Matthew Henry's Complete Commentary · Proverbs 第23章

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Proverbs 第 23 章

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Cautions against Luxury and Covetousness

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戒除奢華與貪婪

¹ 你若與官長坐席,要留意在你面前的是誰。
² 你若是個貪食的人,就當拿刀放在喉嚨上。
³ 不可貪戀他的美味,因為那是哄人的食物。

我們在此受警戒的罪是奢華和放縱,以及在吃喝上放縱口腹之慾,這是最容易纏累我們的罪。1. 我們在此被告知何時進入試探、最容易落入這罪:「當你與官長同席坐的時候,你面前有豐盛的食物,各樣的美味,這樣的筵席是你少見的;你就像哈曼那樣只想到自己所受的尊榮(Es 5:12),和你滿足口腹的機會,卻忘了有網羅為你設下。」或許這試探對於一個不習慣這樣宴席的人,比對於一個總是坐在好筵席前的人更強烈、更危險。2. 我們在此受指引在那時要加倍防備。我們必須,(1.) 覺悟到自己處於危險之中:「要留意在你面前的是誰,留意你面前的是什麼飲食,好使你選擇對你最安全的、你最不容易吃喝過度的。留意在你面前的是什麼同伴——官長自己,他若是智慧善良的,必以任何客人在他席上失態為冒犯。」若我們與官長同席時尚且如此,何況我們與萬王之王在主的席上同席之時,更當留意我們面前的是什麼,好使我們不在任何方面不按理吃喝、不相稱地行,免得那席成了網羅。(2.) 我們必須喚醒自己進入節制和適度:「拿刀放在喉嚨上,就是說,約束自己,如同有利劍懸在頭上,遠離一切過度。讓這些話——你們要謹慎,恐怕你們的心被貪食醉酒累住,那日子就如同網羅忽然臨到你們——或那些——因這一切的事,神必審判你——或那些——醉酒的人不能承受神的國——成為你喉嚨上的刀。」拉丁人稱奢華為咽喉。「拿起武器對付那罪。寧可節制到自己貪食的胃口以為喉嚨被割斷了,也不放縱自己於肉體的享受。」我們絕不可毫無懼怕地餵養自己(Jude 1:12),但當試探在眼前時,我們更當懼怕。(3.) 我們必須說服自己,聖潔地藐視感官的滿足:「你若是個貪食的人,就必須藉著當下的決斷和對主之可畏的運用來約束自己。當你有落入過度的危險時,拿刀放在喉嚨上;這或許能應一時之急。但這還不夠:要把斧頭砍在根上,治死那管轄你的食慾:不可貪戀美味。」請留意,我們當觀察自己特有的罪是什麼,我們若發現自己嗜好體貼肉體,就不僅要防備外面的試探,更要制伏裡面的敗壞。天性渴慕食物,我們也受教為此祈求,但貪戀美味的是私慾,我們不能憑信心為之祈求,因為它往往不是心靈、身體或產業所便利的食物。它是哄人的食物,所以大衛不但不為之祈求,反而求神使他遠離它,Ps 141:4。它在口中甘甜,或許到了胃中就翻騰,在那裡變酸,責備人,使人作嘔。它不能給人他們所期望的滿足;因為貪食的人即使得著極其美味的食物也不滿足;他們很快就厭倦了;必須有更美味的東西。越放縱奢侈的胃口,就越發嬌貴麻煩、越發難以滿足;美味使人膩煩,卻永不能使人滿足。尤其是因為這個緣故,它是哄人的食物——當它使身體愉悅時,卻損害靈魂,它使心過度負荷,使之不適於事奉神,不,它奪去人的心,使人的心意偏離屬靈的喜樂,又敗壞了對這些的胃口。那我們為何還要貪戀那必定欺哄我們的東西呢?

⁴ 不要勞碌求富;你要克制這樣的心思。
⁵ 你豈要定睛在虛無的錢財上嗎?因錢財必長翅膀,如鷹向天飛去。

如同有人貪食(Pr 23:2),也有人貪婪,所羅門在此責備他們。人把心放在錢財上(雖然看來最為實在)如同放在美味上一樣,是同樣地欺哄自己。請留意,

I. 他怎樣勸貪婪的人不要勞碌折磨自己(Pr 23:4)。「不要以致富為目標,不要建立產業、不要使你已有的更加豐盛。」我們當努力舒適地生活,照著自己的身分和地位為兒女和家人預備,卻不可求大事。不可作那些想要發財的人——就是以之為至善而渴慕、以之為最高目標而設計的,1Ti 6:9。貪婪的人以為這是智慧,幻想自己富足到某個程度就必完全幸福。要克制那智慧,因為那是錯覺;人的生命不在乎家道豐富,Lu 12:15。1. 那些追求大事的人,手中抓滿了超過自己所能應付的事務,以至於他們的人生既是完全的苦役,又是永久的忙亂;你卻不可作這樣的愚妄人;不要勞碌求富。你所有的、所做的,要作它的主人,而不是像那些早起晚睡、吃憂慮的餅、全是為了致富的人那樣作它的奴隸。適度的勞碌——為可以施捨——是我們的智慧和本分,Eph 4:28。過度的勞碌——為可以囤積——是我們的罪和愚妄。2. 他們滿腦子超過自己所能理解的計畫,以至於他們的人生是持續的憂慮和恐懼的翻騰;你卻不要這樣折磨自己:要克制你的智慧;安靜地走自己本分的道路,不要圖謀新路、不要動腦筋發明新花樣。要順服神的智慧,克制自己的,Pr 3:5,6。

II. 他怎樣勸貪婪的人不要因過分愛慕和追求虛空和煩惱之事而自欺;因為,

  1. 它不是實在而令人滿足的:「你豈要如此愚妄,以至於定睛——使你的眼目以急切和猛烈之勢飛馳——在虛無的事上?」請留意,(1.) 這世上的事物是虛無的事物。它們在自然中有真實的存在,也是護理真實的恩賜,但在恩典的國度裡,它們是虛無的事物;它們不是靈魂的幸福和產業,不是它們所應許的、也不是我們所期望的;對於那信靠它們的靈魂而言,它們是一場表演、一個影子、一個欺哄。它們不是,因為不久它們就必不是,它們必不再屬於我們;它們在使用中消滅;它們的樣式都要過去。(2.) 因此,我們定睛其上是愚妄的——以它們為至寶而仰慕,將它們據為己有視為美物,又以之為我們一切行動的目標,如同鷹撲向獵物一般飛撲其上。「你豈要作如此荒謬的事?你這有理性的受造之物,豈要迷戀影子?眼目在此代表理性和悟性的能力;你豈要將這些丟棄在如此不配的對象上?把手腳放在世界上還算可以,卻不可把眼目——心思的眼目——放在上面;那是為了默想更美好之事物而造的。你這宣稱信仰的我的兒子,豈要如此冒犯神(眼目當時刻向著他)、又如此虐待自己的靈魂?」

  2. 它不是持久而長存的。錢財是很不確定的事物,必定如此:*它們必長翅膀飛去。*我們越使我們的眼目飛向它們,它們就越可能飛離我們。(1.) 錢財必離開我們。那些緊緊抓住它們的人,不能抓得久;不是它們從我們手中被奪去,就是我們從它們當中被取去。貨財被說為如水流失(Job 20:28),此處說為如鳥飛去。(2.) 或許它們在我們為之費了大力、又開始以之為驕傲和快樂之時,突然離開我們。貪婪的人坐在自己的財富上孵化、孵育,直到它長了羽毛,如同母雞翼下的小雞,然後它就飛去了。或者,如同一個人迷戀一群停在他田裡的野鳥,因為它們在他的地上就稱之為自己的,其實他若靠近,它們立刻展翅飛到別人的田裡去了。(3.) 它們飛去所憑的翅膀是自己長出來的。它們本身就有自己敗壞的原則,自己的蟲子和锈。它們在本性上就是消耗的,如同一把沙土,一抓就從指縫中漏去。雪若留在它落下之處,可以存留一陣、看來美觀,但若捧起來放在懷中,就立刻融化消失了。(4.) 它們是不可抗拒、不能挽回地飛去的,如鷹向天——強有力地飛(不能阻止牠),又飛出視線和呼聲之外(不能召回牠);錢財就這樣離開人,若人把心放在上面,就留下他們在憂愁和煩惱之中。

⁶ 不要吃惡眼人的餅,也不要貪戀他的美味;
⁷ 因為他心怎樣思量,他為人就是怎樣;他雖對你說:請吃請喝,他的心卻與你反對。
⁸ 你所吃的那點食物必吐出來;你所說的甘美言語也必落空。

那些放縱貪食的人(Pr 23:2)樂意到有盛宴的地方去,那些貪婪吝嗇的人為了在家省錢,也樂意在別人的桌上吃一頓飯;所以兩者都在此受勸戒,不要急於接受所有人的邀請,尤其不可不請自入。請留意,1. 有些人假裝歡迎朋友,卻不是真心的。他們有動聽的話,知道當說什麼:請吃請喝,因為主人當如此恭維客人,這是眾人所期望的;但他們有惡眼,捨不得客人所吃的每一口,尤其如果客人吃得自在的話。他們在設宴時似乎慷慨,又想得其中的名聲,卻因為太愛錢財、太少愛朋友,以至於不能享受其中的樂趣,也不能享受自己或朋友的團契。吝嗇鬼的筵席是他的刑罰。人若如此自私、卑鄙、下賤,以至於不肯真心歡迎朋友來享受自己所有的,就不該再加上虛偽之罪去邀請他們,倒該承認自己是什麼樣的人,使愚頑人不被稱為高明,吝嗇人不被稱為大方,Isa 32:5。2. 人不能從勉強給予的款待中得著安慰:「不要吃這樣人的餅;讓他自己留著吧。不要在慷慨的人那裡佔便宜,也不要使自己成為任何人的負擔;尤其要恥於受那些小氣而不真誠之人的恩惠。寧可吃素菜而真心受歡迎,也不吃美味而沒有歡迎。」因此,(1.)「照著人的心意來判斷人。你以為像對待朋友一樣向他致敬——你如此看他,因為他恭維你——但他心怎樣思量,他為人就是怎樣,不是照他口中 所說的。」我們裡面如何,在神在人面前實際上就如何;信仰和友誼如果不是真誠的,就毫無價值。(2.)「照著消化和是否合宜來判斷食物。他請你隨意吃,但遲早他必露出他那卑鄙貪婪的本相,他心怎樣思量,他的臉色也必怎樣,又使你明白你不受歡迎,那時你所吃的那點食物必吐出來;單單想到這事,就必使你甚至吐出所吃的肉,又收回你在恭維他、為他的禮貌而向他致謝時所說的話。你所說的甘美言語必落空——他給你的、你給他的。」

⁹ 你不要說話給愚昧人聽,因他必藐視你智慧的言語。

我們在此受指引,不可把珍珠丟在豬前(Mt 7:6),不可將聖物暴露在不虔誠的譏誚者的輕蔑和嘲笑之下。我們有責任把握一切合宜的時機談論屬神的事;但是,1. 有些人拿一切事當玩笑,無論說得多麼謹慎而中肯,他們不僅藐視智慧人的話,更藐視其中的智慧——就是那些最能用來造就他們的部分;他們特別要譏誚那部分,好像那是對他們別有用心的,必須加以防備。2. 這樣行的人失去了好勸誡和教訓的益處,智慧人不僅被允許、更是受勸戒,不要向這樣的愚昧人說話;任憑他們繼續愚昧,不要把寶貴的氣息浪費在他們身上。智慧人憑智慧所說的若不蒙聽從,就當閉口不言,試試這智慧的沉默是否被人看重。

¹⁰ 不可挪移古時的地界;也不可侵入孤兒的田地;
¹¹ 因他們的救贖主大有能力;他必向他們為你辯護。

請留意,1. 孤兒在神的特別保護之下;在神那裡,他們不僅蒙憐憫(Ho 14:3),更得公義。他是他們的救贖主,他們的至近親屬,要站在他們那邊、為他們大發熱心,因為向他們所行的傷害,他視為對他自己的冒犯。作為他們的救贖主,他必向他們辯護——對抗那些虧待他們的人,而且必定以這樣那樣的方式,不僅保衛他們的權利、為他們討回公道,更報應那些欺負他們的人。他是大有能力的,是全能的;他的無所不能為保護他們而被使用和投入,他們最驕傲最有權勢的壓迫者不僅要發現自己力不能勝,更要發現與之相爭是冒著性命危險的。2. 因此人人都當謹慎,不可在任何事上虧負他們、不可侵犯他們的權利,無論是暗中挪移古時的地界,還是強行侵入他們的田地。他們既為孤兒,就無人為他們伸冤;既在童年,就連自己所受的虧待也不明白。榮譽感,更何況對神的敬畏,都當約束人不去傷害孩童,尤其是孤兒。

英文原文

Cautions against Luxury and Covetousness

¹ When thou sittest to eat with a ruler, consider diligently what is before thee:
² And put a knife to thy throat, if thou be a man given to appetite.
³ Be not desirous of his dainties: for they are deceitful meat.

The sin we are here warned against is luxury and sensuality, and the indulgence of the appetite in eating and drinking, a sin that most easily besets us. 1. We are here told when we enter into temptation, and are in most danger of falling into this sin: "When thou sittest to eat with a ruler thou has great plenty before thee, varieties and dainties, such a table spread as thou has seldom seen; thou are ready to think, as Haman did, of nothing but the honour hereby done thee (Es 5:12), and the opportunity thou hast of pleasing thy palate, and forgettest that there is a snare laid for thee." Perhaps the temptation may be stronger, and more dangerous, to one that is not used to such entertainments, than to one that always sits down to a good table. 2. We are here directed to double our guard at such a time. We must, (1.) Apprehend ourselves to be in danger: "Consider diligently what is before thee, what meat and drink are before thee, that thou mayest choose that which is safest for thee and which thou art least likely to eat and drink of to excess. Consider what company is before thee, the ruler himself, who, if he be wise and good, will take it as an affront for any of his guests to disorder themselves at his table." And, if when we sit to eat with a ruler, much more when we sit to eat with the ruler of rulers at the Lord's table, must we consider diligently what is before us, that we may not in any respect eat and drink unworthily, unbecomingly, lest that table become a snare. (2.) We must alarm ourselves into temperance and moderation: "Put a knife to thy throat, that is, restrain thyself, as it were with a sword hanging over thy head, from all excess. Let these words, Take heed lest at any time your hearts be overcharged with surfeiting and drunkenness, and so that day come upon you unawares—or those, For all these things, God shall bring thee into judgment—or those, Drunkards, shall not inherit the kingdom of God, be a knife to the throat." The Latins call luxury gula—the throat. "Take up arms against that sin. Rather be so abstemious that thy craving appetite will begin to think thy throat cut than indulge thyself in voluptuousness." We must never feed ourselves without fear (Jude 1:12), but we must in a special manner fear when temptation is before us. (3.) We must reason ourselves into a holy contempt of the gratifications of sense: "If thou be a man given to appetite, thou must, by a present solution, and an application of the terrors of the Lord, restrain thyself. When thou art in danger of falling into any excess put a knife to thy throat; that may serve for once. But that is not enough: lay the axe to the root; mortify that appetite which has such a power over thee: Be not desirous of dainties." Note, We ought to observe what is our own iniquity, and, if we find ourselves addicted to flesh-pleasing, we must not only stand upon our guard against temptations from without, but subdue the corruption within. Nature is desirous of food, and we are taught to pray for it, but it is lust that is desirous of dainties, and we cannot in faith pray for them, for frequently they are not food convenient for mind, body, or estate. They are deceitful meat, and therefore David, instead of praying for them, prays against them, Ps 141:4. They are pleasant to the palate, but perhaps rise in the stomach, turn sour there, upbraid a man, and make him sick. They do not yield men the satisfaction they promised themselves from them; for those that are given to appetite, when they have that which is very dainty, are not pleased; they are soon weary of it; they must have something else more dainty. The more a luxurious appetite is humoured and indulged the more humour some and troublesome it grows, and the more hard to please; dainties will surfeit, but never satisfy. But especially they are upon this account deceitful meat, that, while they please the body, they prejudice the soul, they overcharge the heart, and unfit it for the service of God, nay, they take away the heart, and alienate the mind from spiritual delights, and spoil its relish of them. Why then should we covet that which will certainly cheat us?

⁴ Labour not to be rich: cease from thine own wisdom.
⁵ Wilt thou set thine eyes upon that which is not? for riches certainly make themselves wings; they fly away as an eagle toward heaven.

As some are given to appetite (Pr 23:2) so others to covetousness, and those Solomon here takes to task. Men cheat themselves as much by setting their hearts on money (though it seems most substantial) as by setting them on dainties. Observe,

I. How he dissuades the covetous man from toiling and tormenting himself (Pr 23:4). "Do not aim to be rich, to raise an estate, and to make what thou hast in abundance more than it is." We must endeavor to live comfortably, and provide for our children and families, according as our rank and condition are, but we must not seek great things. Be not of those that will be rich, that desire it as their chief good and design it as their highest end, 1Ti 6:9. Covetous men think it is their wisdom, imagining that if they be rich to such a degree they shall be completely happy. Cease from that wisdom, for it is a mistake; a man's life consists not in the abundance of the things which he possesses, Lu 12:15. 1. Those that aim at great things fill their hands with business more than they can grasp, so that their life is both a perfect drudgery and a perpetual hurry; but be not thou such a fool; labour not to be rich. What thou hast, or doest, be master of it, and not a slave to it as those that rise up early, sit up late, and eat the bread of carefulness, and all to be rich. Moderate labour, that we may have to give, is our wisdom and duty, Eph 4:28. Immoderate labour, that we may have to hoard, is our sin and folly. 2. They fill their heads with projects more than they understand, so that their life is a constant toss of care and fear; but do not thou thus vex thyself: Cease from thy own wisdom; go on quietly in the way of thy business, not contriving new ways and setting thy wits to work to find out new inventions. Acquiesce in God's wisdom, and cease from thy own, Pr 3:5,6.

II. How he dissuades the covetous man from cheating and deceiving himself by an inordinate love and pursuit of that which is vanity and vexation of spirit; for,

1. It is not substantial and satisfying: "Wilt thou be such a fool as to set thy eyes, to cause thy eyes to fly with eagerness and violence, upon that which is not?" Note, (1.) The things of this world are things that are not. They have a real existence in nature and are the real gifts of Providence, but in the kingdom of grace they are things that are not; they are not a happiness and portion for a soul, are not what they promise to be nor what we expect them to be; they are a show, a shadow, a sham upon the soul that trusts to them. They are not, for in a little while they will not be, they will not be ours; they perish in the using; the fashion of them passes away. (2.) It is therefore folly for us to set our eyes upon them, to admire them as the best things, to appropriate them to ourselves as our good things, and to aim at them as our mark at which all our actions are levelled, to fly upon them as the eagle upon her prey. "Wilt thou do a thing so absurd in itself? What thou, a reasonable creature, wilt thou dote upon shadows? The eyes are put for rational and intellectual powers; wilt thou throw those away upon such undeserving objects? To set the hands and feet upon the world is well enough, but not the eyes, the eyes of the mind; those were made to contemplate better things. Wilt thou, my son, that professest religion, put such an affront upon God (towards whom the eyes should ever be) and such an abuse upon thy soul?"

2. It is not durable and abiding. Riches are very uncertain things; certainly they are so: They make themselves wings, and fly away. The more we cause our eyes to fly upon them the more likely they are to fly away from us. (1.) Riches will leave us. Those that hold them ever so fast cannot hold them long; either they must be taken from us or we must be taken from them. The goods are said to flow away as a stream (Job 20:28), here to flee as a bird. (2.) Perhaps they may leave us suddenly, when we have taken a great deal of pains for them and begin to take a great deal of pride and pleasure in them. The covetous man sits hatching upon his wealth, and brooding over it, till it is fledged, as the young ones under the hen, and then it is gone. Or, as if a man should be fond of a flight of wild-fowl that light in his field, and call them his own because they are upon his ground, whereas, if he offers to come near them, they take wing immediately and are gone to another man's field. (3.) The wings they fly away upon are of their own making. They have in themselves the principles of their own corruption, their own moth and rust. They are wasting in their own nature, and like a handful of dust, which, if it be grasped, slips through the fingers. Snow will last awhile, and look pretty, if it be left to lie on the ground where it fell, but, if gathered up and laid in the bosom, it is dissolved and gone immediately. (4.) They go irresistibly and irrecoverably, as an eagle toward heaven, that flies strongly (there is no stopping her), and flies out of sight and out of call (there is no bringing her back); thus do riches leave men, and leave them in grief and vexation if they set their hearts upon them.

⁶ Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats:
⁷ For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee.
⁸ The morsel which thou hast eaten shalt thou vomit up, and lose thy sweet words.

Those that are voluptuous and given to appetite (Pr 23:2) are glad to be where there is good cheer stirring, and those that are covetous and saving, that they may spare at home, will be glad to get a dinner at another man's table; and therefore both are here advised not to be forward to accept of every man's invitation, but especially not to thrust themselves in uninvited. Observe, 1. There are those that pretend to bid their friends welcome that are not hearty and sincere in it. They have a fair tongue, and know what they should say: Eat and drink, saith he, because it is expected that the master of the feast should so compliment his guests; but they have an evil eye, and grudge their guests every bit they eat, especially if the eat freely. They would seem to be liberal in making the entertainment, and would have the credit of it, but they have so great a love to their money, and so little to their friends, that they cannot have the comfort of it, nor any enjoyment of themselves or their friends. The miser's feast is his penance. If a man be so very selfish, and sordid, and mean that he cannot find in his heart to bid his friends welcome to what he has, he ought not to add to that the guilt of dissimulation by inviting them, but let him own himself to be what he is, that the vile person may not be called liberal nor the churl bountiful, Isa 32:5. 2. One can have no comfort in accepting the entertainments that are given grudgingly: "Eat not thou the bread of such a man; let him keep it to himself. Do not sponge upon those that are bountiful, nor make thyself burdensome to any; but especially scorn to be beholden to those that are paltry and not sincere. Better have a dinner of herbs, and true welcome, than dainty meats without it. Therefore," (1.) "Judge of the man as his mind is. Thou thinkest to pay thy respect to him as a friend, so thou takest him to be, because he compliments thee, but as he thinks in his heart so is he, not as he speaks with his tongue." We are that really, both to God and man, which we are inwardly; and neither religion nor friendship is worth any thing further than as it is sincere. (2.) "Judge of the meat as the digestion is and as it agrees with thee. He bids thee eat freely, but, first or last, he will discover his sordid covetous humour, and as he thinks in his heart so will he look, and give thee to understand that thou art not welcome, and then the morsel thou hast eaten thou shalt vomit up; the very thought of that will make thee even to vomit the meat thou hast eaten, and eat the words thou has spoken in returning his compliments and giving him thanks for his civilities. Thou shalt lose thy sweet words, which he has given thee and thou has given him."

⁹ Speak not in the ears of a fool: for he will despise the wisdom of thy words.

We are here directed not to cast pearls before swine (Mt 7:6) and not to expose things sacred to the contempt and ridicule of profane scoffers. It is our duty to take all fit occasions to speak of divine things; but, 1. There are some that will make a jest of every thing, though it be ever so prudently and pertinently spoken, that will not only despise a wise man's words, but despise even the wisdom of them, that in them which is most improvable for their own edification; they will particularly reproach that, as if it had an ill design upon them, which they must guard against. 2. Those that do so forfeit the benefit of good advice and instruction, and a wise man is not only allowed, but advised, not to speak in the ears of such fools; let them be foolish still, and let not precious breath be thrown away upon them. If what a wise man says in his wisdom will not be heard, let him hold his peace, and try whether the wisdom of that will be regarded.

¹⁰ Remove not the old landmark; and enter not into the fields of the fatherless:
¹¹ For their redeemer is mighty; he shall plead their cause with thee.

Note, 1. The fatherless are taken under God's special protection; with him they not only find mercy shown to them (Ho 14:3) but justice done for them. He is their Redeemer, their Goël, their near kinsman, that will take their part and stand up for them with jealousy, as taking himself affronted in the injuries done to them. As their Redeemer he will plead their cause against those that do them any injury, and, one way or other, will not only defend their right, and recover it for them, but avenge the wrongs done to them. And he is mighty, almighty; his omnipotence is engaged and employed for their protection, and their proudest and most powerful oppressors will not only find themselves an unequal match for this, but will find that it is at their peril to contend with it. 2. Every man therefore must be careful not to injure them in any thing, or to invade their rights, either by a clandestine removal of the old land-marks or by a forcible entry into their fields. Being fatherless, they have none to redress their wrongs, and, being in their childhood, they do not so much as apprehend the wrong that is done them. Sense of honour, and much more the fear of God, would restrain men from offering injury to children, especially fatherless children.

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Parental Duties

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父母的本分

¹² 你要留心領受訓誨,側耳聽知識的言語。
¹³ 不可不管教孩童;你用杖打他,他必不至於死。
¹⁴ 你要用杖打他,就可以救他的靈魂免下陰間。
¹⁵ 我兒,你若心中智慧,我的心也歡喜,我的心腸也快樂。
¹⁶ 你的嘴唇若說正直話,我的心腸也快樂。

此處有:1. 一個正在教導兒女的父親。他被引入此處,勸勉兒子專心讀書、尤其是讀聖經和問答、留意知識的言語——藉此他可以認識自己的本分、危險和利益——又不要以聽了為足,倒要留心領受、喜愛它們、又使自己的意志順服它們的權威。訓誨被應用到心中時,心才領受訓誨。2. 一個正在責打兒女的父親。慈愛的父母幾乎不忍心如此行;這與他的本性大相徑庭。但他發現這是必要的;這是他的本分,所以當有需要時他不敢不管教(捨了杖、就慣壞了孩子);他用杖打他——給他溫和的責罰,是人的眾子所受的責打,不是我們加在牲畜身上的那種。用杖打他,他必不至於死。杖不會殺他;不,它還要防止他因那些惡行而自取滅亡——而杖正是約束他脫離那些惡行所必需的。目前它不喜樂、反覺愁苦——對父母和孩子都是如此;但若以智慧施行、為良善而設計、又伴以禱告、蒙神賜福,它就可以成為防止他徹底敗壞、又救他的靈魂免下陰間的蒙恩途徑。我們最大的關切當是關於兒女的靈魂;我們不可任憑他們身陷地獄的危險中、而不盡一切可能的方法、以最大的關懷和掛慮將他們如同從火中抽出來的柴一般搶救出來。寧可身體受痛,只要靈魂在主耶穌的日子可以得救。3. 一個正在鼓勵兒女的父親,告訴他:(1.) 他所期望的一切、不過是為他自己好的事——就是他的心有智慧、他的嘴唇說正直話——他受良好原則管治、又藉著那些原則特別約束自己的舌頭。那些在年幼時學會說正直話、又不敢說任何壞話的人,長大後可望行正直的事。(2.) 他若如此不負所望,這對他將是何等安慰:「你若心中智慧,我的心就歡喜——為你歡喜——我的心腸也快樂——就是那個為你受了許多操心勞力、又許多次為你心痛的心腸——你當如此以感恩回報。」請留意,兒女的智慧必成為父母和師長的喜樂——他們沒有比看見兒女遵行真理更大的喜樂了,3Jo 1:4。「兒女們,你們若有智慧和善良、敬虔和正直,神必喜悅你們——那就是我們的喜樂:我們必認為在你們身上所費的教導工夫沒有白費;它將成為我們為你們所獻許多禱告的安慰回答;我們必卸下許多掛慮、不必再如此嚴格嚴厲地監督你們、我們和你們都因此更加安舒。我們必因盼望而喜樂——你們若在我們年老時還活著,必成為我們的尊榮和安慰;你們必在你們那一代中高舉基督的名;你們必在今世活得舒適、又在來世活得幸福。」

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Parental Duties

¹² Apply thine heart unto instruction, and thine ears to the words of knowledge.
¹³ Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.
¹⁴ Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.
¹⁵ My son, if thine heart be wise, my heart shall rejoice, even mine.
¹⁶ Yea, my reins shall rejoice, when thy lips speak right things.

Here is, 1. A parent instructing his child. He is here brought in persuading him to give his mind to his book, and especially to the scriptures and his catechism, to attend to the words of knowledge, by which he might come to know his duty, and danger, and interest, and not to think it enough to give them the hearing, but to apply his heart to them, to delight in them, and bow his will to the authority of them. The heart is then applied to the instruction when the instruction is applied to the heart. 2. A parent correcting his child. A tender parent can scarcely find in his heart to do this; it goes much against the grain. But he finds it is necessary; it is his duty, and therefore he dares not withhold correction when there is occasion for it (spare the rod and spoil the child); he beats him with the rod, gives him a gentle correction, the stripes of the sons of men, not such as we give to beasts. Beat him with the rod and he shall not die. The rod will not kill him; nay, it will prevent his killing himself by those vicious courses which the rod will be necessary to restrain him from. For the present it is not joyous, but grievous, both to the parent and to the child; but when it is given with wisdom, designed for good, accompanied with prayer, and blessed of God, it may prove a happy means of preventing his utter destruction and delivering his soul from hell. Our great care must be about our children's souls; we must not see them in danger of hell without using all possible means, with the utmost care and concern, to snatch them as brands out of everlasting burnings. Let the body smart, so that the spirit be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus. 3. A parent encouraging his child, telling him, (1.) What was all he expected, nothing but what would be for his own good, that his heart be wise and that his lips speak right things, that he be under the government of good principles, and that by those principles he particularly maintain a good environment of his tongue. It is to be hoped that those will do right things when they grow up who learn to speak right things when they are young, and dare not speak any bad words. (2.) What a comfort it would be to him if herein he answered his expectation: "If thy heart be wise, my heart shall rejoice, shall rejoice in thee, even mine, who have taken so much care and pains about thee, my heart, that has many a time ached for thee, for which thou shouldst study thus to make a grateful requital." Note, The wisdom of children will be the joy of their parents and teachers, who have no greater joy than to see them walk in the truth, 3Jo 1:4. "Children, if you be wise and good, devout and conscientious, God will be pleased with you, and that will be our joy: we shall think our labour in instructing you well bestowed; it will be a comfortable answer for the many prayers we have put up for you; we shall be eased of a great deal of care, shall not need to be so strict and severe in watching over you, and shall consequently be the easier both to you and to ourselves. We shall rejoice in hope that you will be a credit and comfort to us, if we should live to be old, that you will bear up the name of Christ in your generation, that you will live comfortably in this world and happily in another."

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Parental Advice

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父母的忠告

¹⁷ 你心中不要嫉妒罪人,只要終日敬畏耶和華。
¹⁸ 因為至終必有善報,你的指望也不致斷絕。

此處有:1. 一個必要的警告、防備對興旺的褻瀆存任何好感:「你心中不要嫉妒罪人;不可因他們犯罪所取的自由、又因他們的成功而嫉妒——他們的景況寧可被憐恤也不可被嫉妒。他們的興旺是他們的分(Ps 12:14)、不、是他們的毒藥」,Pr 1:32。我們不可在心中對神的護理懷有任何隱秘的不滿——即使它看來向他們微笑——也不可願望自己在他們的景況中。「你心不可效法罪人」(有人如此讀);不要照他們所行的去行;不要與他們同行在他們的路上;不要採用他們致富的手段——即使他們因之興旺。2. 一個極好的指引、為要在我們心中時時保持對神的高舉之念:你當終日敬畏耶和華——每日又全日。我們當在敬畏耶和華中如同在我們的職業中——以聖潔的敬拜神、順服他的誡命、順服他的護理、又常常顧念要討他喜悅來操練自己;我們當在其中如同在我們的環境中——以默念神的榮耀又順從他的旨意為樂。我們當專心敬畏他(Ps 119:38);又以之為我們在一切所說所行中管治我們的原則。我們一生所有的日子都當常常在心中保持對神的敬畏、又當尊重他的權威、又畏懼他的烈怒。我們當常常如此在他的敬畏中、以至從不出離它。3. 兩者的一個好理由(Pr 23:18):至終必有善報——有結局和盼望、如Jer 29:11。惡人的興旺必有結局——所以不要嫉妒他們(Ps 73:17);你的患難也必有結局——所以不要厭煩;你的服事也必有結局——你的工作和爭戰必將完成、完全的愛不久就將趕出懼怕、而你的指望不但不致斷絕或失望、更必被無限超越。想到結局就能幫助我們與路上的一切困難和灰心和解。

¹⁹ 我兒,你當聽,當有智慧,當引導你的心在正道上。
²⁰ 不要與好飲酒的人同行;不要與貪吃肉的人來往。
²¹ 因為好酒貪食的,必致貧窮;好睡覺的,必穿破爛衣服。
²² 你當聽從生你的父親;你母親老了,也不可藐視她。
²³ 你當買真理,也不可賣掉;又當有智慧、有訓誨和聰明。
²⁴ 義人的父親必大得快樂;人生智慧的兒子,必因他歡喜。
²⁵ 你要使父母歡喜,使生你的母親快樂。
²⁶ 我兒,將你的心歸我;你的眼目也要喜悅我的道路。
²⁷ 因為淫婦是深坑;外女是窄阱。
²⁸ 她也埋伏似乎要搶奪獵物;在人中間加增奸惡的人。

此處有父母當給兒女的好的忠告;話被放在他們口中、使他們可以*教養孩童、使他走當行的道。*此處我們有:

I. 一個懇切的呼召、叫年輕人留意他們敬虔父母的忠告——不但此處所給的、更包括一切有益的教訓:「我兒,你當聽、當有智慧」,Pr 23:19。「這將是你有智慧的證據、又是使你更有智慧的方法。」智慧如同信心一樣是從聽道來的。又(Pr 23:22):「你當聽從生你的父親——所以他對你有權威、又對你有情誼——而你可以確知、除了你自己的好處之外、他不會有別的目的。」我們當敬重生我們的肉身之父——他們是生出我們的工具;更當順服和順從那我們靈魂的父——他造了我們、又是我們生命的源頭。既然母親也出於對神盡本分的心、又出於對兒女的愛而給他好的教訓、就不可在她年老時藐視她、也不可藐視她的忠告。當母親年老時、我們可以設想兒女已經長大;但不可自以為已經過了受她教導的年齡、倒當因她年歲的眾多、和其中所教的智慧而更加尊重她。輕慢的年輕人或許會拿年老母親的好忠告開玩笑、又以為不必理會一個老婦人所說的;但這樣的人到了那日有許多要交账的——不但因為藐視了好的忠告、更因為輕看又使一位好母親憂傷,Pr 30:17。

II. 一個論據、用以加強這呼召——取自這事將帶給父母極大的安慰,Pr 23:24,25。請留意:1. 兒女當研究如何能使善良父母的心歡喜、又要越發如此行、好使他們在孩子身上大得快樂——甚至當患難的日子來到、就是他們說毫無喜樂的那些年日——唯獨看見兒女行得好、如同巴西萊看見金罕被厚待。2. 兒女若有義又有智慧、就必成為父母的喜樂。公義就是真正的智慧;那些行善的人對自己如此有益。那些不但有智慧(就是有見識又博學的)、更有義(就是誠實又善良的)、又不但有義(就是有良心又出於好意的)、更有智慧(就是在管理自己上有謹慎和審慎的)的人、才是完全做到了所當做的。兒女若如此——尤其全部兒女都如此——父母就必歡喜、又以為為他們所做或所做的一切都不算多;他們在孩子身上得著滿足、又為他們感謝神;尤其是那以痛苦生他們、又以勞苦乳養他們的母親、必在他們身上歡喜、又以為已得著好的回報——憂愁更被忘記——因為其中的結果是一個智慧和善良的人、是他所生入之世界的祝福。

III. 關於智慧和美德的一些總的誡命。

  1. 你當引導你的心在正道上,Pr 23:19。心是當受照管又當引導端正的;靈魂的動態和情感當朝向正確的對象、又在穩定的引導之下。心若被引導在正道上、腳步就必被引導、行事為人也必端正。

  2. 你當買真理,也不可賣掉,Pr 23:23。真理是心所當受其引導和管治的——因為沒有真理就沒有善;沒有正確的原則就沒有規律的實行。我們當被真理——就是已知的、又已信的——的大能所保守、不犯罪、又被約束去盡本分。理性當被智慧和訓誨充分充實、所以:(1.) 我們當買它——就是說、當為它捨棄任何東西。他不說我們當以什麼價格買它、因為我們不能以太貴的價格買它、又必須不惜任何代價得著它;無論它花費我們什麼、我們必不後悔這交易。當我們為知識的手段費財、又決心不讓如此好的事業挨餓時、我們就是*買真理。*財富當用以獲得知識、而不是知識用以獲取財富。當我們費心尋求真理、好使我們可以認識它、又可以分辨它和錯謬時、我們就是買它。*天將萬物售與勤勞者。*當我們寧願在屬世的利益上受損、也不肯否認或疏忽真理時、我們就是買它;而它是一顆如此大價的珍珠、以至我們當情願捨棄一切來購買它——當情願使產業、貿易、升遣都破產、也不肯使信仰和好的良心破產。(2.) 我們不可賣它。不要為快樂、尊榮、財富——這世上任何事物——而放棄它。不要疏忽對它的研究、也不要拋棄對它的承認、也不要從它的管治下叛離——為了獲得或保全任何屬世的利益。你當守住純正話語的規模、又絕不可在任何條件下放棄它。

  3. 將你的心歸我,Pr 23:26。神在這勸勉中如同對兒女說話:「兒子、女兒、將你的心歸我。」心就是這位大神向我們每一個人所要求和呼召的;無論我們給什麼、若不把心給他、就不蒙悅納。我們當把愛放在他身上。我們的思想當多與他相交、又以他為我們最高的目標。我們心中的意圖當被固定。我們當以奉獻自己歸主為我們自己的作為和行動、又當在其中自由而愉快。我們不可妄想把心分給神和世界;他要全部或不要。*你要盡心愛耶和華你的神。*我們當對這呼召立刻回答:「我的父、求你收下我的心——它如此、求你使它成為當有的樣子;求你佔有它、又在其中設立你的寶座。」

  4. 你的眼目也要喜悅我的道路;當留心神話語的準則、他護理的引導、和他百姓的好榜樣。我們的眼目當觀察這些——如同寫字的人觀察他的範本——好使我們可以留在正路上、又可以在其中前行和堅忍。

IV. 對那些在一切罪中最能毀壞靈魂中智慧和恩典之種子、又使它貧乏和毀滅的罪的特別警告。1. 貪食和醉酒,Pr 23:20,21。世上充滿了這罪的例子和試探、而一切年輕人都當防備它、又與之保持距離。不要與好飲酒的人同行;我們被允許稍微用點酒(1Ti 5:23)、但不可多、不可以此為業、絕不可飲酒過度。不要與貪吃肉的人來往——如同以色列人那樣、他們極其貪求肉食、說:誰給我們肉吃呢?而保羅雖然有自由吃肉、卻決定他寧願一生不吃肉、也不叫他的弟兄跌倒;他對肉食如此淡漠,1Co 8:13。不可過量吃肉。肉和飲料上都當避免無節制。不可奢華吃肉——不以任何東西為足、除非是極其講究和精美的、美味的菜餚和強制的肉食。有些人不但以講究飲食為樂、更以此為驕傲——如同他們所說的吃得好;好像那是紳士的裝飾、其實那是基督徒的羞恥——以肚腹為神。「不要作好酒的人、又不要作貪吃的人;所以、不要與好飲酒的人同行、也不要與貪吃的人來往;不要給他們面子、免得你學了他們的道、又不知不覺地陷入那些罪中——或至少失去對它們的畏懼和厭惡。他們渴望你在他們中間;因為自己放蕩的人十分願望放蕩別人;所以不可滿足他們、免得你危及自己。」他從這罪的昂貴和使人貧窮的趨勢中取得反對它的論據:而人若不肯因它對他們屬世的利益——那是他們最貼心的——所造成的毀滅而被阻止、就不必驚奇他們不被神的話中所告訴他們的——關於這罪在他們屬靈和永遠的事上所造成的損害——所嚇退。好酒貪食的人雖然被告知必致貧窮、不、即使被告知必到地獄去、仍恨惡受改正。醉酒是好睡覺的原因;它使人麻木、又使人對本業不留心、於是一切都走向破敗:如此活得體面的人竟至於穿破爛衣服。2. 淫亂。這是另一種奪去當歸給神之心的罪,Ho 4:11。他表明伴隨那罪的危險,Pr 23:27,28:(1.) 這是一種一旦捲入就少有人能恢復自己的罪。它如同深坑和窄阱——幾乎不可能出來;所以遠離它的邊緣就是智慧。當防備向這罪作任何接近、因為從中撤退如此困難——那當帶頭撤退的良心已被它敗壞、又神的恩典已被 forfeited。(2.) 這是一種迷惑人走向毀滅的罪:淫婦如同強盜埋伏——假裝友誼、卻圖謀最大的禍害——要搶去他們一切有價值的東西、又要剝去他們的盔甲和裝飾。即使那些受了美德教育、又竭力逃避淫婦的人、她也必埋伏等他們——好在她可以趁他們不防備、又在她有利的時候攻擊他們。所以任何人都不可在任何時候安然無慮。(3.) 這是一種比任何別的罪更能促成罪惡和不道德在一國中蔓延的罪:它*在人中間加增奸惡的人。*一個淫婦可以是許多寶貴靈魂的毀滅、又可以幫助敗壞全城。它加增奸詐的人;它不但使丈夫對妻子不忠、僕人對主人不忠、更使許多已經承認信仰的人拋棄信仰、又違背與神所立的約。所以不潔的房子就是如此的瘟疫之所——當被那些負責照料公眾福祉的人所取締。

英文原文

Parental Advice

¹⁷ Let not thine heart envy sinners: but be thou in the fear of the LORD all the day long.
¹⁸ For surely there is an end; and thine expectation shall not be cut off.

Here is, 1. A necessary caution against entertaining any favourable thoughts of prospering profaneness: "Let not thy heart envy sinners; do not grudge them either the liberty they take to sin or the success they are to be pitied rather than envied. Their prosperity is their portion (Ps 12:14), nay, it is their poison," Pr 1:32. We must not harbour in our hearts any secret discontent at the providence of God, though it seem to smile upon them, nor wish ourselves in their condition. "Let not thy heart imitate sinners" (so some read it); do not as they do; walk not in the way with them; use not the methods they take to enrich themselves, though they thrive by them. 2. An excellent direction to maintain high thoughts of God in our minds at all times: Be thou in the fear of the Lord every day and all the day long. We must be in the fear of the Lord as in our employment, exercising ourselves in holy adorings of God, in subjection to his precepts, submission to his providences, and a constant care to please him; we must be in it as in our element, taking a pleasure in contemplating God's glory and complying with his will. We must be devoted to his fear (Ps 119:38); and governed by it as our commanding principle in all we say and do. All the days of our life we must constantly keep up an awe of God upon our spirits, must pay a deference to his authority, and have a dread of his wrath. We must be always so in his fear as never to be out of it. 3. A good reason for both of these (Pr 23:18): Surely there is an end, an end and expectation, as Jer 29:11. There will be an end of the prosperity of the wicked, therefore do not envy them (Ps 73:17); there will be an end of thy afflictions, therefore be not weary of them, an end of thy services, thy work and warfare will be accomplished, perfect love will shortly cast out fear, and thy expectation of the reward not only will be not cut off, or disappointed, but it will be infinitely outdone. The consideration of the end will help to reconcile us to all the difficulties and discouragements of the way.

¹⁹ Hear thou, my son, and be wise, and guide thine heart in the way.
²⁰ Be not among winebibbers; among riotous eaters of flesh:
²¹ For the drunkard and the glutton shall come to poverty: and drowsiness shall clothe a man with rags.
²² Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old.
²³ Buy the truth, and sell it not; also wisdom, and instruction, and understanding.
²⁴ The father of the righteous shall greatly rejoice: and he that begetteth a wise child shall have joy of him.
²⁵ Thy father and thy mother shall be glad, and she that bare thee shall rejoice.
²⁶ My son, give me thine heart, and let thine eyes observe my ways.
²⁷ For a whore is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit.
²⁸ She also lieth in wait as for a prey, and increaseth the transgressors among men.

Here is good advice for parents to give to their children; words are put into their mouths, that they may train them up in the way they should go. Here we have,

I. An earnest call to young people to attend to the advice of their godly parents, not only to this that is here given, but to all other profitable instructions: "Here, my son, and be wise, Pr 23:19. This will be an evidence that thou art wise and a means to make thee wiser." Wisdom, as faith, comes by hearing. And again (Pr 23:22): "Hearken unto thy father who begot thee, and who therefore has an authority over thee and an affection for thee, and, thou mayest be sure, can have no other design than thy own good." We ought to give reverence to the fathers of our flesh, who begot us, and were the instruments of our being; much more ought we to obey and be in subjection to the Father of our spirits, who made us and is the author of our being. And since the mother also, from a sense of duty to God and from love to her child, gives him good instructions, let him not despise her, nor her advice, when she is old. When the mother was grown old we may suppose the children to be grown up; but let them not think themselves past being taught, even by her, but rather respect her the more for the multitude of her years and the wisdom which they teach. Scornful and insolent young men will make a jest, it may be, of the good advice of an aged mother, and think themselves not concerned to heed what an old woman says; but such will have a great deal to answer for another day, not only as having set at nought good counsel, but as having slighted and grieved a good mother, Pr 30:17.

II. An argument to enforce this call, taken from the great comfort which this will be to their parents, Pr 23:24,25. Note, 1. It is the duty of children to study how they may gladden the hearts of their good parents, and do it yet more and more, so that they may greatly rejoice in them, even when the evil days come and the years of which they say they have no pleasure in them but this, to see their children do well, as Barzillai to see Chimham preferred. 2. Children will be a joy to their parents if they be righteous and wise. Righteousness is true wisdom; those who do good so well for themselves. Those are completely such as they should be who are not only wise (that is, knowing and learned), but righteous (that is, honest and good), and not only righteous (that is, conscientious and well-meaning), but wise (that is, prudent and discreet) in the management of themselves. If such the children be, especially all the children, the father and mother will be glad, and think nothing too much that they have done, or do, for them; they will please themselves in them, and give God thanks for them; particularly she that bore them with pain, and nursed them with pains, will rejoice in them, and reckon herself well requited, and the sorrow more than forgotten, because a wise and good man is the product of it, who is a blessing to the world he was born into.

III. Some general precepts of wisdom and virtue.

1. Guide thy heart in the way, Pr 23:19. It is the heart that must be taken care of and directed aright; the motions and affections of the soul must be towards right objects and under a steady guidance. If the heart be guided in the way, the steps will be guided and the conversation well ordered.

2. Buy the truth and sell it not, Pr 23:23. Truth is that by which the heart must be guided and governed, for without truth there is no goodness; no regular practices without right principles. It is by the power of truth, known and believed, that we must be kept back from sin and constrained to duty. The understanding must be well-informed with wisdom and instruction, and therefore, (1.) We must buy it, that is, be willing to part with any thing for it. He does not say at what rate we must buy it, because we cannot buy it too dear, but must have it at any rate; whatever it costs us, we shall not repent the bargain. When we are at expense for the means of knowledge, and resolved not to starve so good a cause, then we buy the truth. Riches should be employed for the getting of knowledge, rather than knowledge for the getting of riches. When we are at pains in searching after truth, that we may come to the knowledge of it and may distinguish between it and error, then we buy it. Dii laboribus omnia vendunt—Heaven concedes every thing to the laborious. When we choose rather to suffer loss in our temporal interest than to deny or neglect the truth they we buy it; and it is a pearl of such great price that we must be willing to part with all to purchase it, must make shipwreck of estate, trade, preferment, rather than of faith and a good conscience. (2.) We must not sell it. Do not part with it for pleasures, honours, riches, any things in this world. Do not neglect the study of it, nor throw off the profession of it, nor revolt from under the dominion of it, for the getting or saving of any secular interest whatsoever. Hold fast the form of sound words, and never let it go upon any terms.

3. Give me thy heart, Pr 23:26. God in this exhortation, speaks to us as unto children: "Son, Daughter, Give my thy heart." The heart is that which the great God requires and calls for from every one of us; whatever we give, if we do not give him our hearts, it will not be accepted. We must set our love upon him. Our thoughts must converse much with him, and on him, as our highest end. The intents of our hearts must be fastened. We must make it our own act and deed to devote ourselves to the Lord, and we must be free and cheerful in it. We must not think to divide the heart between God and the world; he will have all or none. Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart. To this call we must readily answer, "My father, take my heart, such as it is, and make it such as it should be; take possession of it, and set up thy throne in it."

4. Let thy eyes observe my ways; have an eye to the rule of God's word, the conduct of his providence, and the good examples of his people. Our eyes must observe these, as he that writes observes his copy, that we may keep in the right paths and may proceed and persevere in them.

IV. Some particular cautions against those sins which are, of all sins, the most destructive to the seeds of wisdom and grace in the soul, which impoverish and ruin it. 1. Gluttony and drunkenness, Pr 23:20,21. The world is full of examples of this sin and temptations to it, which all young people are concerned to stand upon their guard against and keep at a distance from Be not a wine-bibber; we are allowed to drink a little wine (1Ti 5:23), but not much, not to make a trade of it, never to drink to excess. Be not a riotous eater of flesh, as the Israelites were, who lusted exceedingly after it, saying, Who will give us flesh to eat? Whereas Paul, though he is free to eat flesh, yet resolves that he will eat no flesh while the world stands rather than make his brother to offend; so indifferent is he to it, 1Co 8:13. Be not an excessive eater of flesh. Intemperance must be avoided in meat as well as drink. Be not a luxurious eater of flesh, not pleased with any thing but what is very nice and delicate, savoury dishes, and forced meat. Some take not only a pleasure, but a pride, in being curious about their diet, and, as they call it, eating well; as if that were the ornament of a gentleman, which is really the shame of a Christian, making a God of the belly. "Be not a wine bibber, and be not a riotous eater; and therefore, be not among wine-bibbers nor among riotous eaters; do not give them countenance, lest thou learn their ways and insensibly fall into those sins, or at least lose the dread and detestation of them. They covet to have thee among them; for those that are debauched themselves are very desirous to debauch others; therefore do not gratify them, lest thou endanger thyself." He fetches an argument against this sin from the expensiveness of it and its tendency to impoverish men: and if men will not be deterred from it by the ruin it brings on their secular interests, which lie nearest their hearts, no marvel that they are not frightened from it by what they are told out of the word of God of the mischief it does them in their spiritual and eternal concerns. The drunkard and the glutton hate to be reformed, though they are told they shall come to poverty, nay, though they are told they shall come to hell. Drunkenness is the cause of drowsiness; it stupefies men, and makes them inattentive to business, and then all goes to wreck and ruin: thus men that have lived creditably come to be clothed with rags. 2. Whoredom. This is another sin which takes away the heart that should be given to God, Ho 4:11. He shows the danger which attends that sin, Pr 23:27,28, (1.) It is a sin from which few recover themselves when once they are entangled in it. It is like a deep ditch and a narrow pit, which it is almost impossible to get out of; and therefore it is wisdom to keep far enough from the brink of it. Take heed of making any approaches towards this sin, because it is so hard to make a retreat from it, conscience, which should head the retreat, being debauched by it, and divine grace forfeited. (2.) It is a sin which bewitches men to their ruin: The adulteress lies in wait as a robber, pretending friendship, but designing the greatest mischief, to rob them of all they have that is valuable, to strip them both of their armour and of their ornaments. Even those who, being virtuously educated, endeavour to shun the adulteress, she will lie in wait for, that she may assault them when they are off their guard and she has them at an advantage. Let none therefore be at any time secure. (3.) It is a sin that contributes more than any other to the spreading of vice and immorality in a kingdom: It increases the transgressors among men. One adulteress may be the ruin of many a precious soul and may help to debauch a whole town. It increases the treacherous or perfidious ones; it not only occasions husbands to be false to their wives and servants to their masters, but many that have professed religion to throw off their profession and break their covenants with God. Houses of uncleanness are therefore such pest-houses as ought to be suppressed by those whose office it is to take care of the public welfare.

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Cautions against Intemperance

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防備無節制的警告

²⁹ 誰有禍患?誰有憂愁?誰有爭鬥?誰有哀歎?誰無故受傷?誰眼目紅赤?
³⁰ 就是那久飲酒的人,去尋求調和酒的人。
³¹ 酒發紅、在杯中閃爍、你不可觀看,雖然下咽舒暢。
³² 終久是咬你如蛇、刺你如毒蛇。
³³ 你眼必看見異怪的異象,你心必發出乖謬的話。
³⁴ 你必像躺臥在海中,或像臥在桅竿上。
³⁵ 人打我我卻未受傷、你必說;他們鞭打我我並不覺得,我幾時清醒?我仍去尋酒。

所羅門在此對醉酒的罪提出公正的警告、為要印證他在Pr 23:20所說的。

I. 他警戒眾人要避開引人犯這罪的試探(Pr 23:31):酒發紅時你不可觀看。在迦南、紅酒被視為最好的酒、因此被稱為葡萄的血。評酒家以酒的顏色等多種指標來判斷酒;有些酒、他們說、看來迷人、看來好到似乎在說「來喝我吧」;它閃爍、十分順口而下、或者它的辛辣反令人愉悅。論到豐厚濃烈的酒、甚至說它能使沉睡者的嘴唇說話(So 7:9)。但你不可觀看。1. 「不要被感官轄制、要被理性和宗教轄制。不要貪圖那悅目的、盼望它也悅口;卻當讓你的嚴肅思想糾正你感官的錯誤、說服你那看來令人愉悅的其實是有害的、並相應地決心拒絕它。不要讓心跟隨眼、因為它是欺騙人的嚮導。」2. 「不要對這罪或任何別的罪的魅力太過大意;不可觀看、免得你貪戀、免得你摘取禁果。」注意、那要免犯任何罪的人、必須使自己遠離它一切的機會和起頭、並懼怕進入其誘惑的範圍之內、免得被之勝過。

II. 他指明醉酒之罪的許多有害後果、以加強這警告。當心餌、因為怕鉤:終久是咬(Pr 23:32)。一切的罪至終都是苦的、這個罪尤其如此。它咬如蛇——當酒徒因暴飲致病、被拋入水腫或某種致命的疾病中、家業敗落敗壞、尤其是當他的良心被喚醒、回顧時不能不恐懼並痛恨自己時——最糟的是至終、當醉酒的杯換成戰兢之杯、主怒氣的杯、其渣滓他必永遠飲著、卻連一滴水也沒有來涼他那發炎的舌頭。為消除罪中樂趣的試探之力、當預見它的刑罰、並預見它若不藉悔改阻止、至終將有何結局。它的後果是咬(原文如此);所以當思想它的結局。但默示的作者選擇具體說明這罪的那些現今可以感知的有害後果。

  1. 它使人陷入爭吵、使他們與別人爭吵、又說作那使別人有理由與他們爭吵的事(Pr 23:29)。他問:誰有禍患?誰有憂愁?在這世上、誰沒有呢?許多人有禍患有憂愁、卻不能自助;但酒徒卻是故意為自己製造禍患和憂愁。那有爭鬥的、便有禍患和憂愁;而酒徒正是那嘴唇引起爭論的愚妄人。酒一入口、理智便出走、情慾便升高;由此而來的是酒後的毆鬥、酒後的混戰、杯邊的酒後爭論;許多煩人敗家的訴訟便是這樣開始的。有哀歎——言語上的爭吵和下流話的交換;卻不止於此:你還有無故受傷——因為緣由是酒徒無力判斷的事、他們便不問為何或何故地亂打人、又必料到自己被同樣對待。人為保衛國家及其正當權利而受的傷是他們的尊榮;但無故受傷——在他們情慾的役事中受的——卻是他們羞辱的記號。不但如此、酒徒在自己柔弱的地方傷了自己、因為他們眼目紅赤——內部發炎的症狀;他們的視力因此減弱、他們的面貌也被毀損。這是因為:(1)飲酒太久——久飲酒、把當花在有用業務或當為業務預備的睡眠上的時間花在酒徒的同伴中(Pr 23:30)。啊、千萬人如此丟棄的寶貴時辰——每一個都必在大日被列入交賬!(2)飲那烈而醉人的。他們去各處尋找能討好自己的酒;他們最大的詢問是:「哪裏有最好的酒?」他們尋求調和酒——最可口卻也最上頭的、如此情願地以理性為祭品來討好自己的味覺!

  2. 它使人不潔而放肆(Pr 23:33)。(1)眼目變得不受理智管束、看見淫婦而起淫念、如此將淫亂放進心中。酒中有情慾之火。(2)舌頭也變得不受理智管束、信口胡言;藉著它、心發出乖謬的話——與理性、宗教和普通禮節相悖的話、他們在清醒時說了會覺得羞愧的。人在醉酒時會說何等荒謬、不連貫的胡話、而他們在別的時候能說得極好、極其中肯!

  3. 它使人麻木愚昧(Pr 23:34)。人醉酒時不知自己在何處、也不知自己說甚麼作甚麼。(1)他們的頭暈眩、當他們躺下睡覺時、如同被海的翻滾波浪拋擲、或如同臥在桅竿上;因此他們抱怨頭在轉;他們的睡眠通常不安、不能恢復、他們的夢是騷亂的。(2)他們的判斷被蒙蔽、沒有比那睡在桅竿上的人更多的穩定和一致:他們喝了就忘記律法(Pr 31:5);他們因酒犯了錯(Isa 28:7)、又如同他們說話一樣偏離地思想。(3)他們不留意也不懼怕危險、對來自神或人的責罰毫無知覺。他們處在死亡和定罪的迫切危險中、如同睡在桅竿上一般暴露、卻仍安然而睡。當主的可怕擺在他們面前時、他們不懼任何危險;不、當神的審判實際臨到他們時、他們不覺痛;他捆綁他們時、他們不呼喊。把酒徒枷號、他對刑罰毫無知覺。人打我我卻未受傷;我並不覺得:它對我沒有任何影響。醉酒使我變成木頭石頭;他們幾乎不能算為動物;他們活著卻如同死了。

  4. 最糟的是心在罪中剛硬了、罪人雖有這一切伴隨的現今禍害、卻頑固地堅持其中、並恨惡被改正:我幾時清醒?他要抖落醉酒之睡的鎖鏈、好不容易;他幾乎擺不脫酒的煙霧、雖然他與之搏鬥、好使他(因早晨口渴)可以再回去喝。他對一切美德和尊榮的感覺如此完全喪失、他的良心如此可悲地被烙鐵烙慣了、以至他不羞於說:我仍去尋酒。毫無指望;不、他們貪愛酒徒、在他們後面他們必隨從(Jer 2:25)。這是渴上加醉、又追隨濃酒;那如此行的人可以讀到他們的結局(De 29:19,20)、他們的禍哉(Isa 5:11);若這是罪的結局、我們被指引在它的起頭就止步、便是理所當然的:酒發紅時你不可觀看。

英文原文

Cautions against Intemperance

²⁹ Who hath woe? who hath sorrow? who hath contentions? who hath babbling? who hath wounds without cause? who hath redness of eyes?
³⁰ They that tarry long at the wine; they that go to seek mixed wine.
³¹ Look not thou upon the wine when it is red, when it giveth his colour in the cup, when it moveth itself aright.
³² At the last it biteth like a serpent, and stingeth like an adder.
³³ Thine eyes shall behold strange women, and thine heart shall utter perverse things.
³⁴ Yea, thou shalt be as he that lieth down in the midst of the sea, or as he that lieth upon the top of a mast.
³⁵ They have stricken me, shalt thou say, and I was not sick; they have beaten me, and I felt it not: when shall I awake? I will seek it yet again.

Solomon here gives fair warning against the sin of drunkenness, to confirm what he had said, Pr 23:20.

I. He cautions all people to keep out of the way of temptations to this sin (Pr 23:31): Look not thou upon the wine when it is red. Red wine was in Canaan looked upon as the best wine, it is therefore called the blood of the grape. Critics judge of wine, among other indications, by the colour of it; some wine, they say, looks charmingly, looks so well that it even says, "Come and drink me;" it moves itself aright, goes down very smoothly, or perhaps the roughness of it is grateful. It is said of generous strong-bodied wine that it even causes the lips of those that are asleep to speak, So 7:9. But look not thou upon it. 1. "Be not ruled by sense, but by reason and religion. Covet not that which pleases the eye, in hopes that it will please the taste; but let thy serious thoughts correct the errors of thy senses and convince thee that that which seems delightful is really hurtful, and resolve against it accordingly. Let not the heart walk after the eye, for it is a deceitful guide." 2. "Be not too bold with the charms of this or any other sin; look not, lest thou lust, lest thou take the forbidden fruit." Note Those that would be kept from any sin must keep themselves from all the occasions and beginnings of it, and be afraid of coming within the reach of its allurements, lest they be overcome by them.

II. He shows the many pernicious consequences of the sin of drunkenness, for the enforcement of this caution. Take heed of the bait, for fear of the hook: At the last it bites, Pr 23:32. All sin will be bitterness in the end, and this sin particularly. It bites like a serpent, when the drunkard is made sick by his surfeit, thrown by it into a dropsy or some fatal disease, beggared and ruined in his estate, especially when his conscience is awakened and he cannot reflect upon it without horror and indignation at himself, but worst of all, at last, when the cup of drunkenness shall be turned into a cup of trembling, the cup of the Lord's wrath, the dregs of which he must be for ever drinking, and shall not have a drop of water to cool his inflamed tongue. To take off the force of the temptation that there is in the pleasure of the sin, foresee the punishment of it, and what it will at last end in if repentance prevent not. In its latter end it bites (so the word is); think therefore what will be in the end thereof. But the inspired writer chooses to specify those pernicious consequences of this sin which are present and sensible.

1. It embroils men in quarrels, makes them quarrel with others, and say and do that which gives others occasion to quarrel with them, Pr 23:29. He asks, Who hath woe? Who hath sorrow? Who has not, in this world? Many have woe and sorrow, and cannot help it; but drunkards wilfully create woe and sorrow to themselves. Those that have contentions have woe and sorrow; and drunkards are the fools whose lips enter into contention. When the wine is in the wit is out and the passions are up; and thence come drunken scuffles, and drunken frays, and drunken disputes over the cups; many a vexatious ruining law-suit has begun thus. There is babbling, quarrels in word and the exchanging of scurrilous language; yet it rests not there: you shall have wounds without cause, for causes are things which drunkards are in no capacity to judge of, and therefore they deal blows about without the least consideration why or wherefore, and must expect to be in like manner treated themselves. The wounds which men receive in defence of their country and its just rights are their honour; but wounds without cause, received in the service of their lusts, are marks of their infamy. Nay, drunkards wound themselves in a tender part, for they have redness of eyes, symptoms of an inward inflammation; their sight is weakened by it, and their looks are deformed. This comes, (1.) Of drinking long, tarrying long at the wine, and spending that time in drunken company which should be spent in useful business, or in sleep, which should fit for business, Pr 23:30. O the precious hours which thousands throw away thus, every one of which will be brought into the account at the great day! (2.) Of drinking that which is strong and intoxicating. They go up and down to seek wine that will please them; their great enquiry is, "Where is the best liquor?" They seek mixed wine, which is most palatable, but most heady, so willingly do they sacrifice their reason to please their palate!

2. It makes men impure and insolent, Pr 23:33. (1.) The eyes grow unruly and behold strange women to lust after them, and so let in adultery into the heart. Est Venus in vinis—Wine is oil to the fire of lust. Thy eyes shall behold strange things (so some read it); when men are drunk the house turns round with them, and every thing looks strange to them, so that them they cannot trust their own eyes. (2.) The tongue also grows unruly and talks extravagantly; by it the heart utters perverse things, things contrary to reason, religion, and common civility, which they would be ashamed to speak if they were sober. What ridiculous incoherent nonsense men will talk when they are drunk who at another time will speak admirably well and to the purpose!

3. It stupefies and besots men, Pr 23:34. When men are drunk they know not where they are nor what they say and do. (1.) Their heads are giddy, and when they lie down to sleep they are as if they were tossed by the rolling waves of the sea, or upon the top of a mast; hence they complain that their heads swim; their sleep is commonly unquiet and not refreshing, and their dreams are tumultuous. (2.) Their judgments are clouded, and they have no more steadiness and consistency than he that sleeps upon the top of a mast: they drink and forget the law (Pr 31:5): they err through wine (Isa 28:7), and think as extravagantly as they talk. (3.) They are heedless and fearless of danger, and senseless of the rebukes they are under either from God or man. They are in imminent danger of death, of damnation, lie as much exposed as if they slept upon the top of a mast, and yet are secure and sleep on. They fear no peril when the terrors of the Lord are laid before them; nay, they feel no pain when the judgments of God are actually upon them; they cry not when he binds them. Set a drunkard in the stocks, and he is not sensible of the punishment. "They have stricken me, and I was not sick; I felt it not: it made no impression at all upon me." Drunkenness turns me into stocks and stones; they are scarcely to be reckoned animals; they are dead while they live.

4. Worst of all, the heart is hardened in the sin, and the sinner, notwithstanding all these present mischiefs that attend it, obstinately persist in it, and hates to be reformed: When shall I awake? Much ado he has to shake off the chains of his drunken sleep; he can hardly get clear of the fumes of the wine, though he strives with them, that (being thirsty in the morning) he may return to it again. So perfectly lost is he to all sense of virtue and honour, and so wretchedly is his conscience seared, that he is not ashamed to say, I will seek it yet again. There is no hope; no, they have loved drunkards, and after them they will go, Jer 2:25. This is adding drunkenness to thirst, and following strong drink; those that do so may read their doom De 29:19,20, their woe Isa 5:11, and, if this be the end of the sin, with good reason were we directed to stop at the beginning of it: Look not upon the wine when it is red.