怕他的忿怒。我们当时常如此敬畏他,以致一刻也不离开这敬畏。3. 为这两件事提出的好理由(箴23:18):至终必有善报,有指望,有结局,如耶29:11。恶人的亨通必有尽头,所以不要嫉妒他们(诗73:17);你的患难必有尽头,所以不要因它厌烦;你的服事必有尽头,你的工作与争战必得成就,完全的爱将立时把惧怕除去,而你对赏赐的指望不但不致断绝或落空,反要远超所求所想。思想这结局,将帮助我们甘心接受路上一切的艰难与拦阻。

¹⁹ 我儿,你当听,当存智慧,好在正道上引导你的心。 ²⁰ 好饮酒的,好吃肉的,不要与他们来往。 ²¹ 因为好酒贪食的,必致贫穷;好睡觉的,必穿破烂衣服。 ²² 你要听从生你的父亲;你母亲老了,也不可藐视她。 ²³ 你当买真理,就是智慧、训诲和聪明,也都不可卖。 ²⁴ 义人的父亲必大得快乐;人生智慧的儿子,必因他欢喜。 ²⁵ 你要使父母欢喜,使生你的快乐。 ²⁶ 我儿,要将你的心归我,你的眼目也要喜悦我的道路。 ²⁷ 妓女是深坑,外女是窄阱。 ²⁸ 她埋伏好像强盗,她使人中多有奸诈的。

这里有父母当给儿女的好劝勉;话语被放在他们口中,好叫他们教养孩童走当行的道。 这里我们看到:

一、对青年人的恳切呼召,要他们留心听敬虔父母的劝勉,不单是此处所给的,也包括一切别的有益的训诲:"我儿,你当听,当存智慧,箴23:19。这必证明你是智慧的,也是使你更有智慧的途径。" 智慧正如信道是从听道来的。 又说(箴23:22):"*你要听从生你的父亲,他因此对你有权柄,对你有慈爱,你尽可放心,他别无所图,惟求你自己的益处。" 我们既当敬重生我们肉身的父亲,他们生养我们,是我们得存在的器皿;我们就更当顺服、降服于那万灵之父,他造了我们,是我们生命的源头。母亲既也出于对神的本分之心、出于对儿女的慈爱,给他好的训诲,他就不可藐视她,*也不可藐视她的劝告,当她年老的时候。 母亲年老时,可以想见儿女已经长大;但不要以为自己已过了受教的地步,即便受教于她也不为过,反倒当因她年岁众多、并岁月所教的智慧而更加敬重她。傲慢无礼的青年人,或许会拿敬虔老母的劝告当作笑柄,自以为不必理会一个老妇人所说的话;但这等人在那将来的日子必有许多账要交代,不单因藐视了好劝告,也因轻慢、忧伤了一位好母亲,箴30:17。

二、加强这呼召的一个论据,取自这事将给父母带来的极大安慰(箴23:24,25)。要注意:1. 儿女当用心思想如何使敬虔父母的心欢畅,并且越发如此,叫他们可以因儿女大大快乐,甚至当那衰败的日子来到、并那自言毫无喜乐可言的年岁来到之时,仍有这一样喜乐,就是看见自己的儿女行得正,正如巴西莱看见金罕得了高位。2. 儿女若行义又有智慧,便要成为父母的喜乐。义就是真智慧;行义的人,于己也最为有益。那些不单有智慧(即有知识、有学问),也行义(即诚实又良善)的人;不单行义(即凭良心又存善意),也有智慧(即在管理自己上精明审慎)的人,才是全然合宜的人。儿女若是这样,尤其众儿女都是这样,父母便要欢喜,以为自己为他们所作、所付出的一切都不为过;他们要以儿女为乐,并为他们感谢神;尤其那忍痛生他们、含辛育他们的母亲,要因他们快乐,自以为大得报偿,那痛苦也就忘得一干二净,因为从中所生出的乃是一个有智慧、又良善的人,成为他所生入之世界的祝福。

三、几条智慧与德行的通则。

  1. *在正道上引导你的心,*箴23:19。当看顾、当正确引导的乃是心;灵魂的动向与情感必须朝向正确的对象,并受稳妥的引导。心若在正道上得了引导,脚步就必得引导,言行也必有条理。

  2. 你当买真理,也不可卖,箴23:23。真理乃是心当受引导、受管治的凭据,因为没有真理就没有良善;没有正确的原则,就没有合规的行为。我们必须借所认识、所相信之真理的能力,被拦阻不犯罪,被约束尽本分。悟性必须以智慧和训诲充实,所以:(1.) 我们必须买它,就是甘愿为它舍弃任何东西。他不说我们当出多大的价买它,因为我们无论出多高的价都不为过,乃要不惜任何代价得着它;无论它使我们付上什么,我们都不致后悔这交易。当我们为求知识的途径付上代价,决意不亏待这美好的事,我们就买了真理。 当用财富换取知识,胜于用知识换取财富。当我们费力寻求真理,好得以认识它,并分辨它与谬误,我们就买了它。Dii laboribus omnia vendunt——天赐万物予勤劳之人。 当我们宁可在今世的利益上受亏损,也不否认或忽略真理,我们就买了它;它是何等宝贵的珍珠,我们必须甘愿舍弃一切去购买它,宁可丧失产业、生意、地位,也不丧失信心和无亏的良心。(2.) 我们不可卖它。不要为宴乐、尊荣、财富,或世上任何事物而将它出卖。不要荒废对它的研究,不要抛弃对它的认信,也不要背离它的管辖,为要得着或保全任何属世的利益。*要持守那纯正话语的规模,*无论如何都不可放手。

  3. *要将你的心归我,*箴23:26。神在这劝勉中向我们说话,如同对儿女说:"我儿,我女,要将你的心归我。" 心乃是这位大神向我们各人所要、所求的;无论我们献上什么,若不将心献给他,便不蒙悦纳。我们必须将爱倾注于他。我们的意念当多与他相交、向着他,以他为我们至高的目的。我们心中的意向必须被坚定。我们必须出于自己的甘心情愿,将自己献给主,并且乐意又欢畅地如此行。我们切不可想把心在神与世界之间分开;他要么全要,要么不要。你要尽心爱主你的神。 对这呼召我们当甘心回应:"*我父,求你接受我的心,*接受它现今的光景,使它成为当有的样式;求你占有它,在其中设立你的宝座。"

  4. *你的眼目也要喜悦我的道路;*要定睛于神话语的准则、他护理的引导、并他子民的好榜样。我们的眼目当留意这些,如同抄写的人留意他的范本,好叫我们持守正道,并在其上进步、恒久不渝。

四、几条特别的警戒,针对那些在一切罪中最能毁坏灵魂里智慧与恩典之种子、使之贫瘠败坏的罪。1. 贪食与醉酒,箴23:20,21。世上充满这罪的例子和它的诱惑,凡青年人都当谨守提防,远远躲避。不要好饮酒;我们蒙准喝点酒(提前5:23),但不可多喝,不可以此为业,绝不可饮到醉。不要好吃肉,如以色列人那样,他们极度贪恋肉食,说:谁给我们肉吃呢? 反观保罗,他虽随意可以吃肉,却定意说,若叫弟兄跌倒,他就永远不吃肉;他对肉食何等无所偏好,林前8:13。不要过度吃肉。 无论饮食,都当避免无节制。不要奢侈吃肉,不可非美味珍馐不悦,专好佳肴美馔、精烹细制的肉食。有些人不单以讲究饮食为乐,更以之为荣,照他们的说法叫"懂得吃";仿佛这是绅士的体面,其实这正是基督徒的羞耻,把肚腹当作神。"不要好饮酒,也不要好吃肉;因此,不要与好饮酒的来往,也不要与好吃肉的来往;不要给他们撑腰,免得你学了他们的样,不知不觉陷入那些罪中,或至少失去对它们的惧怕与憎恶。他们巴不得有你作伴;因为那些自己败坏的人,极想败坏别人;所以不要遂他们的意,免得自陷其中。" 他从这罪的耗费、并它使人致贫的倾向,提出一条反对它的论据:人若不因它败坏自己最看重的属世利益而被吓阻,无怪乎他们也不因神话语所告诉他们的、它在属灵与永恒之事上所造成的祸害而知所惧怕。好酒贪食的厌恶悔改,纵然有人告诉他们必致贫穷,甚至告诉他们必下地狱。醉酒乃是困倦之由;它使人麻木,叫人无心料理正事,于是一切都败坏倾覆:这样,本来过得体面的人,竟至穿破烂衣服。 2. 淫乱。这是另一种夺去人心的罪,那本该归给神的心,何4:11。他指明那罪所带来的危险,箴23:27,28。(1.) 这是一种人一旦陷入便鲜能自拔的罪。它好像深坑和窄阱,几乎无法爬出;所以远离它的边缘乃是智慧。当谨慎,不可向这罪稍有挨近,因为既难从中退回——那本该领头退却的良心,已被它败坏,神的恩典也被丧失。(2.) 这是一种迷惑人以致毁灭的罪:淫妇埋伏好像强盗,假装友善,实则图谋极大的祸害,要抢夺他们一切宝贵的所有,剥去他们的盔甲与妆饰。即便那些自幼受德行教养、力图躲避淫妇的人,她也要埋伏等候,好趁他们不防、得着可乘之机时下手。因此谁都不可有一刻自恃稳妥。(3.) 这是一种比别的罪更能使一国之中罪恶与不道德蔓延的罪:它使人中多有奸诈的。 一个淫妇可以毁灭许多宝贵的灵魂,可以助长败坏一整座城。它使奸诈悖逆的人增多;它不单使丈夫对妻子不忠、仆人对主人不忠,更使许多曾认信宗教的人抛弃认信,背弃他们与神所立的约。所以淫秽之处乃是这样的疫窟,凡有职分当顾念公众福祉的人,都当将其除灭。

英文原文

Parental Advice

¹⁷ Let not thine heart envy sinners: but be thou in the fear of the LORD all the day long.
¹⁸ For surely there is an end; and thine expectation shall not be cut off.

Here is, 1. A necessary caution against entertaining any favourable thoughts of prospering profaneness: "Let not thy heart envy sinners; do not grudge them either the liberty they take to sin or the success they are to be pitied rather than envied. Their prosperity is their portion (Ps 12:14), nay, it is their poison," Pr 1:32. We must not harbour in our hearts any secret discontent at the providence of God, though it seem to smile upon them, nor wish ourselves in their condition. "Let not thy heart imitate sinners" (so some read it); do not as they do; walk not in the way with them; use not the methods they take to enrich themselves, though they thrive by them. 2. An excellent direction to maintain high thoughts of God in our minds at all times: Be thou in the fear of the Lord every day and all the day long. We must be in the fear of the Lord as in our employment, exercising ourselves in holy adorings of God, in subjection to his precepts, submission to his providences, and a constant care to please him; we must be in it as in our element, taking a pleasure in contemplating God's glory and complying with his will. We must be devoted to his fear (Ps 119:38); and governed by it as our commanding principle in all we say and do. All the days of our life we must constantly keep up an awe of God upon our spirits, must pay a deference to his authority, and have a dread of his wrath. We must be always so in his fear as never to be out of it. 3. A good reason for both of these (Pr 23:18): Surely there is an end, an end and expectation, as Jer 29:11. There will be an end of the prosperity of the wicked, therefore do not envy them (Ps 73:17); there will be an end of thy afflictions, therefore be not weary of them, an end of thy services, thy work and warfare will be accomplished, perfect love will shortly cast out fear, and thy expectation of the reward not only will be not cut off, or disappointed, but it will be infinitely outdone. The consideration of the end will help to reconcile us to all the difficulties and discouragements of the way.

¹⁹ Hear thou, my son, and be wise, and guide thine heart in the way.
²⁰ Be not among winebibbers; among riotous eaters of flesh:
²¹ For the drunkard and the glutton shall come to poverty: and drowsiness shall clothe a man with rags.
²² Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old.
²³ Buy the truth, and sell it not; also wisdom, and instruction, and understanding.
²⁴ The father of the righteous shall greatly rejoice: and he that begetteth a wise child shall have joy of him.
²⁵ Thy father and thy mother shall be glad, and she that bare thee shall rejoice.
²⁶ My son, give me thine heart, and let thine eyes observe my ways.
²⁷ For a whore is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit.
²⁸ She also lieth in wait as for a prey, and increaseth the transgressors among men.

Here is good advice for parents to give to their children; words are put into their mouths, that they may train them up in the way they should go. Here we have,

I. An earnest call to young people to attend to the advice of their godly parents, not only to this that is here given, but to all other profitable instructions: "Here, my son, and be wise, Pr 23:19. This will be an evidence that thou art wise and a means to make thee wiser." Wisdom, as faith, comes by hearing. And again (Pr 23:22): "Hearken unto thy father who begot thee, and who therefore has an authority over thee and an affection for thee, and, thou mayest be sure, can have no other design than thy own good." We ought to give reverence to the fathers of our flesh, who begot us, and were the instruments of our being; much more ought we to obey and be in subjection to the Father of our spirits, who made us and is the author of our being. And since the mother also, from a sense of duty to God and from love to her child, gives him good instructions, let him not despise her, nor her advice, when she is old. When the mother was grown old we may suppose the children to be grown up; but let them not think themselves past being taught, even by her, but rather respect her the more for the multitude of her years and the wisdom which they teach. Scornful and insolent young men will make a jest, it may be, of the good advice of an aged mother, and think themselves not concerned to heed what an old woman says; but such will have a great deal to answer for another day, not only as having set at nought good counsel, but as having slighted and grieved a good mother, Pr 30:17.

II. An argument to enforce this call, taken from the great comfort which this will be to their parents, Pr 23:24,25. Note, 1. It is the duty of children to study how they may gladden the hearts of their good parents, and do it yet more and more, so that they may greatly rejoice in them, even when the evil days come and the years of which they say they have no pleasure in them but this, to see their children do well, as Barzillai to see Chimham preferred. 2. Children will be a joy to their parents if they be righteous and wise. Righteousness is true wisdom; those who do good so well for themselves. Those are completely such as they should be who are not only wise (that is, knowing and learned), but righteous (that is, honest and good), and not only righteous (that is, conscientious and well-meaning), but wise (that is, prudent and discreet) in the management of themselves. If such the children be, especially all the children, the father and mother will be glad, and think nothing too much that they have done, or do, for them; they will please themselves in them, and give God thanks for them; particularly she that bore them with pain, and nursed them with pains, will rejoice in them, and reckon herself well requited, and the sorrow more than forgotten, because a wise and good man is the product of it, who is a blessing to the world he was born into.

III. Some general precepts of wisdom and virtue.

1. Guide thy heart in the way, Pr 23:19. It is the heart that must be taken care of and directed aright; the motions and affections of the soul must be towards right objects and under a steady guidance. If the heart be guided in the way, the steps will be guided and the conversation well ordered.

2. Buy the truth and sell it not, Pr 23:23. Truth is that by which the heart must be guided and governed, for without truth there is no goodness; no regular practices without right principles. It is by the power of truth, known and believed, that we must be kept back from sin and constrained to duty. The understanding must be well-informed with wisdom and instruction, and therefore, (1.) We must buy it, that is, be willing to part with any thing for it. He does not say at what rate we must buy it, because we cannot buy it too dear, but must have it at any rate; whatever it costs us, we shall not repent the bargain. When we are at expense for the means of knowledge, and resolved not to starve so good a cause, then we buy the truth. Riches should be employed for the getting of knowledge, rather than knowledge for the getting of riches. When we are at pains in searching after truth, that we may come to the knowledge of it and may distinguish between it and error, then we buy it. Dii laboribus omnia vendunt—Heaven concedes every thing to the laborious. When we choose rather to suffer loss in our temporal interest than to deny or neglect the truth they we buy it; and it is a pearl of such great price that we must be willing to part with all to purchase it, must make shipwreck of estate, trade, preferment, rather than of faith and a good conscience. (2.) We must not sell it. Do not part with it for pleasures, honours, riches, any things in this world. Do not neglect the study of it, nor throw off the profession of it, nor revolt from under the dominion of it, for the getting or saving of any secular interest whatsoever. Hold fast the form of sound words, and never let it go upon any terms.

3. Give me thy heart, Pr 23:26. God in this exhortation, speaks to us as unto children: "Son, Daughter, Give my thy heart." The heart is that which the great God requires and calls for from every one of us; whatever we give, if we do not give him our hearts, it will not be accepted. We must set our love upon him. Our thoughts must converse much with him, and on him, as our highest end. The intents of our hearts must be fastened. We must make it our own act and deed to devote ourselves to the Lord, and we must be free and cheerful in it. We must not think to divide the heart between God and the world; he will have all or none. Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart. To this call we must readily answer, "My father, take my heart, such as it is, and make it such as it should be; take possession of it, and set up thy throne in it."

4. Let thy eyes observe my ways; have an eye to the rule of God's word, the conduct of his providence, and the good examples of his people. Our eyes must observe these, as he that writes observes his copy, that we may keep in the right paths and may proceed and persevere in them.

IV. Some particular cautions against those sins which are, of all sins, the most destructive to the seeds of wisdom and grace in the soul, which impoverish and ruin it. 1. Gluttony and drunkenness, Pr 23:20,21. The world is full of examples of this sin and temptations to it, which all young people are concerned to stand upon their guard against and keep at a distance from Be not a wine-bibber; we are allowed to drink a little wine (1Ti 5:23), but not much, not to make a trade of it, never to drink to excess. Be not a riotous eater of flesh, as the Israelites were, who lusted exceedingly after it, saying, Who will give us flesh to eat? Whereas Paul, though he is free to eat flesh, yet resolves that he will eat no flesh while the world stands rather than make his brother to offend; so indifferent is he to it, 1Co 8:13. Be not an excessive eater of flesh. Intemperance must be avoided in meat as well as drink. Be not a luxurious eater of flesh, not pleased with any thing but what is very nice and delicate, savoury dishes, and forced meat. Some take not only a pleasure, but a pride, in being curious about their diet, and, as they call it, eating well; as if that were the ornament of a gentleman, which is really the shame of a Christian, making a God of the belly. "Be not a wine bibber, and be not a riotous eater; and therefore, be not among wine-bibbers nor among riotous eaters; do not give them countenance, lest thou learn their ways and insensibly fall into those sins, or at least lose the dread and detestation of them. They covet to have thee among them; for those that are debauched themselves are very desirous to debauch others; therefore do not gratify them, lest thou endanger thyself." He fetches an argument against this sin from the expensiveness of it and its tendency to impoverish men: and if men will not be deterred from it by the ruin it brings on their secular interests, which lie nearest their hearts, no marvel that they are not frightened from it by what they are told out of the word of God of the mischief it does them in their spiritual and eternal concerns. The drunkard and the glutton hate to be reformed, though they are told they shall come to poverty, nay, though they are told they shall come to hell. Drunkenness is the cause of drowsiness; it stupefies men, and makes them inattentive to business, and then all goes to wreck and ruin: thus men that have lived creditably come to be clothed with rags. 2. Whoredom. This is another sin which takes away the heart that should be given to God, Ho 4:11. He shows the danger which attends that sin, Pr 23:27,28, (1.) It is a sin from which few recover themselves when once they are entangled in it. It is like a deep ditch and a narrow pit, which it is almost impossible to get out of; and therefore it is wisdom to keep far enough from the brink of it. Take heed of making any approaches towards this sin, because it is so hard to make a retreat from it, conscience, which should head the retreat, being debauched by it, and divine grace forfeited. (2.) It is a sin which bewitches men to their ruin: The adulteress lies in wait as a robber, pretending friendship, but designing the greatest mischief, to rob them of all they have that is valuable, to strip them both of their armour and of their ornaments. Even those who, being virtuously educated, endeavour to shun the adulteress, she will lie in wait for, that she may assault them when they are off their guard and she has them at an advantage. Let none therefore be at any time secure. (3.) It is a sin that contributes more than any other to the spreading of vice and immorality in a kingdom: It increases the transgressors among men. One adulteress may be the ruin of many a precious soul and may help to debauch a whole town. It increases the treacherous or perfidious ones; it not only occasions husbands to be false to their wives and servants to their masters, but many that have professed religion to throw off their profession and break their covenants with God. Houses of uncleanness are therefore such pest-houses as ought to be suppressed by those whose office it is to take care of the public welfare.

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Cautions against Intemperance

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戒酗酒

²⁹ 谁有祸患?谁有忧愁?谁有争斗?谁有哀叹?谁无故受伤?谁眼目红赤? ³⁰ 就是那久坐酒旁、前来寻调和酒的人。 ³¹ 酒发红、在杯中闪烁、光滑合口的时候,你不要观看。 ³² 至终它却咬你如蛇,刺你如毒蛇。 ³³ 你的眼必见异怪的女子,你的心必说乖谬的话。 ³⁴ 你必像躺卧在海中,或像卧在桅杆顶上。 ³⁵ 人打我,我却未受伤;人鞭打我,我竟不觉得——我几时方醒?我必再寻如此。

所罗门在此对醉酒之罪发出恳切的警戒,以印证他先前所说的话(箴 23:20)。

I. 他警戒众人要远离这罪的一切试探(箴 23:31):酒发红的时候,你不要观看。在迦南,红酒被视为上等之酒,因此称为葡萄之血。识酒者除别的外,也凭其颜色而判;有些酒,他们说,色泽迷人,美得几乎在说"来吧,喝我吧";它光滑合口,下喉极为顺畅,或者其辛辣反而令人愉悦。健壮浓厚之酒甚至能使睡中之人的嘴唇说话(歌 7:9)。但你不要观看。1. "不要被感官所支配,当被理智与信仰所支配。不要贪图那悦目之物,指望它也悦口;当让你严肃的思想纠正你感官的错误,使你确信那看似甘美之物实在有害,并据此立定心志抗拒。不要心随眼走,因为眼是不可靠的向导。"2. "不要对自己或别的罪的诱惑太过大胆;不要观看,免得你起贪念,免得你摘取禁果。"注意:那要远避某罪的人,必须远离它的一切机会与开端,畏惧进入其引诱的范围之内,免得被它胜过。

II. 他指出醉酒之罪的许多有害后果,以加强这警戒。当心饵,因为其中有钩:至终它咬(箴 23:32)。一切的罪至终都是苦的,这罪尤其如此。当醉汉因纵酒致病、陷入水肿或某种致命之症,当他在产业上败落穷乏,尤其当他的良心被唤醒,回想起来不禁自惧自恨——这便是它如蛇咬;但最可怕的,是至终那醉酒之杯要变为战兢之杯、变为耶和华震怒之杯,他必永远喝其渣滓,却无一滴水可以凉他火热的舌头。要消解罪中之乐的诱惑之力,便当预见其刑罚,预知其若不悔改,至终必有怎样的结局。它的末后咬人(原文如此);所以当思想其末后如何。然而受默示的作者选择具体列出这罪目前在人所能感觉得到的有害后果。

1. 它使人卷入争端,使他们与人争执,又说出做出惹人争执的话来(箴 23:29)。他问:谁有祸患?谁有忧愁?在这世上谁没有呢?许多人受祸患忧愁,无可奈何;但醉汉却是自招祸患忧愁。那些有争斗的人,便有祸患忧愁;而醉汉正是那嘴唇挑起争端的愚昧人。酒入则智出、情欲上升;于是有醉后的争执、醉后的斗殴、醉后在杯间的辩论;许多烦人倾家的诉讼正是由此而起。又有胡言乱语——言语上的争吵、彼此辱骂对骂;然而不止于此:还有无故受伤,因为"缘故"是醉汉所无力判断的,于是他们胡乱出手,毫无缘由地乱打,也必照样受人对待。人为国与公义而受的伤,是他们的尊荣;但为服事情欲而受的无故之伤,却是他们的羞辱印记。况且醉汉伤在自己柔弱之处——他们眼目红赤,是内发炎的征候;他们的视力因此衰弱,他们的容貌因此变形。这些来自,(1)久饮——久坐酒旁,把本应用于正经事务、或用于使之胜任事务的睡眠之时,浪费在醉酒的同伴之中(箴 23:30)。啊,成千上万人这样抛弃的宝贵时光,每一刻在大日都要交账!(2)饮那烈性醉酒之物。他们上上下下寻酒——能悦己的酒;他们最关切的,便是"哪里有最好的酒?"他们寻调和酒——最可口,也最烈;他们如此甘心把理智献为祭物,以满足口腹!

2. 它使人污秽且放肆(箴 23:33)。(1)眼变得不受拘束,看见异怪之女子而动淫念,由此将奸淫放进心中。Est Venus in vinis——酒是情欲之火的油。你的眼必见异怪之事(有人如此读);人醉时屋在他眼中旋转,万物皆异,连自己的眼也不能信。(2)舌也不受拘束,胡言乱语;借此心说出乖谬的话——与理智、信仰、常礼相背的话,若在清醒时他们必羞于出口。人醉时所讲的何等荒唐支离的话,而在别的时候却讲得极为精彩中肯!

3. 它使人麻木痴愚(箴 23:34)。人醉时既不知身在何处,也不知所言所行。(1)他们的头脑眩晕,躺下睡时如同被海浪翻腾,或卧在桅杆顶上;所以他们抱怨头眩;他们的睡眠通常不安也不爽神,他们的梦境混乱。(2)他们的判断蒙蔽,毫无稳当恒常,如同睡在桅杆顶上的人:他们喝了就忘记律法(箴 31:5);他们因酒而犯错(赛 28:7),所想也如所言一般荒唐。(3)他们对危险既不留心也不畏惧,对来自神或人的责备毫无感觉。他们处在死亡、灭亡的急切危险中,如同睡在桅杆顶上那样暴露,却仍安然沉睡。当主的威吓陈明在他们面前时,他们不畏任何危险;不,当神的刑罚实际临到他们时,他们也毫无痛感;他捆绑他们时,他们不呼喊。把醉汉关进枷里,他对刑罚毫无所觉。人打我,我却未受伤;我竟不觉得:这对我毫无影响。"醉酒使我变成木头石头;他们几乎不配称为动物;他们活着如同死了。"

4. 最糟的是,心在罪中刚硬了,罪人虽面对这一切随之而来的现世祸患,却顽固地坚持,恨恶受改正:我几时方醒?他好不容易才挣脱醉眠之链;他虽与之挣扎,却难以摆脱酒的余气,好使他在晨起口渴时再去归向它。他如此完全失丧了一切德行与尊荣之感,良心如此可悲地烙惯了,竟不耻于说:我必再寻如此。毫无指望——他们爱慕醉汉,在他们之后还要随从(耶 2:25)。这就是以渴加醉,就是追随浓酒;这样行的人可读他们的结局(申 29:19-20),他们的祸哉(赛 5:11);若这就是这罪的结局,我们被吩咐在其开端就止步,实在是合情合理的:酒发红的时候,你不要观看。

英文原文

Cautions against Intemperance

²⁹ Who hath woe? who hath sorrow? who hath contentions? who hath babbling? who hath wounds without cause? who hath redness of eyes?
³⁰ They that tarry long at the wine; they that go to seek mixed wine.
³¹ Look not thou upon the wine when it is red, when it giveth his colour in the cup, when it moveth itself aright.
³² At the last it biteth like a serpent, and stingeth like an adder.
³³ Thine eyes shall behold strange women, and thine heart shall utter perverse things.
³⁴ Yea, thou shalt be as he that lieth down in the midst of the sea, or as he that lieth upon the top of a mast.
³⁵ They have stricken me, shalt thou say, and I was not sick; they have beaten me, and I felt it not: when shall I awake? I will seek it yet again.

Solomon here gives fair warning against the sin of drunkenness, to confirm what he had said, Pr 23:20.

I. He cautions all people to keep out of the way of temptations to this sin (Pr 23:31): Look not thou upon the wine when it is red. Red wine was in Canaan looked upon as the best wine, it is therefore called the blood of the grape. Critics judge of wine, among other indications, by the colour of it; some wine, they say, looks charmingly, looks so well that it even says, "Come and drink me;" it moves itself aright, goes down very smoothly, or perhaps the roughness of it is grateful. It is said of generous strong-bodied wine that it even causes the lips of those that are asleep to speak, So 7:9. But look not thou upon it. 1. "Be not ruled by sense, but by reason and religion. Covet not that which pleases the eye, in hopes that it will please the taste; but let thy serious thoughts correct the errors of thy senses and convince thee that that which seems delightful is really hurtful, and resolve against it accordingly. Let not the heart walk after the eye, for it is a deceitful guide." 2. "Be not too bold with the charms of this or any other sin; look not, lest thou lust, lest thou take the forbidden fruit." Note Those that would be kept from any sin must keep themselves from all the occasions and beginnings of it, and be afraid of coming within the reach of its allurements, lest they be overcome by them.

II. He shows the many pernicious consequences of the sin of drunkenness, for the enforcement of this caution. Take heed of the bait, for fear of the hook: At the last it bites, Pr 23:32. All sin will be bitterness in the end, and this sin particularly. It bites like a serpent, when the drunkard is made sick by his surfeit, thrown by it into a dropsy or some fatal disease, beggared and ruined in his estate, especially when his conscience is awakened and he cannot reflect upon it without horror and indignation at himself, but worst of all, at last, when the cup of drunkenness shall be turned into a cup of trembling, the cup of the Lord's wrath, the dregs of which he must be for ever drinking, and shall not have a drop of water to cool his inflamed tongue. To take off the force of the temptation that there is in the pleasure of the sin, foresee the punishment of it, and what it will at last end in if repentance prevent not. In its latter end it bites (so the word is); think therefore what will be in the end thereof. But the inspired writer chooses to specify those pernicious consequences of this sin which are present and sensible.

1. It embroils men in quarrels, makes them quarrel with others, and say and do that which gives others occasion to quarrel with them, Pr 23:29. He asks, Who hath woe? Who hath sorrow? Who has not, in this world? Many have woe and sorrow, and cannot help it; but drunkards wilfully create woe and sorrow to themselves. Those that have contentions have woe and sorrow; and drunkards are the fools whose lips enter into contention. When the wine is in the wit is out and the passions are up; and thence come drunken scuffles, and drunken frays, and drunken disputes over the cups; many a vexatious ruining law-suit has begun thus. There is babbling, quarrels in word and the exchanging of scurrilous language; yet it rests not there: you shall have wounds without cause, for causes are things which drunkards are in no capacity to judge of, and therefore they deal blows about without the least consideration why or wherefore, and must expect to be in like manner treated themselves. The wounds which men receive in defence of their country and its just rights are their honour; but wounds without cause, received in the service of their lusts, are marks of their infamy. Nay, drunkards wound themselves in a tender part, for they have redness of eyes, symptoms of an inward inflammation; their sight is weakened by it, and their looks are deformed. This comes, (1.) Of drinking long, tarrying long at the wine, and spending that time in drunken company which should be spent in useful business, or in sleep, which should fit for business, Pr 23:30. O the precious hours which thousands throw away thus, every one of which will be brought into the account at the great day! (2.) Of drinking that which is strong and intoxicating. They go up and down to seek wine that will please them; their great enquiry is, "Where is the best liquor?" They seek mixed wine, which is most palatable, but most heady, so willingly do they sacrifice their reason to please their palate!

2. It makes men impure and insolent, Pr 23:33. (1.) The eyes grow unruly and behold strange women to lust after them, and so let in adultery into the heart. Est Venus in vinis—Wine is oil to the fire of lust. Thy eyes shall behold strange things (so some read it); when men are drunk the house turns round with them, and every thing looks strange to them, so that them they cannot trust their own eyes. (2.) The tongue also grows unruly and talks extravagantly; by it the heart utters perverse things, things contrary to reason, religion, and common civility, which they would be ashamed to speak if they were sober. What ridiculous incoherent nonsense men will talk when they are drunk who at another time will speak admirably well and to the purpose!

3. It stupefies and besots men, Pr 23:34. When men are drunk they know not where they are nor what they say and do. (1.) Their heads are giddy, and when they lie down to sleep they are as if they were tossed by the rolling waves of the sea, or upon the top of a mast; hence they complain that their heads swim; their sleep is commonly unquiet and not refreshing, and their dreams are tumultuous. (2.) Their judgments are clouded, and they have no more steadiness and consistency than he that sleeps upon the top of a mast: they drink and forget the law (Pr 31:5): they err through wine (Isa 28:7), and think as extravagantly as they talk. (3.) They are heedless and fearless of danger, and senseless of the rebukes they are under either from God or man. They are in imminent danger of death, of damnation, lie as much exposed as if they slept upon the top of a mast, and yet are secure and sleep on. They fear no peril when the terrors of the Lord are laid before them; nay, they feel no pain when the judgments of God are actually upon them; they cry not when he binds them. Set a drunkard in the stocks, and he is not sensible of the punishment. "They have stricken me, and I was not sick; I felt it not: it made no impression at all upon me." Drunkenness turns me into stocks and stones; they are scarcely to be reckoned animals; they are dead while they live.

4. Worst of all, the heart is hardened in the sin, and the sinner, notwithstanding all these present mischiefs that attend it, obstinately persist in it, and hates to be reformed: When shall I awake? Much ado he has to shake off the chains of his drunken sleep; he can hardly get clear of the fumes of the wine, though he strives with them, that (being thirsty in the morning) he may return to it again. So perfectly lost is he to all sense of virtue and honour, and so wretchedly is his conscience seared, that he is not ashamed to say, I will seek it yet again. There is no hope; no, they have loved drunkards, and after them they will go, Jer 2:25. This is adding drunkenness to thirst, and following strong drink; those that do so may read their doom De 29:19,20, their woe Isa 5:11, and, if this be the end of the sin, with good reason were we directed to stop at the beginning of it: Look not upon the wine when it is red.